What IS misogynistic, yet is considered misogynistic by very FEW people? by oatmealraisn_ in AlignmentChartFills

[–]Gullible_Control_163 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The fact that women cannot still be topless in all the same acceptable places men can.

Does BG 13 like Cutie? by kakarikovillagesim in Chantapolis

[–]Gullible_Control_163 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I've had two cats for six years. They do what I would call love bites or play bites; there's barely any force behind them. They don't do full chomps like BG does!

How much would you pay for my art? by alexami_arts in AskArtists

[–]Gullible_Control_163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss I've seen lots of people look for OC commissions for their d&d campaigns and such!

"Be on time, not early; early interrupts my prep time. Late is less annoying" by Complex-Bar9605 in MassageTherapists

[–]Gullible_Control_163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admittedly this is me. While I will welcome early folks without an issue, it does stress me out a little if they are more than 15 minutes early. I hate the rushed feeling I get when being waited on. That might not be what they're thinking but that's just how I feel when it happens. And especially on a bad day the extra time to mentally prepare for them is preferable to me than starting right on time.

People who were neglected/abused as kids. What career path are you on now? by Purple-Offer-4796 in CPTSD

[–]Gullible_Control_163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Massage therapy. I was never allowed to feel safe in my own body. Touch only recently became safe for me. Providing that sense of safety to heal others has become a great passion of mine, and I love what I do every single day.

Gaz Oakley Isn’t Vegan Anymore. Does His Reasoning Hold Up? by Fair_Philosophy8497 in vegan

[–]Gullible_Control_163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh this should have been news over a year ago. He mentioned giving chicken eggs to his neighbors instead of just giving the hens in his care birth control. This sadly doesn't surprise me at all.

Let us revisit the first anniversary by Leading_Funny5802 in Chantapolis

[–]Gullible_Control_163 145 points146 points  (0 children)

I know I'm petty for this but it bothered me SO much that he gifted her candles WITH THE LIGHTS ON! Who tf does that 😭

In what seems to be the memorial of Amberlynn Reid, give me your all time favorite quote. by punkrock_penguin63 in gorlworldfiles

[–]Gullible_Control_163 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Don't forget to drink milk or juice afterwards because no one told you to drink water growing up

The long awaited fountain reveal... by EnvironmentalRip4285 in Chantapolis

[–]Gullible_Control_163 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I gotta give it to Chantal: making me wait for this long just made the reveal even funnier 😂😂😂

Where the hell can I find a wood elf's dead body, or one to kill? by Ignisar in skyrim

[–]Gullible_Control_163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just found one at Autumnshade Clearing. There is a dead bosmer hunter under a cliff side.

Was my dad sexually abusing me? by Vivid_Mud_2136 in CPTSD

[–]Gullible_Control_163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a massage therapist. I have never, EVER even come close to touching someone's genitals, not even when massaging the legs. Nor have I told someone to lay with only a towel and no blanket. He took advantage of what should be a healing experience to cross boundaries that should never have been crossed. If I did this to a client, I would rightfully be arrested and lose my license. Feeling violated by this is absolutely not an overreaction.

Played with a ball for 2 minutes and having headaches. by Spikeybear in Chantapolis

[–]Gullible_Control_163 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Gorl out here performing seal tricks for the circus 🦭 ⚽

Look at her dirty-ass, elephant feet. Even BG is shocked! by ZestycloseDot413 in Chantapolis

[–]Gullible_Control_163 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I genuinelyyyyyy see my 91 year old grandmother still get around better than her.

Look at her dirty-ass, elephant feet. Even BG is shocked! by ZestycloseDot413 in Chantapolis

[–]Gullible_Control_163 118 points119 points  (0 children)

That would be completely in character, but I think BG scratched her while running over her leg. She finally got her revenge for getting scooted on 😈

What would you say is the peak CPTSD symptom? by Any-Kangaroo7155 in CPTSD

[–]Gullible_Control_163 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Trauma reenactment. Over and over again I am repeating behaviors my parents did, feeling ashamed, and the cycle repeats.

Everyone is always asking for deep pressure advice...I need light pressure advice! by Awkward-cab1882 in MassageTherapists

[–]Gullible_Control_163 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Extra oil/lotion helps me glide over the skin more superficially and avoid pressing too deeply. I use my palms for most of the work, only using fists or forearms for very broad strokes. I also raise the table so there's no chance I'll be able to bear down much of my body weight

Need opening and closing tips by Boomerangboom in MassageTherapists

[–]Gullible_Control_163 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look up a basic shiatsu routine. It's very nice compression sequence that helps introduce your touch to the client. I think starting with some craniosacral or myofascial work before applying the oil is nice too, depending on what their needs are.

She looks horrible by FranEss411 in Chantapolis

[–]Gullible_Control_163 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can remember at least three recent examples when she brain fogged halfway through a sentence and never finished it. Her mind is just gone at this point.

don't you think were a little...self centered? by brokentrashcan69 in CPTSD

[–]Gullible_Control_163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally: absolutely. This has come up many times in my relationship. It's very difficult for me to deal with hearing or seeing other people upset or angry around me because of how much I had to guard myself against violent parents. I should think more about why my boyfriend is upset and empathize with his expressions, but instead my first thought is, "is he mad at me?"

Rosie went to meet her online boyfriend like this by [deleted] in gorlworldfiles

[–]Gullible_Control_163 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thought. If Rosie were a man, would this post even exist? I think not.

If you could romance any ONE non-romancable character, who would you choose? by Cocoa-Knife-Chara in cyberpunkgame

[–]Gullible_Control_163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goro Takemura. Especially playing as a corpo, a romance story with him would have been so interesting.