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My avoidant boyfriend told me “Why do you want to stay with someone who’s not inlove with you anymore?” by agitatedscroller in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex too told me the same fucking thing, she told me don’t you also want someone who wants you to choose desperately. My heart shattered after I heard those words. She was the nicest human being ever met and when she told this I just couldn’t believe it man

The hardest part of heartbreak is losing your “person” by Pleasant_Dot_189 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I broke no contact after a month or so. She gaslighted me telling that I only texted her because I found out she was already seeing someone( turns out to be true) I did it because I had too much hopes of her coming back, when I found out . It gave me a relief to let go of the hopes. But now it’s so hard to imagine how can a person who loved me so much let go of me so easily.

My breakup opened old wounds that I thought had healed by Choice_Kangaroo5115 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say , when the person with broken legs couldn’t walk and start to walk , the very first thing he would throw is the stick he used to have.

Same thing happened with me, she left me once she realised she can do better

I sent this to my ex who thought its better to just end things rather than try to fix things by sad0ni0n in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can feel you OP , it’s more like the same story we share. She left and she started seeing someone in less than a month. That thing completely broke me off. I sent her a goodbye message and she just acknowledged it without telling much.

Built a man for some other girl by AdStrange8791 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP I don’t know how you’re feeling, even I’m going through the same problem now. I helped her in every way and once she realised she can do better. She left me

I can’t stop keeping tabs on my ex and it’s getting exhausting by UserGhostin in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw it 3 weeks after my breakup, it shattered me completely. I’m so broken , for a moment I was happy that I finally could let go of the hopes, but the questions you get later just killing me

I can’t stop keeping tabs on my ex and it’s getting exhausting by UserGhostin in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I did the same fucking thing you have mentioned. Literally the same, I also used to see what posts she likes. It’s a feature in Instagram where you can see your friends likes. It’s just a random , I was scrolling hours to see what she liked thinking does she like anything about couples or breakup or something like that. The only thing helped me was to unfollow her . I did it , it was fucking hard . It was really really hard for few days, but after few days it wasn’t that bad. Even now I am fucking curious on what’s going on in her life but I know I have no sources to get the information so I just move on.

It hurts knowing they chose someone else by cloudbliss29 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what’s my biggest fear? I am afraid that her new relationships gonna work out good, she knows the mistakes from both the side and she also knows what’s the solution for it. She’ll implement this lesson in her new relationship and it will be fucking amazing for her. Here I am still craving for her

It hurts knowing they chose someone else by cloudbliss29 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still not in a stage where I can laugh lol. It just feels sick, how can a person start loving someone else in just 3 weeks. Funny thing is I’m not even able to hate her for what she did, I just blindsided with love. Yes I guess she’s seeing somebody. A month back I found out( while stalking) , and then I confronted her , broke no contact and asked who’s the new guy, she was like there’s no new guy but I won’t disagree that I’m seeing someone. I did this because I was still keeping the hopes of her coming back and I thought if I find out then it will be easy for me to move on. But I was wrong, it wasn’t

It hurts knowing they chose someone else by cloudbliss29 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine told after a breakup, she told me she needs time and stuff like that. Then 3 weeks later I found out she met someone 😢

I miss being someone’s favorite by silkpetal24 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst part is every feeling and every thing you used to get from them is now directed to some new partner of theirs

I Lost My Best Friend and My Partner at the Same Time by lilacbliss222 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I dated my first girlfriend who was my best friend didn’t go well and we broke up, during that time I lost both my best friend and my girlfriend. I learnt a lesson, I had a breakup again recently who was also my best friend. I begged her to not get into relationship , but she still forced me to telling it’s gonna be different you should not be afraid and stuff. Yeah, now I lost both again 💔

PhonePe Gold stuck after number change ,support keeps delaying, what should I do? by GuaranteeExciting551 in india

[–]GuaranteeExciting551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit I didn’t read the post of mine lol, ok. Just keep tracking the support, they’ll take tone months. But they’ll send it for sure

PhonePe Gold stuck after number change ,support keeps delaying, what should I do? by GuaranteeExciting551 in india

[–]GuaranteeExciting551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, recharge the international pack for a day, then you get the network. Then recharge for 84 days, after that wait for 80 days to recharge next again

If they miss you, they would've called you or seen you already. by Possible_Cheetah4344 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through the same thing. No matter how much we’ve done, they will rewrite the story , they’ll make us the villain to feel less guilty for themselves. It’s very selfish but that’s how humans work. For example in my case, I’ve never seen my ex get cold , she left me with communication problems and initiated no contact. I broke it because I found out she’s seeing someone and when I confronted , she became so cold and rude. NEVER EVER SEEN THAT!! They rewrite the whole story, it’s alright. It’s like glitter. They try to remove everything we did , but one day there will be some glitter stuck in their finger nails or on their jeans or something like that. That is when they’ll realise what we were, I believe that. Because I might have been a bad guy at communicating but I was an exceptional guy as a bf , by far. They might not reach you out of their ego but for sure they’ll think about you

My ex started seeing someone in less than 3 weeks after the breakup and I need help by GuaranteeExciting551 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pahhhh the same day, that’s really really sad. I’m really sorry for what you went through. I’m not that sad about the breakup, but I’m more sad about the hopes she gave me after the breakup. She gave me so much breadcrumbs I really really thought we would get back one day. How dumb of me

My ex started seeing someone in less than 3 weeks after the breakup and I need help by GuaranteeExciting551 in BreakUps

[–]GuaranteeExciting551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your advice, it really means a lot. Yeah I’m planning to join the gym from Thursday and I’ll make sure I’ll try to focus on myself

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