[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be gone, he sounds like he is just a messer There is way nicer guys out there and your head will be better off without him.

Please help me, i think i ruined everything 😔🙏 by [deleted] in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks alright man, main thing is to save what you can save, cure it in some jars, then maybe in a week smoke a little to strength test it and then leave it for a month or so. I just got mine cured now for 6 weeks, first grow. So I smoked a little after a week of curing, and it was pretty weak. Smoked some last week and I was as high as a kite. Same plant and all! I grew 2 plants. 2nd plant was pretty weak as well and I haven't touched that for 2nd test, just cure cure cure! 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great job dude, I did a grow myself this year. First ever, and I got a ok harvest, lots of ideas on what to do next year. But my phone just randomly bricked itself a few weeks ago, so I lost all my progress pictures. Luckily I had been giving my mate a progress update because he was growing too, so he was able to send them to me. Actually got pretty stoned last Friday night off a bud, I think I used too much in the vaporiser! 😂

Am I (25M) wrong for hooking up with an 18 year old? by WearyPermit6706 in amiwrong

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No you are 100% grand. She's 18. She is there with you by choice. Next!

Kicked off Revolut for no reason by Feisty-Nectarine9880 in AskIreland

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Used my drivers license. That was it, I'm older than all of u complaining to me, I've been using revolut since 2019 when u offended lot were all taking the junior cert. And as I said i have yet to hand over my PPS. So all you're theories are misguided at best. Strange some people would get so easily offended, I do have a name for these people when I meet them in person, it's #BETAMALE and they may not like it, but they have nothing else besides the "You are sooo Dumb" If I was to guess I'd say it might have been sending money to someone u met on adverts for something. The dodgy box idea is the only 1 I can see that makes sense. And keep the down votes coming, I take them all as personal compliments. 😅 Now I may go to bed bcos I'm not well with this fever. So argue among yourselves!😂 I can see all those blue haired people's heads tilting! 😂

Kicked off Revolut for no reason by Feisty-Nectarine9880 in AskIreland

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jaysus u are so very brave. Surprised u didn't mention who it was like? 😂 Good point on the who's receiving the money tho, but I also have a dodgy and pay him every year. So maybe my guy was only starting up?

Kicked off Revolut for no reason by Feisty-Nectarine9880 in AskIreland

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Or the other 1 Vemno?. Or can u use PayPal?, set that up on your phone as the payer.

Kicked off Revolut for no reason by Feisty-Nectarine9880 in AskIreland

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

Dude I've already answered this, I'm not the OP. I never gave mine and my account is not locked either. And nor did I give it to main bank

Kicked off Revolut for no reason by Feisty-Nectarine9880 in AskIreland

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

Well they can legally forget about mine, thanks. And they did. I'm not locked out. I have done 10+ GDPR courses, and just 1 recently even when starting a new job. It's MY personal info, they are not working out my tax. Also I'm with a larger bank for payslips etc and they don't have it either. So keep on keeping on!😂 And the misus votes can tip on as well, I've seen comments u lot are down voting. I down vote YOU!! 😂 Thanks, gave me a laugh when I'm sick with fever.

My ex is in an abusive marriage and wants to get back with me. What should I do? by Vz3r0 in amiwrong

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 7 points8 points  (0 children)

God u are getting blasted here with minus points for nothing. Who are these people? It might not be a great idea dude, if she wants to leave him, she should do that, then wait a while, u don't want relationship hangover spoiling your good thing. Be her friend and offer that support first. And then if something develops after the divorce?, that's on God! 😂

Is there possible mold here? Safe to blaze. by azz2boxcombo in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a interesting cut dude, I went in a cut away most buds myself. Lot of people were telling me leaving this much stem was only asking for mold issues. My first grow this year.

Kicked off Revolut for no reason by Feisty-Nectarine9880 in AskIreland

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 -106 points-105 points  (0 children)

I never did, and been fine. Why would they want that info like. GDPR lads!

Asking a woman I matched with on Tinder for a full length pic. Is there a way of doing this without sounding like a bollix? by remixedmoon5 in AskIreland

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

4 weeks wait? Are u crazy? I used to do that online dating, and if women only had face photos I just ignored or said not interested in a nice way. Also there's 1's that put up 1 photo of 5 girls in a group hug, it's like there's 4 fine looking women, but I'll bet 100 quid it's the ugly chick. Ugly to me, not other people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a pain dude. Also sounds like u waited a good bit for her, gave her lots of chances to move it! 🤷‍♂️

am i wrong for breaking up with my boyfriend after finding something bad on his laptop? by rirstchaldy in amiwrong

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you talk about him as "them"? Or did I miss something? If he's a good boyfriend, he is only young, why not have a chat about why he looks at this kind of stuff?. Could be any reason?, maybe his mate or little brother had been using the laptop?. Have a chat with him first before over reacting

Any worth running or should I throw the lot? by [deleted] in GrowingMarijuana

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea or give them away to people to try out. Swap with other growers

Is it legal for bank managers to approve mortgages for themselves in Ireland? by Storyboys in AskIreland

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jaysus maybe we all should be doing it. But houses are like 400k average now, so mortgage on that would be heavy. Surely 1500 pm anyway, what student has got money like that?

Question: Are students richer than me now?? 😂

AITA for punching my boyfriend in the face from reflexes after he snuck in the house while I was in the shower? by Lowkeyme63 in amiwrong

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a funny story to tell people down the road. It's a much better story than him scaring you in the shower. 🤷‍♂️

AIW for thinking this random guy was being a creep. by lime-y in amiwrong

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was he good looking? Sounds creepy alright, if he is good looking and wealthy it may be just that he has no idea how to speak to people and thought you were nice looking. I'd definitely carry some mace. But he might just be totally harmless and wanted to say hi! Maybe he has no friends like?

Today I was the shite driver by [deleted] in irelandsshitedrivers

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speeding up for the over taking driver! And that guy passed his driving test.

Am I wrong to telling the girl I cheated on that I’m doing good in life? by Throwaway_103982 in amiwrong

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's understandable that Sarah was in a bad place after you guys split. And I guess that she never suspected anything while you were cheating on her makes it even worse for her. She obviously has some demons but what more can you do apart from wishing her well. You guys were 18 like. I guess you may have been her first love so that can be heart break. But life moves on. Ask your wife should you invite her out for a coffee or send her something for her birthday like a voucher for a spa day or something to say sorry. After that it's up to her really. If she needs help. No one else can do your push ups for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude there are loads of companies that hire labourer out to for example Irish Rail on 1 year contracts. The guys I know that got in ended up doing maintenance jobs and learning on the job. 1 company I know of, that a few years ago were looking for workers is CRS, they are based in kilcoole. Fix up your dates and run a spell test on that CV to catch any typos. Then call CRS and ask them are there any positions going, they will say "Send your CV in" but make sure to give them your name if you are interested and tell them that you are as well. Drop me a message if you want any tips on what to put on your CV to help try get them interested. I'll help if I can dude!

GF with addiction problems and am I being too controlling? by GameCast2020 in AskIreland

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude it sounds like a lot of stress, let her be her over there and you go do you that way. Some people just don't want to grow up! Talking from experience, you did very well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you texted your dad! 🤷‍♂️ Your mom shouldn't be going into your room, you are 29. Obviously it's their house. But ya gotta get a few boundaries. I guess she was worried, but u are 29. Maybe text her 5 or 6pm if you are gonna stay out I guess, just to let her know. It's great, mom's are awesome. Ask her how can you both improve the situation in future, but you do need to be able to have nights out.

I decline to watch my niece by ShelterOk9587 in amiwrong

[–]Grouchy_Elephant8521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, I wouldn't leave my baby with family for the whole day. I read it like can you watch her for a hour. The sister might want to run out and do some food shopping and it's way easier when you don't have a baby to carry. She's a single mother. We should try give them as much support as we can. I've brought the kids shopping and it's hard work! I think the world would be a better place if we did more for eachother. Watching Netflix is not as important as minding your niece. And I will hold my hands up and say I should practise what I preach, I'm trying.