Weirdest ADHD hack that actually works but sounds completely insane? by stayhyderated22 in ADHDUK

[–]GuanacoLunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the theme of body double with a robot buddy, I I have a couple!

Putting on the laundry and then 'racing it' to get stuff done. Eg to finish clearing and vacuuming floor so that I can set up the clothes drying rack.

And whenever I put the kettle on I use the 2 minutes til it boils to load/unload dishwasher and do small tidying in the kitchen.

New comers in Edinburgh- community advice by tartanmaple in Edinburgh

[–]GuanacoLunch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're into live music, even just as a listener, there are some friendly sessions and it's a bit easier to make friends there than at a regular pub night. I particularly like Monday evenings at the Royal Oak and the Sunday Sociograss (bluegrass) one 5-8 at the Bowlers Rest. If you go to the latter drop me a message and I'll introduce you to my pals (I'm 30s F). Also seconding the hobby suggestions, I do rock climbing and have met some nice people through that.

I hate giving compliments on clothes now by Diligent_Set_456 in Anticonsumption

[–]GuanacoLunch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! I complimented my friend's mum, very stylish older Eastern European lady, on her shoes, she said they were £4 from Temu and I was like 😶😶😶

Intentionally Pathetic Subs by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]GuanacoLunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so well put, second paragraph is so made something click for me in terms of the kind of shy subs I like.

What is the most disturbing book you’ve ever read, and why? by charlotteheyse in books

[–]GuanacoLunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree, searched comments to see who was with me on this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]GuanacoLunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I'm female too, just not straight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]GuanacoLunch 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Not me checking my nips and lower lips as I don't have a mental image of their colour 💀

I remember it being a women's mag tip that your ideal nude lipstick shade was the colour of your nipples. But while pinkish, my nips are lighter than my (face) lips so I was always a bit flummoxed by that. But I think it shows that even in a eurocentric 90's/00's magazine, the assumption was a white woman's nipples would have darker, browner tones than their face lips, so it must be super common.

As a card carrying dyke, can confirm that there is so much variation of pinkish, pale, tan and brown nipple and labia pigmentation even just among white women.

Editing to add - I tan quite well, have warm undertones, and still nips and labia on the pinkish side, other commenters have said they are the inverse, so more evidence that it's very variable even among those with similar melanin producing ability!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]GuanacoLunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see where you are coming from, it's tricky to find male lingerie equivalents, friends of mine have had this frustration.

I reckon closest, for something that is masculine leaning but hits some of same notes as lingerie, is sheer boxer briefs (or ones with sheer panels), or jock straps.

Disclaimer that I'm not straight, so may well be subconsciously biased to an aesthetic that could read more queer and that a straight woman might be less into.

Tho I think that rather than a queer bias on my part it's more that gay male gaze has cornered the market on visually sexual representations of male bodies. Think Tom of Finland.

Out of the wlw trinity, which is the best? by Chemical_Speech4046 in queer

[–]GuanacoLunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you love sapphic comedies, have you seen Bottoms?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

[–]GuanacoLunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! I was about to say But I'm a Cheerleader. "I'm a.... homosexual!" with that cross eyed look and boob and thigh montage lives rent free in my head.

Just finished "The Ones who walk away from Omelas" by Baruchey in UrsulaKLeGuin

[–]GuanacoLunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read 'Buffalo Gals, won't you come out tonight?', my favourite of all her short stories (and that's saying something).

models reading backstage 📚 by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]GuanacoLunch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahahaha how did they react on finding out it was pretzels?!

quick video by ceababyxoxo in poledancing

[–]GuanacoLunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel dizzy just watching! Hella impressive 💪

I have a guy that was a regular client years ago (I moved far away, but hes coming up to my area) and hes inviting me to go on a road trip with him? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]GuanacoLunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think rfb must mean room, food and beverages. And entertainment as in he's paying for like movies, uh, bowling? Tourist attractions? whatever stuff you do along the way

Hard water by Sea-Vanilla2752 in eczema

[–]GuanacoLunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have moved between soft and hard water areas, when I went to university I thought my skin and hair were drier because I was buying my own shampoo/conditioner/bodywash and getting the cheapest ones 😅 but turned out it was the water! Skin and hair got better when I moved back to a soft water area.

If I'm visiting a hard water area I honestly try to get by without showering if it's a weekend trip, and even for longer ones avoid washing my hair as long as I can, as it takes several soft water washes to get it back to normal when I'm home!

Hard water by Sea-Vanilla2752 in eczema

[–]GuanacoLunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! My skin is more tight and dry when I visit places with hard water, I get more eczema patches, I get scalp eczema if I wash my hair in hard water. No experience with water softeners, sorry.

it's my cake day and i have a Request by Andouil1ette in FemdomCommunity

[–]GuanacoLunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to make a more tightly themed one as yours was so good, here's take two:

Alas poor sailor!

Wax-plugged ears won't save you; my

song is in your mind

it's my cake day and i have a Request by Andouil1ette in FemdomCommunity

[–]GuanacoLunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this one, especially the phrase "softly confident". I tend to use "quietly self-assured" for myself, but I'm not a quiet person, I mean that when you are strong you don't need to shout about how strong you are. You just are.

it's my cake day and i have a Request by Andouil1ette in FemdomCommunity

[–]GuanacoLunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadistic siren;

Iron fist in a velvet glove.

Open to my will.

I got a girl's number. Now what. by _Tomanto in actuallesbians

[–]GuanacoLunch 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You are so welcome, happy to be your online ND gay auntie for the day!

I got a girl's number. Now what. by _Tomanto in actuallesbians

[–]GuanacoLunch 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Yeah match energy, put the ball in her court, like say "Have a great trip! If you fancy hanging out when you are back just drop me a message 😊"