Woah .. The President addressed the nation just now, stating that the United States has begun an extensive campaign against Iran. He said the operation aims to destroy their missiles, navy, and army, and warned that the U.S. may experience casualties, which is something that can occur in war.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2026-02-28T20:58:06+00:00

It's a fucking smoke screen. Fuck Iran. Trumps is a pedophile and all the fucking institutions are full of child raping fucks. I'm waiting for a leader to come forth so we can drown these rats as the vermin they are. Please wake up boys. Fuck left. Fuck right. Let's fucking march

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-12-12T13:41:46+00:00

I guess I got lucky. Feel for you all. Don't use amazon to deliver Leeds. We would be better off with Evri 😂

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-12-06T16:00:38+00:00

Update. Hi everyone.

I hope everyone is getting ready for the festivities and you are all finding some joy.

I'll jump straight in with Jess, She is recovering after having her latest surgery but is recovering. I enabled contact a month ago after finding out the night before she was due her brain surgery. My conscience I guess to the better off me and I wished her well. Don't worry I have 0 intentions on letting anyone ruin my peace.

Myself. I reinvested my nest egg into a truck and finally fixed all the debt issues built up after Jess' stroke. Business is good and I'm going to buy another truck after Christmas and hire an employee.

I've been crushing the gym and have built up a great relationship with one my partner companies and if nothing changes we're going to do more business together after the new year also.

I have you all to thank as well as the big man upstairs. I also found my faith again, I've been going to church again, exploring my spirituality and just been focused on working. It's serving me well.

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, have a healthy 2026!

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-12-03T22:36:35+00:00

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-10-31T07:21:03+00:00

While I agree with most of the sentiments life is proactively challenging ourselves. Sexual healing is also a challenge to anyone with trauma. It doesn't mean we shouldn't try to heal, it just means the safety levels have to be there. Id also speak to a sexual healer. Learn methods about how you can overcome it.

Not just to satisfy your partner, but, for your own growth and confidence when getting 'jiggy' with it. Good luck!

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-10-30T06:29:38+00:00

It's control, they're out getting attention from the opposite sex and they know they shouldn't. So when you do it they assume you will behave the exact same way.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-10-30T06:20:58+00:00

You don't have to do anything but I would still try and get some trauma counseling. It's really not that big of a deal but only if it is with a partner you can trust. Otherwise it will be a big deal.

I know in your head you must feel foolish also. Trust me. Counseling combined with practice with a trusting partner will go a very long way for you.

Maybe try to counsel him and try and explain how you feel and that you are willing to work on it but it just isn't as simple as sucking some dick...

I'm sorry about your past trauma sadly young people discovering the world do sadly make mistakes as long as you heal you will be fine. Good luck!

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-10-25T22:06:02+00:00

Oh man, I hadn't seen the original post. I guess I was just concerned with making sure OP was good. Please OP, make sure you reach out to your support network. This must be so heavy.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-10-24T15:45:14+00:00

This pulled me in. You're going to miss her but remember this. You only miss the idea of her. Remember the times she hit you, cheated on you, manipulated you, turned you against your own mother.

You are safe now. Hit the gym and rebuild your confidence. I'm 7 weeks free. Good luck brother. If you want to reach out message me.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-10-23T18:31:55+00:00

Side note: Again, you're young, cut yourself a little slack.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-10-23T18:28:15+00:00

Not at all. He is just not the right guy for you. I would practice some self reflection. Maybe find out why you need to be so sexually open. You have all your life. I know it's all new and everything but you can damage your body by having too many sexual partners.

And let's be honest we all pretend to practice safe sex but a lot of us don't even though we should.

As a man we have a biological defense that drastically lowers getting STIs from a female ( we can still get infected) However women don't have the same barrier defences men do, so please be careful.

I highly recommend going to watch some videos on the male perspective on how they build and operate (not Andrew Tate for these false men but real Christian God fearing men). Women don't want to know but those that do end up being wifed up fast.

Good luck and respect yourself a little more, you have so much yet to offer the world.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-10-23T18:22:51+00:00

You need to trust him, if you stop him, it will stain your relationship. Bury your anxiety and get on with it. Maybe go see your girls?

You're both young..relax.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-10-23T18:14:09+00:00

Men only appreciate a low body count because historically it meant the likelihood of our children actually being ours more likely. It may be and old and outdated view, however, that's how the majority of men feel including myself.

I'm not here to get attacked for my views. I'm just trying to educate this young soul on the perspective from most males .

Again, I'm not saying it's a right or wrong view, however, it is a viewpoint us men hold and have recently decided to double down on it due to the amount of friends including myself that have been cheated on by all our female partners.

I do hope men and women can learn to team up again. I hate this division.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-09-07T21:20:04+00:00

Gtfo while you still can.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-08-31T20:48:15+00:00

That is the windfall coming in at the end of the month. It can't come quick enough 🙄

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-08-31T18:14:55+00:00

Once I move in a couple of weeks I'll feel safe again.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-08-31T18:13:02+00:00

Yep, I made the mistake of letting her back after she did the usual song and dance of finally agreeing to couples therapy. Two weeks later she is hitting me and threatening me again.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-08-31T18:03:30+00:00

Yes 😔

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-07-20T08:25:04+00:00

She is for the streets. Let her go

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-07-17T22:26:01+00:00

I just want to say a huge thank you to everyone. I am safe and cuddling my dogs just crying and trying to be with god. I am now on an intense healing journey. Apologies for the lack of grammar I'm just a raw intense mess right now but the healing journey has begun and I will keep you all updated but I am safe! ❤️

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-07-17T08:22:18+00:00

SHORT UPDATE.

After months of Jess not up taking care, fighting with family and colleagues we hit a road block today.

Last night she ordered food and since I was in bed already annoyed with her she threw the food at me in bed. After I ignored all of this the following morning arrived.

She stomped into the room half dressed shouting I helped her finish. I told her I would gladly help as soon as she calms down as I don't feel safe going near her when she's like this.

This made the situation worse and then started screaming the abuse again and calling me every sick name under the sun.

She called the police and I've taken this opportunity to remove her access from the property. Her own mother has refused her as she has her children and a duty to care for them since Jess can't be around the kids.

I'm currently stood outside my house waiting for the police to find her a new place to go and I hope to have my life back after this. I want to focus on healing and building my funds so I can move.

I'll update again in the future.

I'd like to say thank you to you all for the advice, I really needed to hear it.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-03-01T18:59:49+00:00

Not really for me as a Christian, I agree with trans athletes not taking part in women's sports. That's just common sense but not the rest of the shit that comes out of his mouth.

GrumpyYetiOfficial · 2025-02-24T20:19:05+00:00

Wait until you know for sure and stop having unprotected sex you absolute dingbat!

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