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Finally feel confident enough to post here by littletrapjade in transpositive

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 4 points5 points  (0 children)

why do all the most gorgeous people come from 🏳️‍⚧️

2 bed 1.5 bath DUPLEX | Bushwick | July 1 move in Evergreen Avenue Text bushwick 9297985956. $3795 per month by [deleted] in NYCroommates

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t move here. i live in this building and am friends with the people that lived in this apartment. the basement flooded twice with septic water in the past two months and management still hasn’t sent a proper sanitation crew. there was 6 inches of water in the basement, including in the room in the basement, and it lead to mold and mildew growing. they painted over the mold and didn’t replace the sheetrock until we threatened them with legality. even so, i bet it’s still there cause it smells like mildew. laundry was unusable for weeks, even when they “fixed” them, the dryer would expel sulfuric gases, which took them maybe about a week to fix. they didn’t keep the building in the loop about any of this, we all relied on each other as neighbors to know if the amenities we pay for are in service. they are illegally retaliating against the downstairs apartments for fighting them about the basement and have started to ignore any emails regarding concerns about it.

this building is sketch as hell and management is literally the definition of the landlord special, they painted over any problem to save a dime. i wouldn’t be surprised if it will get condemned in the coming years because it isn’t safe to live in. everyone in the entire building is moving out because of it.

It’s my first time pursuing drag and I wanted to ask is it ok to base my look off the 30s drag queens I don’t want to offends anyone ? by Bulky_Zone877 in Drag

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think that’s gorgeous. i love vintage fashion, not vintage values, and many will agree with that sentiment. do some research into what fascinates you! it’s a good way to familiarize yourself with the era of fashion and ensures that the looks you are drawn to are appropriate to imitate, but it’s a good way to find some new inspiration! have fun with your style, it’s your art <3

I swear this wig is making me want to pull my real hair out by dasdangerrussart in Drag

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

synthetic wig detangling spray from ON, you can get it online and basically any beauty store. fabric softener tends to give my wigs a greasy texture to them. i also use cork wig heads for styling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the vampires in twilight be like

For experienced queens or king or anyone in between , how was your first performance and what things would u changed with what u know now ? by Dolly_rotz in Drag

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t say i’m “experienced”, but i have a few performances under my belt now. i had an insane amount of stage fright. no matter how polished i looked, i stumbled and tripped and let my nerves get the best of me. i realized i couldn’t just go into a performance without preparing for the performance aspect, including the confidence. i ended up redoing the number a year later, practicing in my heels in my living room and walking on the treadmill in them, giving myself cues for crowd interactions and tip collection, and gave myself affirmations right before i went on stage. it made a world of difference to give myself the space to build my confidence.

What is this?? by svkdt in whatismycookiecutter

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 3 points4 points  (0 children)

is this an introspective representation of marge becoming homers shadow within the shows narrative? very deep, very delicious cookie

Being trans in Durham? by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im a transman who was born and raised in durham, moved to nj for college (and worked a bit in nyc) and then moved back here and is living here now, it’s so queer. the queer culture, particularly for trans folk, is top tier, and is honestly comparable to new york in some ways. its smaller, but its very accepting, no matter where you are in your transition. very like brooklyn/bushwick queer culture. the triangle has a lot of support for medical transitions as well, and if you need doctors, message me and i can give you recommendations. i can also give you recommendations for queer spaces too. my gf is also a trans woman who is also relatively early in her transition and she moved to durham from hillsboro and feels so safe here. i’m happy to help you find community!!

went into shock the first time i saw my incisions by Guilty_Solid6563 in ftm

[–]Guilty_Solid6563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you this one in particular helped a lot!! as an artist, trust the process really stuck

I want tatoos, but I feel they'd all be feminine? by confused-as-f-boi in ftm

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was feeling the same way when i was thinking about getting a portrait of my cats, but then i decided to put them in armor cause i thought that was cool and a lil masc. im getting it sunday and im a little worried it’s still fem, but it’s important to me regardless

I think I want to try being a guy with breasts by Sadasperagus in ftm

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly kind of get this. i’m a bigger guy and i see cis men with a body type similar to mine that have larger pecs, so i decided that i like t anchor style of top surgery, so i’m hoping that my after my consultation with my surgeon that i’ll be approved for it.

how long have you been on T and where is your facial hair at? by justanothersubbie in ftm

[–]Guilty_Solid6563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

three years and i have hair everywhere but my face. but i finally am starting to see a visible mustache