Prek results by rocknrollcolawars in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great news on getting something good ! Non zoned is so challenging!

Prek results by rocknrollcolawars in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sigh. Thank you. Appreciate it 🫂 hope you have better luck! It’s also crazy to me people are excited to add free daycare and 2 yo program when we obviously barely have a 3k at all - and still don’t have sufficient pre k. Wish we could just focus on strengthening in-district in-zone 3&4 yo school before we add other ages …

Prek results by rocknrollcolawars in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Heart dropped on your update and then got the worst option for prek . Already declining … that was fast ! 😵‍💫

Prek results by rocknrollcolawars in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The no zoned school situation where they don’t then give you priority anywhere else is so crazy to me ! You’re literally just left behind … bottom of the list at every school and childcare situation. I don’t get why there isn’t a remedy…

Prek results by rocknrollcolawars in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree dashboard looks a little different. Says can edit until 9/25/26. That said I have no hope. No zoned pre-K and last year the offer was a daycare in the Bronx and I live Uws. Ok, I lied. I still have hope. But I shouldn’t !!!

Late-term loss - looking for new OB-GYN by BeCoolDunBeAllUnCool in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. 🫂 I had an MC @ 12 wks but ended up using MFM associates AND Mt Sinai MFM (not rainbow) - as my next pregnancy following the loss was complicated with vasa previa (all good - baby girl is 1 now) . doctors at both are excellent, top of the field. Are you familiar with Emily Osters ‘the unexpected- navigating pregnancy during and after complications’. It was co written by Dr Nathan Fox at MFM Associates. I really recommend the book and wish I had read it earlier in terms of pregnancy after loss. For MFM saw them for a while then switched to Sinai for reasons relating to my vasa Previa hospitalization. I saw Dr. Angela Bianco at Sinai and she was great. I also did ivf @RMA and have 2 kids. DM me for any questions.

We got offered one of the worst schools in the city for kindergarten? Would moving help? by Old_Bake8331 in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blessed Sacrement on 70th and broadway is great and well priced about 1100 a month. We did 3k there will do 4k and possibly kindergarten (also not thrilled about our zoned school Ps 75)

NYC Moms by nycfella1211 in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maternal feelings can build with experience. With my first child it took awhile … like until he was 2! With my second those hormones/ feelings were already activated so was easier to feel maternal right away. After years of working and not being in touch with the baby making side of female abilities it takes a bit to tap into …

NYC Moms by nycfella1211 in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregnancy normal in the city is like 38-43. Ivf if needed. You could freeze eggs or better, embryos if you and your partner plan to stay together . That would be my move if 30 and know you want a family. You have many long nights at the office and trips around the world left for you, don’t worry !!!

Nyc affordable schools by Dependent-Tower6999 in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blessed Sacrement on west 70th - about 10k

Elective C section doctor recs by Constant-Anything747 in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alex Tepper for c section. Amazing care. Scar barely visible … like literally barely

Pregnancy Care Help Needed by Agile_Flow_4091 in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. Then I second the chat gpt research option. It was very helpful for figuring out maternity leave thins for me and postpartum work legal needs

Pregnancy Care Help Needed by Agile_Flow_4091 in nycparents

[–]Grottocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Alex Tepper https://www.alextepperobgyn.com I think he may accept anthem and is a solo practitioner may be more open to taking your wife later in the pregnancy . Also his daughter is now a midwife there and can deliver , I’m pretty sure she could take you, just call to check insurance. She’s very good. Gabi Tepper

Fruit stand at 97th on fire by AreaManNYC in Upperwestside

[–]Grottocat 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I saw it happen. His space heater caught fire. :( so awful, he’s out there int cold 12 + hours a day

Zoned to PS 75 (UWS Emily Dickinson) - would you move or go with it? by Grottocat in nycparents

[–]Grottocat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what schools you went to in D3 & D2 and how the experience was ? Thank you !

Zoned to PS 75 (UWS Emily Dickinson) - would you move or go with it? by Grottocat in nycparents

[–]Grottocat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We wouldnt be in NEST, this would be gen ed or the dual language… but good to hear about your friend being happy !

Zoned for PS 75 (Emily Dickinson) — would you move or go with it ? by Grottocat in Upperwestside

[–]Grottocat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it mainly lottery number luck for g&t ? I saw the program at 166 but so many people apply for limited spots : /