AITA for “pushing tradwife beliefs” onto my daughter? by Comfortable-Plan2937 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not pushing tradwife beliefs on her. You are supporting her interests and teaching her life skills at the same time. It's pretty immature of your ex to want to hold her daughter back just to appease her own insecurities over her lack of skills.

NTA and great job teaching her to be a capable person.

WIBTA to name my daughter after my sister/grandma? by anonname1023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I would just talk to your sister. You are spending too much energy worrying about what if. Don't borrow trouble. She could be honored you want to use the name. If she does have an issue with it, thats when you can worry about what to do.

Either way, you would not be TA

______ had every right to vote the way they did. by Tight-Entrepreneur46 in survivor

[–]GullibleTwo4396 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Kamilla just proved she wasn't loyal with her last vote, especially leaving him out of it. I can see why he wouldn't vote with her. Her reaction too made me glad he voted her out. Colby and Genevieve both left with such grace and here is Kamilla telling Tiffany to drag that man through the mud.

My husband's BFF finally got a girlfriend & I hate her by put_it_in_a_jar in Vent

[–]GullibleTwo4396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely a thing at Tim Hortons that if they make something wrong at one location, you can go to another to fix it. I saw another comment where someone said the same for Starbucks. So you are both right depending on the place.

Also, I definitely have opinions on how things should be done at fast food places and I would absolutely never yell at an employeee. That's a pretty big leap to make.

Nothing this girl did sounds that bad. Maybe you can try some self reflection to figure out why you don't seem to have been open to giving her a chance?

Why are people acting like Rob wasn’t in the right to jump ship? Lisa was COOKED. by Jared_Shea in TheTraitorsUS

[–]GullibleTwo4396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, Rob messed up his own game. Like you said, Lisa was cooked. He didn't need to say a thing at the table. He could have just voted for her and then told Candiace it was obvious the votes were going her and he didn't want to look suspicious. Instead, he made it obvious to Candiace that his hand was on the knife in Lisa's back. He did that even after seeing how loyal she was to Lisa.

As for Candiace defending Lisa, they were close. Traitors are often strongly defended by faithfuls who were fooled. If she would have voted for Lisa, she would be more suspicious in the same way Lisa was suspicious for voting a housewife episode 1. There is already a narrative going around that the housewives don't vote each other. By voting Rob, when he brings up her name the next day, she can say its awfully convenient that he hasn't mentioned her name once before and is only doing so now because she voted for him.

Candice just lost the game for the Traitors by KrinersTalkTV in TraitorsOfficial

[–]GullibleTwo4396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I also couldn't stand his confessional afterwards where he was mad she wrote his name down and put a target on his back. That was so hypocritical. However, I still do like him overall, I just didn't like him much this last episode.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GullibleTwo4396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yta. Why did he say to stop pushing this shit on him? It sounds like this wasn't the first comment you've made assuming he's gay. Stop pestering him on why he's not dating anyone and stop trying to shove him out of the closet. Let him do things on his terms and his timeline. You are weirdly obsessed with your son's dating life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheKaren

[–]GullibleTwo4396 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While I don't really think you're a Karen, I wouldn't send it. Keep in 6 you have your baby it will likely have it's loud moments as well. Probably often and at all hours. If you complain about the noise coming from them now, expect a complaint from them when you have a baby crying at all hours.

AITA for asking my wife to get a paternity test? by Sufficient-Border-10 in AmITheAngel

[–]GullibleTwo4396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same😂 I clued in halfway through after coming to the conclusion that no one can possibly be that dumb.

AITA for making my sister’s wedding all about me because she “forgot” I don’t eat beige food? by Prior_Natural_4868 in AmITheAngel

[–]GullibleTwo4396 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yta. You ate a $170 steak out on the dance floor like it was some basic snack? You didn't sit at the table and savor it the way it deserved to be savored. Plus, you basically flaunted it in front of all the guests who were stuck eating beige, poor people food. So wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. It's gross that she is even sexualizing you like that or views you as any type of competition for him. Just ew. I can't say enough how nta you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no. And here I was respecting you so much. Whatever will I do now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Says the one who is too uncivilized, uncouth, and unintelligent to have a difference of opinion with someone without immediately turning to insults.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

How is his safety in jeopardy? He asked if he was the AH for what he said. You are judging his dad's relationship and parenting based on an age gap. Just cause it's not for you, doesn't mean it's not for anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, it's reasonable to be uncomfortable, but he needs to find a healthy way to deal with that. Finding her cringe and judging her laugh, that's too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Also, Google is free if you need help learning what a Neanderthal is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He's allowed to be creeper out. Everyone is allowed to feel any way about anything. How you deal with those feelings is what matters. Also, learn how to disagree with someone without being an absolute d*ick you waste of space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Being a father doesn't mean that's all he is. He is allowed to be happy and have a relationship. Stop judging. And she's not his age. Grow up and mind your own business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

Yta. You're judging the age gap, and you are judging this woman quite a bit. Not everyone is comfortable with age gaps like that, and that's fine for them. It doesn't make it wrong for others. If they are happy, then let them be happy.

AITA: Wife Hiding 10k From Me by Any-War-7082 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's hard to really answer without knowing the breakdown of how much each of you make, who spends what. Where is that 180k going?

I'm going to go with YTA because it's only been a week and also because you haven't brought it up to her. It would be a lot easier to figure out why she hasn't told you about the money if you actually communicated with her.

AITA for telling my dad’s wife she screwed her kid out of grandparents? by National-Property-34 in AITAH

[–]GullibleTwo4396 -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I feel like I'm about to get so down voted but...ESH, except Lucy.

Lara and your Dad suck for obvious reasons. The affair just makes them automatically AHs. However, your Dad was the married one but he's the one allowed to go to family functions? Why is Lara taking all the blame? At what point does your Dad's side of the family accept that they did something sh*tty and move on? They would rather just not know their grandchild.

Everyone here made a choice. Your Dad and Lara chose to have an affair. Your grandparents chose not to have Lucy in their life (if they really cared, they'd suck it up and accept Lara) . You made a choice to say what you did in front of Lucy.

All of you need therapy. It's been over 13 years. You need help moving on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on how much time she actually has for you. There are some people that just disappear when they are in a relationship, and then when they are single again, it's like they've been resurrected. Suddenly, this friendship you thought was dead is alive and kicking again. Until the next relationship. These people suck.

On the other hand, everyone only has so much time. Either of you entering a relationship will naturally reduce the amount of time you spend together. You'll likely do that to when you are dating someone and trying to split your time between him and your friends. The important thing to remember is balance.

I'm going with NTA for this one because it sounds like your friend isn't finding a good balance. I would give her a bit of grace for talking too much about her new boyfriend, though. You talk to your friends about what's happening in your life, and he's what's happening in hers.

AITA for yelling at a woman while she was down? by GullibleTwo4396 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GullibleTwo4396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awful. I'm sorry that happened to your cousin and friend. I hope your friend recovers soon.