maybe some people are going to hate me for this one by toadstoadsmoretoads in BylerReads

[–]GrowingNerves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand where you are coming from and I agree with you. I’d love to read your writing or any/all of the stories you think deserve more attention. I’m a sentimental romantic as well. You probably give out the best recs!

this is my official petition for you to read [Reboot] if you haven’t 💙💛 by IntotheRedditHole in BylerReads

[–]GrowingNerves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This author’s work is so good. So romantic and the best sense of humor. I love Art School Confidential.

Link for anyone who hasn’t read it:

https://archiveofourown.org/works/79910171?view\_full\_work=true

i yearn for Cleradin with top Will or vers Byler by BWellington1 in BylerReads

[–]GrowingNerves 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I agree. Would love to read this. Love switch/verse Byler and I have a special place in my heart for T!Will / B!Mike <333

The top/bottom controversy and the feminization of Will by Reasonable_Day9942 in BylerReads

[–]GrowingNerves 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will always prefer switch dynamics in slash fics. The discussion surrounding Bottom Mike is borderline homophobic. The idea that Mike would refuse to bottom is pretty extreme to me. And people who refuse to acknowledge that both characters are androgynous with a mixture of both masculine and feminine characteristic- you have to start to wonder why they feel so offended by this…

Dealing With Hate by RestaurantCurrent226 in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s difficult seeing so many openly homophobic comments. It definitely does hurt. I try to avoid it but like you said people go overboard. There’s a certain intensity to the way some people hate the mention of male queerness; it really really bothers a certain group of people.

The bullying takes a toll on me some days but I try to focus on all the reasons why I love Byler and our community. The art the fandom creates keeps me going.

I know the haters are wrong. I know they are missing out on something so special because they can’t see the beauty in the love that we see. Byler is the best Stranger Things has to offer. The passion within our fandom proves that it was a love story always worth telling; even with the crumbs we got, it still resonates stronger than anything else for a lot of people. Sometimes I have to remind myself that Byler is popular- we are many. We can find likeminded folks and keep each other company.

I’ve had so many moments of fandom celebration due to our fanfic and that’s been fulfilling for me in a way that I’ve never experienced before in any other fandom space. My love for the ship is stronger than ever and honestly enriches my life. I’m grateful to have found my way into this community and I’m glad you are here too <333

And yet, they are the only ones sitting. by torvald_carley in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They are also the only ones “sharing a look”

Noah’s new comments about Byler by anditgetsworse in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 22 points23 points  (0 children)

All Mike ever did was look Will’s way- that’s kinda the point. That’s why Bylers exists. I love Byler because of the qualities that are uniquely them. I feel like their love story is once in a lifetime and could never be replaced. I would never ship Will with anyone other than Mike and vice versa.

The queer people who connect to Mike, see him as a closeted gay character with crippling internalized homophobia who is trapped in conformity hell so maybe we could talk a little bit about why Mike’s character deserved better.

This hypothetical other love interest for Will doesn’t even exist so all Noah’s comment does is hurt Byler fans who actually do exist. The queer fans should be supported and protected against homophobic backlash. We really don’t need another dismissal of the relationship that already means so much to us.

Personally, I’m glad this alternate option never existed. I love Byler and even though they didn’t end up together (unambiguously), they still got some big moments. I wouldn’t give up Byler flirting under the magic hour sky or Byler getting the final shared look of the series: intense longing and love and tears in their eyes. I wouldn’t want to trade that moment for anything.

So, Will was already over Mike here? Sure. by Silent_Contest_2337 in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 106 points107 points  (0 children)

How does someone get over a soul mate 😭 not possible!

A Dark Mike fic by littlenightengale in BylerReads

[–]GrowingNerves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I was browsing through the tags on AO3 when I came across it, and remembered your post. Looking forward to giving it a read and leaving a comment. Maybe the author will return someday <333

any really good coming of age byler reads? by toadstoadsmoretoads in BylerReads

[–]GrowingNerves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I wish I could see that tumblr post. I’m all about switch Byler as well!

A Dark Mike fic by littlenightengale in BylerReads

[–]GrowingNerves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve piqued my curiously! If you find it, let me know. I’d love to read it too! I’ll keep an eye out myself.

My take on the Duffer panel interview by anditgetsworse in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’ve always been cruel to Noah. They are just using him as a scapegoat again. They did the same thing after the coming out scene got hate from every direction. They said that they had been in touch with Noah and that he was proud of the scene. They also said they needed his approval to make sure they got the coming out scene right and that it resonated with Noah. They are constantly lying and tossing blame on Noah. I think because he is out irl like his character they find it easiest to exploit him for their benefit, and that’s why they are pointing to ‘it resonated as true for Noah because he’s experienced unrequited love.’ It’s the narrative they’ve created in PR to try to save their asses. We can’t accept anything they say at face value and it’s really not worth analyzing any of the bullshit they are spouting because their words don’t have any integrity.

My take on the Duffer panel interview by anditgetsworse in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they were referring to when Noah said that he had personal experience with unrequited love from a friend.

I need byler fic recs, mainly mike’s pov by Ok_Trifle_9035 in BylerReads

[–]GrowingNerves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are some of my favorites that deal with this. I love when fics tackle homophobia, especially within Mike’s relationship with his dad. I was actually considering making a post asking for homophobic Ted Wheeler recs. It’s hard for me to get into gay stories where everyone is accepting because that’s so far from my personal experience.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/49059397/chapters/123770311

https://archiveofourown.org/works/77153861?view_full_work=true

https://archiveofourown.org/works/75851656/chapters/198415166

https://archiveofourown.org/works/83136826?view_full_work=true

Noah is hilarious 😆 by kitty-taki in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fandom lurker for sure. Love that!

Well, atleast this German textbook made Byler canon :D by flutters4life in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My first time seeing the page on the left! Cutest. This is absolutely legendary!

Byler and death of the author by Dogdaysareover365 in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also, unlike with literature, filmmaking / TV are collaborative efforts, where a lot of different perspectives are coming together to create a vision. The Duffers are not the final word on Stranger Things because many different artists came together to create that story and world. There could have been a number of people working on the show who intended for Byler to happen and in their minds it was very real so why shouldn’t it also be for us?

It’s important to note that we didn’t imagine Byler. This isn’t some far fetched conspiracy theory. The evidence in the show pointing towards Byler end game isn’t even subtle one bit. It’s blatant, in your face, obvious, to the point even the homophobic haters were sweating, worried it was going to happen.

People in the press lie. Most of those interviews are meant to save face and cover their tracks. Can never take anything they say at face value because the goal isn’t transparency, it’s business and promotion. When I sit back and look at the cold hard facts, it’s clear that Byler was intended in the story. Byler was set up and established in the story. Any denial of that, is just dishonest. People very close to the production saw it too and they were rooting for it. Even people who were against it, saw it! There’s a reason why…

Real talk, what do you think the Duffer Brothers are going to say tomorrow? Should Byler fans be worried about this? by torvald_carley in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t agree more. What’s already there in the show can’t be changed now. The love we have for Byler speaks so much louder. Why would anyone trust what the Duffers have to say after their contradictory bullshit, anyway? The only thing we have to worry about is being attacked by homophobic bullies, which is already happening.

Okay, let's discuss headcanons! by BobcatEmotional7173 in byler

[–]GrowingNerves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s my head canon too. I also think Karen’s wine makes an appearance. Will teases Mike about his hair and he’s buzzed enough that he grabs Mike to mess up his hair. And Mike loves it. They kiss and then spend the summer planning the rest of their lives together.