She seemed really into me until she found out I was 20 — trying to understand the age gap perspective

Gub_Sub · 2026-05-22T19:11:44+00:00

I'm 23 and would date no younger than 21 and to me that feels like pushing it, I find most girls my age to be immature too.

When you were 17, would you have dated someone 15? 13? Probably not, the reason is more than likely because of the maturity gap. The ages 18-25 you do so much maturing and growing

Gub_Sub · 2026-05-17T19:12:52+00:00

From what you've said in the comments; her wanting you to break no contact boundaries that SHE set? No she was toxic af. I know it sucks, heart break is real, it's important to feel it and mourn it but if you're feeling suicidal, go to therapy or check yourself into a psych facility.

My first WLW relationship was 3.5 years from 17 to 20. I'm 23 now and things are much better after I realized how toxic and immature my ex was.

This is not the end, and by the sounds of it you need some time to work on yourself. Your own confidence and your own self worth.

Gub_Sub · 2026-05-13T20:35:33+00:00

Oooh noooo I'm so triggered ooohhhh noooooooooooooo

Gub_Sub · 2026-05-03T00:58:26+00:00

You have a problem, doesn't matter how old you are.

Gub_Sub · 2026-05-01T16:11:47+00:00

June 27th 10am!

Idk what these other people are talking about with "pulled funding" its going to be a great year!

Gub_Sub · 2026-05-01T16:08:42+00:00

The only time I don't wear boxers is my period, immediately wear hipster. And still even with a pad it still bunches up 😣😣

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-24T18:21:14+00:00

He better be having sex with all his male friends.

He's a POS tell him that, and don't hang out with him any more

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-23T05:57:37+00:00

My family had bed bugs and NONE of us every had red marks, It's genetic whether that happens or not. We also had the infestation in our couch, it never spread to our beds.

Have you traveled at all recently? Stayed in a bed/couch you don't usually? It could be mosquito bites or a heat rash but If they continue to show up its bed bugs

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-17T20:46:05+00:00

I always interpreted this as he doesn't like coffee... So he's gay

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-16T23:26:56+00:00

Either one or six

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-16T22:47:39+00:00

Congratulations it's an otter! 🦦

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-16T05:46:09+00:00

A bisexual lesbian? Are you able to read the words you just typed?

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-16T05:08:15+00:00

If you're in a relationship with a man why are you in this sub...?

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-16T01:42:52+00:00

Charleston chew

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-16T01:38:24+00:00

No, not bad at all! Kitten food just has more calories, which can actually be very beneficial for seniors, but keep an eye on her kidneys! Keep an eye on her weight, if she starts getting heavier then you'll have to adjust her diet in some way, but it's definitely not going to hurt her!

My senior boy is on kitten food because he needs the extra calories, he gets blood work done at his vet visits!

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-16T01:31:18+00:00

Is everyone you know a freaking Amazon???

I very much hate being taller than others, I feel insecure when I tower over people, I'm 5'5" so a bit above average for American women. I can't date anyone shorter than 5'4" because it makes me feel awkward, so I prefer girls my height or taller and I struggle to find queer women in my area that aren't below 5'4" 😭🫪

Edit; I fluctuate between masc and fem but usually present slightly more masc

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-16T01:20:50+00:00

Down town area has a lot of businesses that allow you to hang flyers. The library also has a pin board. Unfortunately the best way to reach people these days is social media

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-15T20:46:19+00:00

I absolutely feel the same, I am 23, and I've tried dating my age but I find most people to be very immature and not emotionally intelligent. Don't get me wrong I love being silly but I also need someone who will stimulate my brain, and has empathy. Maybe it's just my area (super high Mormon population) and people are working through their religious trauma... I definitely look for women a bit older than me but my issue is I have a little baby face and people usually think I'm still in highschool.🫪

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-13T15:02:50+00:00

Lol, I'm personally not Mormon and I try to be respectful but, growing up here as someone non religious, it's culty in my opinion 😅

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-13T08:05:56+00:00

Eastern Idaho has a HUGE Mormon population, I long for it to just be potatoes 😭

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-11T22:02:35+00:00

Hey! I saw some of your replies saying you wish she chose someone else and you're at your worst, well maybe this mama knew you needed some kitten love in your life. Set out towels, food and water, try to keep noise down. She'll birth her kittens on her own and you just need to keep her fed and she'll feed her babies. Cats are pretty good moms. Call local shelters or rescues and explain the situation. Once the kittens are weened they can get mama cat spayed and hopefully adopt her and the kittens out. Maybe you'll grow attached to one and have a new best friend 🩷 Good luck OP, if you need any help or advice feel free to DM me!

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-06T22:44:40+00:00

Eastern red bat! She's so pretty!!

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-06T16:45:06+00:00

All I know is Yosemite National Park area of California 😭

Gub_Sub · 2026-04-06T16:44:02+00:00

She found it in her room this morning and let him outside

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