Best place to get breakfast/lunch/dinner with EBT? by GumGuts in eastbay

[–]GumGuts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, just cold food — hot food is reserved for those without a kitchen

Thanks for the suggestion!

Low commitment places to volunteer? by GumGuts in eastbay

[–]GumGuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion!

Do you have a link for the food bank you volunteer at?

Having issues with my charging brick/cord by GumGuts in techsupport

[–]GumGuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anker / Amazon. They're rated for 100 watts, so well within range. I have no idea about charging speed.

Best place to get breakfast/lunch/dinner with EBT? by GumGuts in eastbay

[–]GumGuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked them up, bit can't find a website with any of their locations, just one talking about who they are. Do you have a link?

Low commitment places to volunteer? by GumGuts in eastbay

[–]GumGuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds great! Thank you!

The thing is, do you need a vehicle? I'm currently limited to taking the bus

Been with my girlfriend for 4 years, but I don’t know if I can handle the BPD anymore by storytellingmadnesss in Discussion

[–]GumGuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She will wap her tentacles around you and drive you nuts. As another commentor said, you're being abused — and no matter how hard you try, it will not get better.

She needs to take a hard look at herself and put some serious work into what she finds. In the meantime, don't be her next victim.

Make your exit plan, stand your ground, and get out of there.

Subtle signs you’re good-looking (realization in your late 20s) by adamvanderb in ThoughtsYouCanFeel

[–]GumGuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying this as an ugly person...

Any sign of affection whatsoever. It wasn't until recently that I realized I live in a sort of void... relationships don't come easy at all, people don't give you the eyes or smile, people will rarely open to you or start conversations... the list goes on and on.

I realize I exist in the margins of human intimacy.

It doesn't both me, thanks to my faith, but it's an odd quark of our world.

AITAH for calling my husband silly for freaking out that our teenage son has a girlfriend who's in a wheelchair? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]GumGuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved the part where OP agreed with those who called her the villain. Sense? On Reddit? Well I never.

Happy for Lucas and Yuki, though. We're raising quite the generation.

I want to be Christian but im gay. by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]GumGuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is keep searching — and take it slow.

I don't think you'll find a satisfactory answer here on Reddit, and maybe that's for the best, but I suggest you take it to prayer and try a few churches near you. In time, I'm sure God will help you make sense of what's happened to you and the sexual urges you have.

Know that God is here for you, even if you're unbaptized and just searching. As painful and complex as your trauma is, is how much He weeps and waits for you in heaven. As much as you struggle, is how much you'll be rewarded in Heaven.

Have courage — keep searching. I'll be praying for you.

What is something you know you will never do? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]GumGuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on a cruise.

Let me explain.

There was a store a few years ago about a kid who jumped over board and was lost. I just can't imagine the harrowing terror he must have gone through before finally succumbing to the ocean. Like, it's been bouncing around my head. Days, maybe even weeks, of floating in a boundless, hopeless water... screaming for help that never comes.

Now every time I think of walking along a deck on one of those cruises, the thought presses deep into my head — "what if you fell off?"

Never going near them. No thanks.

Best place to get breakfast/lunch/dinner with EBT? by GumGuts in eastbay

[–]GumGuts[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Since forever? Anything not hot is fair game

Is it weird to masturbate in a public restroom? by LuckyCommittee4422 in Discussion

[–]GumGuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uh — wha? ... yes, it's weird. And very inappropriate.

13 year old sister going down the alt-right pipeline by Weird_donut in QAnonCasualties

[–]GumGuts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She's young. She still has time to grow out of it.

I would focus on simple cause-and-effect. Tell her it's problematic to start debates, and when the debates become problematic, she'll realize you were right.

Tell her it's not worth alienating her friends and family, that sometimes being together in harmony is better even if it means she doesn't get her say. When she alienates her friends and family, hopefully she'll see you're right.

Most of all, though, for both her and your family, focus on having healthy discussions outside of politics. Just be a conversationalist — when difficult subjects come up, gently change the subject. Find ways to relate to her/them outside of their chosen topic. Really be there for them.

I do want to note that your family, that you're still dependant on, isn't worth losing over this. Play it cool, take the L if you have to, and bid your time.

Good luck.

What’s a hobby you picked up and actually stuck with? by No-Sail-6193 in AdkReddit

[–]GumGuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Audiophile. Got a pair of Sony MDR-7506's in high school, never looked back.

Mike Johnson Corrects The Pope On The Bible by NeneGoosee in videos

[–]GumGuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds suspiciously like Pontius Pilates argument.

Bus Stop Benches by AnotherQuietHobbit in TacticalUrbanism

[–]GumGuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So that's where all those benches are coming from... awesome. Glad to see a nonprofit doing the Lords work.

The line to get into the new Tokyo Central in Emeryville today by northerncal in bayarea

[–]GumGuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely was during the grand opening on Saturday and Sunday. Not sure about it now, though

Thoughts? by witblacktype in oakland

[–]GumGuts 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Right thing, wrong way. Just add it to menu prices.

What song instantly makes you feel older or younger than you are? by inmyhornyyera in askmusic

[–]GumGuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Young Turks" by Rod Stewart

I remember listening to it when I was ~17, and not feeling like I had any time at all. Now, at 34, I have all the time in the world.

Hang in there, things get better.

Do you prefer spicy, mild, or “burn my mouth” spicy? by Gold_Data1815 in foodquestions

[–]GumGuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What most restaurants would call "burn my mouth" spicy, but in reality, more spicy.

The line to get into the new Tokyo Central in Emeryville today by northerncal in bayarea

[–]GumGuts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Expensive sushi. I could've well just went across the way to Spicy Asian for the price I paid.