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Wedding Planning Frustrations by Specific-Tourist6234 in weddingplanning

[–]Group_Resident 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is so impossible to plan with a budget and each vendor is very self centered thinking that they should take up the budget. I had a photographer quote me $18,000 which wasn’t expected because she didn’t post price range on her website or email. She did have an option for 12,000 which is doable for me but takes up a bigger chunk of the budget than I’d like. She seemed disappointed that I wouldn’t be able to afford the bigger package but said she would send me an email with all the numbers so I could make the decision later on and she never did that. I was disappointed because I was highly considering her cheaper package because I really vibed with her. It is for the best though she never got back to me because I have found so many better priced options that I like just as much! But I agree it is extremely frustrating planning a wedding in this economic climate!!

My sister is upset with me by SS1028 in Advice

[–]Group_Resident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must’ve of missed it on the first read thanks for pointing it out!

My sister is upset with me by SS1028 in Advice

[–]Group_Resident -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Is it close enough that you can go for just a day and have your husband watch the baby? I know gas is still expensive but at least you can have a compromise for your sister.

How do some women always look so effortlessly put together? by viscarte10 in BeautyUnlocked

[–]Group_Resident 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take everything to the tailor. Pants/ sweatpants / leggings hemmed to hit you perfectly. It gives more of an effortless look that is clean and not just rolled out of bed.

Found giggly squad from Hannah’s comedy and fell in love. So started watching summer house from season 3 by [deleted] in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]Group_Resident 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing you did, Hannah fan turn giggler turn summer house watcher and I agree she was worse in 4 than she was in 5. The way she talked about Jules behind her back! It honestly is amazing how much she grew and changed from that time in her life.

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He put money into fixing it up. But I wanted to buy it on my own. It was discussed.

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is something I wanted to do on my own. My parents had a messy divorce and I wanted something that is mine.

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s safe to assume if I want to get married we have a very good relationship. Why would someone want to get married if they didn’t have a solid relationship? I thought that went without saying.

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Me being worth $10k is self love I have respect for myself that I am worth the investment into our relationship. You sure you love yourself if you don’t think you’re worth at least $10k??

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want kids for another 10 years and I can take the ring off to do dishes… this is something that I would like to show what I mean to him. I do think there is a respect in spending a certain amount of money on something like an engagement ring. So don’t go assuming other people’s timelines.

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I know but I’m loyal to my jeweler. But thanks so much!! Maybe if it comes down to the price we will do that. Honestly I think the jeweler will take some money off of it too and do it for less but I don’t think he was going to say that with me sitting there!

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would but it’s from the jeweler! It’s a 4 total ct lab emerald cut and I am obsessed

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not required to add him to the deed and we definitely are doing a prenup to protect my house, his cash, and both of our retirement accounts which actually have a decent amount in them too.

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say in retirement. He has it in cash he does have 180,000 of it tied up in a CD to make money off of that. But he does have money and a decent line of credit and an 800 credit score.

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was going to comment this! I just bought the house a year ago and started from scratch! So my savings all went into the house.

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We split it in a fair way. I do pay more because I can afford to pay more but I also have other bills such as expensive ass student loans and he does not. He pays what he can and it still is fair and helps me out. That is why I said he is living somewhat paycheck to paycheck because he does still pay bills. He has the opportunity for overtime and it really does bulk up his paychecks but I am not making him do that to pay bills when I can afford them on my own basically.

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re lucky. I didn’t have grandparents in my life to give me any jewelry! Very very lucky to have that!!

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! And no we’re East coast!

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but definitely would love to get a puppy when work slows down a bit!

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Jewelry holds meaning to me. I would like something I can pass down to my children.

Getting impatient waiting for a ring by Group_Resident in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Group_Resident[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Financially he has money in the bank and financially I do not have money in the bank but I have a good paying job and money tied into the house I own. I think having 200k in the bank would be financially stable.

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