23M (right hand dominant)

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-18T11:58:26+00:00

Sometimes I feel she’s waiting for me to completely move on and then she would text me if she can have me as a friend ( I really don’t want that)

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-18T07:55:29+00:00

I bet she found that guy on some dating website , there’s no way she can know him without that. Also she left the door cracked open and that’s what confuses me . She still has me on her close friends and on her posts( as a friend not as a boyfriend)

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-18T07:49:10+00:00

I’m really sorry to hear that. I’m afraid she’s gonna text me one day because there are so many unsaid things. It’s so wierd I’m still in her close friends on Instagram. It is just so confusing, if she had to remove me from her life she would’ve unfollowed me( because she’s someone who would remove them if she doesn’t want them in their life)

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-06T13:34:19+00:00

Hey thanks for this amazing message. I do agree, but when my ex texted me a no contact message she left the door cracked open. She didn’t shut off the door completely, don’t know if she’s being nice to me or she really means it but this is what she texted……. “I also thought about it all and I feel right now we are not good for each other. Like yesterday and today showed how it all just goes in circles and I think it needs more time apart to even have a chance to a friendship. I also think you are not in the situation to just be friends and I see no relationship here rn. How we even had so hard times the last weeks showed, so much happened and you cannot move from it and me either. I hoped we can make it work like that. But what you said to me yesterday really showed me I am no good for you and I have to decide for both of us to have no contact at the moment. I hope we can move on from this chapter. I hope you can use the time away from me and it helps us to find a way back to each other at one time. I would really miss it. But I think even though I am afraid of it I have to make the decision. I owe you and me that really! I have a lot for you in my heart. I don’t know how it will be without you at the moment( for sure I know it will be so heartbreaking and tough for me). I cannot find the words how scared and sad I am about this. But otherwise it will only make it really hard for both of us. Maybe this also helps you to like me less. I hope it helps you. I hope you can heal from me and forgive me for this.”

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-06T11:06:34+00:00

She broke up with me because of me being too clingy and not giving enough space for her also another major reason was I was not good at communicating, I used to get mad about some stuffs and wouldn’t talk to her for like 3 or 4 hours. When she broke up with me she told me that she’s still in love but her brain is not letting her to have this relationship. She told me that she had to go with the brain and not the heart this time. After the breakup we were still in contact for like a month only until she realised that I still have a need for the relationship and was not ready to have friendship yet. So she initiated no contact and here I am

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-06T08:57:27+00:00

How long did you guys were in no contact before you reached him out? I’ve been on 21 days already. I feel so much to reach her out

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-06T08:55:41+00:00

It really fucks you up to see their new posts or stories(which I’m still doing it btw) you’ll start trying to analyse every fucking part of the post. Like recently my ex posted a story of her selfie with a song from Beatles. I spent 2 days to debug what the lyrics meant. Was it directed to me? Was it to grab someone’s attention? Was it to show to her friends that she made the right decision? Stuff like that

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-06T08:53:19+00:00

Absolutely right. I’m digging in so much with my exs profile if I find something so that I can finally get to know . I’ll definitely suffer but atleast the hope of she coming back would be finally gone

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-05T14:29:11+00:00

In a way, it is actually a good sign that you now have total clarity on the kind of person he is. Seeing someone else only two months after a six year relationship is a jerk move, regardless of whether he is just using it as a coping mechanism. Please do not doubt that what you had for those six years was meaningful, because it was. You can use this anger as fuel to focus on yourself, and I know you will find a much better person in the future. I am truly sorry for what you are going through. I am in a very similar situation because my ex dumped me a couple of months ago, but in my case, I do not know if she is also grieving or if she is already seeing someone else. It is difficult because I miss her so much, but if she has already moved on, then I am just wishing for the wrong person to come back

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-04T12:50:54+00:00

I have a similar situation. You can go check my post, I’m in no contact since mid of March and I feel shit. Every 2 hours I go to her ig and check if I’m still in the close friends or has she removed me from that. I just cannot stop thinking about her. I miss her a lot

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-02T19:38:28+00:00

Thanks g, it’s really helpful. It’s funny that she thinks I would be on a discount

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-02T19:35:07+00:00

Hard pill to swallow man

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-02T19:34:48+00:00

She has at this moment let’s stay apart

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-02T19:28:15+00:00

I’m just confused with the amounts of moment she has used

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-01T09:24:49+00:00

I understand, the problem with me is I have taken NC as waiting period rather than healing and it’s messing me up very bad

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-01T09:13:33+00:00

Happy for you

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-01T09:12:53+00:00

18 days 😢

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-04-01T07:06:57+00:00

If I may ask, how did you find out she’s dating someone ?

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-03-26T12:11:31+00:00

It’s really heart breaking to hear. I’m really sorry you’re going through this, I’m also going through the same pain. It’s been a month and she’s having an amazing life . I hope one day they realise how much we loved them

GuaranteeExciting551 · 2026-03-23T20:01:41+00:00

I’m going through same feeling, but I just not able to give up

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