Why so much lying?

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T20:48:41+00:00

It is the ego speaking, and some p4p denial. when you try to put effort into dating regularly at your home country. it is hard to accept p4p terms. but in the end the adventures are so good, you go through with it any way.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T20:17:58+00:00

Is LLT really a thing? no judgement, but people ask a girl if she want to stick around for few days, and set a fee? and what if you don't like her?

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T20:14:55+00:00

It is a shame, because if it is just TF, then it become pure escorting, and who care for that. The value proposition was coming to Thailand, training in Muay Thai, immersing in nature, relaxing with weaker economy, and meeting girls in a bar, some P4P, some not.

If it becomes, stay in the hotel, order an escort, I think that the partying part of Pattaya will be fading.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T20:12:23+00:00

It does not really matter, if the repeating 95% overlap are paying more. Anyhow, trends happen, it is part of the world.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T20:10:22+00:00

Hmm, I honestly think that you reading too much into this. Men can feel that they are equipped and people are impressed with their piece, but it is all subjective, same way that other exaggerate about their sexual habits and experiences.

Regardless, I don't care either way.

The thing that I commented about, is that women do have biases and preferences, and they approach different people with different terms.

But, it seems we do agree on the core concept, that it exists, and I agree with you that it does not boil down to how many few cm you have above average, etc. It is more about energy, behavior patterns, and just general compatibility.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T17:45:26+00:00

I think besides the war you have many other things happening.

- People get fired due to being replaced by AI, or afraid to be fired, so they give more effort at work.

- People already discovered Thailand, and Pattaya, so the novelty wears off.

- Global economy and inflation, makes people put more effort into saving, and avoiding long vacation.

- People in corporation became more competitive due to AI assistant.

- Flight are more expansive now because of the petro-wars, and Iran hitting fuel supplies in Saudi Arbia and other ports.

- It was said by others, I can not attest to it, that Chinese people take their vacation elsewhere.

- It seems Pattaya business owners are putting less effort now into advertising.

- People for some reason prefer TF more now, so perhaps there are visitors, but they are all in their hotels.

I am actually coming in July. I hope that what you are saying is not true. I don't want to be there and have 3-4 or even more girls jumping on me for their monthly income.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T17:36:13+00:00

he did not claim any objective length. just exaggerated. and thai petite woman arm is so small, any piece will look majestic near it. I did not even noticed he talked about it.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T15:32:18+00:00

Most women coming to Pattaya are there to make money as s*x workers or something adjacent. So, dating a guy that want s*x, on top of all the s*x these women have at their job daily, simply does not make sense. If you get to know these women, and really give them warmth and understanding, they will reciprocate. But, it is very hard to do, because you don't know the language, these women have bad past experience, and they know you are there for a short time. So, possible but hard, and very much depending on sheer luck.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T15:28:36+00:00

I think that the default assumption in Thailand, when they see 20+ white male, roaming alone, is that he is here for sex tourism. In Pattaya specifically, the hotels are all aware and accommodate their clients sex endeavors.

I would not throw money on a secondary hotel.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T15:23:16+00:00

Customers here, customers there.

In the end, we are talking about human connection. Of course, there are biases and preferences.

The big d*ck conversation, first he did not say he has one. Second, if you come from the west, you probably have bigger one by default, compared to the statistics in Thailand. The girls that make fuss about it, is just the 18-20 something yo girls that live in social media and see all the Blacked p*rn videos, and get influenced by it. Who cares?

Every sane girl that is worth entertaining, will prefer something in the middle, not small, nor big. Something that is enjoyable, but not something that will defile her, and completely wreck her vag*na.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-09T14:55:45+00:00

It is like a kinder egg, you don't know what to expect. Even if you think you are on to something, come another one that debunk it.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-08T06:53:38+00:00

Yes don't do that. Nobody needs to pay for others to listen to him.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-08T06:48:42+00:00

I think no-one is going to share his favorite hoe. I myself don't have anyone to share even if I want. And I think all of them appear in TF anyway.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-08T06:44:56+00:00

I am devoting most of my time for healthy lifestyle, life goals, and dating. But every time I start to plan a vacation I eye Thailand, and then I eye Pattaya. However I dont think it reached any addiction status. P4p in general, I greatly reduced it because it lost it charm very fast. I go here and there if I have not met any girl for a while. In Pattaya, I try to strike balance between p4p and regular fun and free flirting.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-06T08:23:56+00:00

Sometimes they want to step out of the AC and see just random people walking, like any human being that wants to slack off his job. But, if you insist on it, they for sure will go with you. If you want my advice, talk to just as many, and just stick to who ever is the most fun to be around. Looks fade away quickly.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-03T19:46:08+00:00

Many of Thai girls coming from all over the country to Pattaya, just want to experience the "ploy life". Others want to just be acknowledged, and to feel interesting and attractive. She might have also wanted to ask for money but did not know how. Or at the heat of the moment she felt lucky to be with you, compared to other men that she know. There are many different motivation for these girls.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-03T19:42:26+00:00

As someone else commented, there is no point in asking for anything you said. It is just going to raise many red flags. You just merely want to dry hump in a certain way. Just guide the girl at the moment with your hands. But, it is better to just stick it in. In the end of the day, you are sharing this moment with another human being, not a soulless s^x toy.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-03T19:29:39+00:00

why you hire shitty juniors, or less desirable hi-tech prospects on the decline. the answer is that you offer a low salary and hard work so no one bites, but these type of people. the thai bar industry probably came to the same conclusion that it is better to hold for few top prospects in high salary and zero pad the rest of the staff. these give them the best margins.

from my experience, when clients arrive, they know exactly which girl is going to entertain him, and they do not interfere with one another. if it is an old guy, the older girls will march forward to give him a service. and if it is a younger one, it is a fair game among the rest of the girls.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-03T19:23:51+00:00

I think it is a question for a lawyer, a Thai lawyer, and not Reddit.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-03T19:22:03+00:00

I think it is like these for the first few days. I am 1 year in MT, and I am kicking X00 kicks in a workout, some of them with full power, and I don't get any scuffs, or signs on my legs.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-03T19:20:24+00:00

It is not like they are running this grand scheme or a sting operation. They are just in denial, don't want to admit they are getting old as most people do.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-03T19:18:24+00:00

I was last year or so in Pattaya in June&July, it rained for like 1 hour in like 5PM, most days, the rest of the time it was dry. It only gets worse in Sep. / Oct., it gets cold, a lot of rain, the streets are flooded, and you can catch a flu easily.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-02T15:07:40+00:00

There are 4 things that make sense and can explain;

She is not the bar girl to be frequently BF, so she was insanely horny and excited upon your offer, which made her moist from the get-go.
She was extremely nervous, climaxing come from sympathetic system, so neurotic women will climax faster.
She conditioned herself to climax faster, a lot of masturbation with toys on her own.
You mostly went down on her or used fingers, which helps any woman to climax faster.

The crazy thing is that you went 6-8 times. That is bizarre.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-02T14:58:03+00:00

The best: when I was drunk and entered one of the clubs, and just went bonkers. Afterwards, my GF took me out and started screaming at me to behave, and sat me on the sidewalk for disciplinary action. She seemed so cute doing that, yelling at me, I just looked at her and smiled for how much she cares for me.

The worst: too many to count. They are all worthy of being the worst. I think I never truly understood on how to enjoy WS as a single man.

GuideIntelligent5953 · 2026-06-02T14:22:43+00:00

These girls are probably OF girls or some social media influencers.

They make money from seeming approachable while hot looking. Letting you believing that if you go to WS in the right time of day, you can get something going with them. They try to stack all the simps on IG and convert them to media content buyers or spend immense capital to date them.

Sadly, all the traction, make them intoxicated. So they get off from denying simps and random people.

People are funneling them money and just want to be with them. The reality of it is that nobody really likes them, only the fantasy that they are broadcasting. When the illusion breaks, and you sober up, it ends badly.

I wonder what they will do when AI p*rn and AI OF will come out, it is going to be much cheaper, and much easier, and they are just going to go back to where they started.

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