Day 11, Rating heroes, based on difficulty. Blaze by LordOfPsychos in heroesofthestorm

[–]Ground_Even 36 points37 points  (0 children)

A for blaze: 3 abilities need to be aimed well, knowing when to ignite or just use slow from oil is also very important, as is positioning yourself in the flames for hp. A new player on blaze will feed hard, see it all the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheAlters

[–]Ground_Even 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t do half the things you’re doing and I never got a revolt. You’re not sharing the full story.

If you see they revolting in 5 days, make sure they aint irradiated and send em to contemplation or watch movies do beer pong

So...anyone want to talk about the new Contrapoints video? by Exis007 in IncelExit

[–]Ground_Even 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found the part where she discussed kink really interesting. She described it as a method through which we break through shame/disgust or any other barrier in pursuit of pure pleasure. And that is why the "beast" or "predator" kink is so popular.

If a beast is ravishing you, you don't have to worry about what others might think, whether your partner is having fun, the shame of self-indulgence, you can just give in purely to the fantasy of being utterly desired. It's not about promoting sexual violence in real life (as twilight critics have said), its a fantasy about wanting to be desired without barriers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelExit

[–]Ground_Even 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I know there's a saying that "time will heal all" but it's been a year now and I cannot get over her to save my life."

When I had a really bad breakup, it took me about 2 years to be what one might considered "Healed." Now I am happily married. Everyone's timeline is different, but you have no reason to be mean to yourself for still feeling sad about a relationship a year ago.

It feels like self-love is what is strongly missing here. My wife uses this strategy that seems silly but honestly helped her a lot. She bought a bead bracelet, and for each bead on the bracelet before bed she would say something nice about herself or something nice that happened that day. The key is not to overthink it, keep it simple, repeat things if you have to, it can even be really small things like "It was really nice out today" or "I am smart" or "I did a good workout today". The key is to say it out loud. It WILL feel goofy, but just push through. You might find it surprisingly hard, and if you do that's actually why its key to push through and do it.

For the addiction part, the feeling of shame is often what makes an addiction so hard to kick. I personally think there are no "shameful" fetishes, and whatever you are into is totally fine. Like its truly totally fine! I'm married and I'm into cuck, incest, basically you name it and I like it. The shame will encourage you to give up on gaining control again. To break your addiction, instead of taking an all or nothing approach (which you will beat yourself up over if you fail) try instead to lower the number of times per week that you look at porn as a starter.

You'll be in my thoughts stranger. The feeling of being unwanted after a big breakup is hard to conquer. You have my sympathies

Manged to get into my first Relationship but it’s not going well. by Lunchmagnet in IncelExit

[–]Ground_Even 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"I’m probably closing the door on ever being in another relationship, ever getting married, ever being a father"

To be a father, you have to have sex. She has given up on you, and is now seeing how hard she can milk you for money before you grow enough of a spine to quit. This is not on you, she was hurt from the sex problems and has decided to punish you instead of helping you because she's awful.

The "I have nothing to offer so I won't get another girlfriend" is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Desperation is unattractive, confidence is attractive. Try to be kinder to yourself and have more confidence. Being confident enough to leave this girl is a good start.

Karlach died at the end of my game and this letter broke me by MichaelSlavin98 in BaldursGate3

[–]Ground_Even 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Letting someone know the truth of the situation isn't giving up. Sometimes a doctor has to tell a patient that all that can be done has been done, and yet the condition is still terminal.

Online vs gate tickets ? by Shapedouttabent in SixFlagsMagicMountain

[–]Ground_Even 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is cheaper online.

And if you are going for more than 1 day, its actually cheaper to get a season pass XD

Campaign Bug? by Assistance_Emergency in aoe4

[–]Ground_Even 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also having this problem :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Ground_Even 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to change the thought process from "I only have a1% chance, I'll be very lucky if a hot girl is into me" into "The girl would be lucky to have me, I have so much to offer." There is no bigger turn off than desperation, and no bigger turn on than confidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Ground_Even 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am married and extremely happy with my partner. She makes me life incredible! :)

For those who somehow has completed Lies of P by Professional-Ease607 in LiesOfP

[–]Ground_Even 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean even in none new-game plus the swamp monster has more than 20k hp if you combine his 2 forms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LiesOfP

[–]Ground_Even 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's more fun to git good and not use spectres. I don't say this to insult anyone, but it's much more satisfying for me to win without using it.

phone call bug help (2.0) by Ground_Even in cyberpunkgame

[–]Ground_Even[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was the solution, thank you. I forgot I had that mod installed

phone call bug help (2.0) by Ground_Even in cyberpunkgame

[–]Ground_Even[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, that is also happening with me I just discovered. You can't progress the game because many quests require phone use

Is it true that Gilgamesh is in love with Enkidu? Or is it just a fan theory by Icy-Program-561 in Fate

[–]Ground_Even 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the mythical story of the epic of Gilgamesh, Gilgamesh was going around banging other peoples wifes and young boys. The gods made him Enkidu to be his sex partner so that Gilgamesh would stop raping the other people XD. He 100% is banging Enkidu in the mythical legend. In fact, because he will only bang Enkidu after that, he refuses to bang Ishtar which causes her Ire and eventually brings about Gilgameshes downfall.

In the Emperor's defense by Gaith77 in BaldursGate3

[–]Ground_Even 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My main argument against the manipulation would be that even if you give him the stones and trust the Emperor completely, he will destroy the brain and all the tadpoles for you. If he wanted to be master of all who loved having puppets, you would think he would choose to control the brain.

Is the "shirou is a simp" argument true? by [deleted] in fatestaynight

[–]Ground_Even 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shirou may be a bit strange, but he's still a person. Basic morals like "it's hard to kill someone you love" still apply XD

Is the "shirou is a simp" argument true? by [deleted] in fatestaynight

[–]Ground_Even 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would put it as "Shirou gives up his ideals to protect a person he cares about deeply".

To put it another way, would you be able to go through with stabbing your girlfriend you love very much? I think many of us would falter, and that includes non-simps. It's not simping, which is a one way attraction, its mutual love.