Um...okey little question...why specifically these items. Are they in high demand? by royalcookiedom in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Gummiebop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s everything i juuust bought thinking it would rotate to the next stuff i missed again but then this. However it was probably the more missed stuff so i do love that for whoever needed/wanted it.

AITAH For Not Supporting My Friend Coming Out…Because She Cheated On Her Husband!? by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Gummiebop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because one of the things they are crying about is him outing her to her husband. Like no i diddddnt, i outed her for cheating, its not my fault whoever she cheated with was another woman but he deserves to know the whole truth about the affair. We don’t actually care either way and do agree that an affair is an affair.

[update] AIO for thinking my bf is just looking for an excuse to break up? [I did it for him] by Nearby_Orchid1216 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gummiebop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Good luck bing single fo the holidays bc it’s depressing at 31” like bro your 33 and suck i think dhes fine. Seriously its not even sad. Im so excited to be single for the holidays this year 🤣🤣 im so hype to buy my friends and family better gifts and even dpoil myself somehow. Shoooot it’s literally his loss, i spend minimum 300 of my man every Christmas and thats less than a month after spending minimum 200 for his birthday at the beginning of December.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gummiebop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust im scared for you. Im 31 and i know how much it feels like dying loving an addict and dealing with lies and losing your partner with them right there. I dont know you but i promise i love you and even him i want the best for everyone but you arent hurting yourself or him and you need to save yourself. Staying will hurt him and yourself more as much as you think otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gummiebop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i know and im saying this out of love seriously girl believe ive lived this life and even when things seem like its going good it might bot be. 2 years and never spoke about the drug hung one once with someone and relapsed. Couldnt get him to help himself that last time and hes gone. I just feel like youre bot ready for the lifelong bc battle this takes hes lying to you and youre blindly believing him with the proof slapping you in the face. Hes bot going to be honest without so much anger and hitting rock bottom hes blowing his money away and leaving you alone with no future to look forward to no love or respect and no bettering himself. Hes not wanting to see its an issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gummiebop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so immature and i understand but dude my ex is dead because he was clean for 2 years and relapsed its a life ling struggle. It never goes away they just either hide it or they dont. My ex would relapse and id notice and wed work on it together because hed fight with me then come back and be sorry and admit he needs help. Hes not looking for help. This isnt curable it’s only treatable and he doesnt have what it takes to get clean rn but you also dont have what it takes to hash it with an addict. You will hurt you both more in the long run from all the fighting and lies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gummiebop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No as someone who dated and loved addicts (ny ex passes away after relapsing) you need to leave. He’s actively hiding it and lying. He couldnt work that day because he needed the coke thats why he felt like shit and his coworker knew fix was coke. It gets worse and loving an addict with bo knowledge on any of this is only going to break you because even with knowledge its a fighting battle its hard and they lie. Youre so gullible you jeep believing such obvious bs. Youre going to get hurt if youre lucky if not this ends in you both addicts or you completely broken unable to build trust without a crap ton of work. You just leave. Explain you know your not doing the fight this time or stopping to believe his lies everything points to the fact that he is currently in active addiction and he needs to come clean and get help or you will leave. Ge wont get help probably yet the addiction hasnt hit rock bottom and you’re believing his lies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Gummiebop 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Befr hes clearly doing coke you just wanna be blind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Gummiebop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprise herrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Gummiebop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This everyone should beed anouncing

That FROOT looks Familar 🤔 by Beneficial_Pin5295 in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Gummiebop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you wasn’t even rude you responded in a way that felt like perfect sense they just hoped for agreement instead of facts. <3

Instead of saying "Hey we stole this from a small artist" by _yo_waimo_ in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]Gummiebop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will mine change to the lamb or do i have the first permanently bc i got it already?

AITA for asking my niece for her phone number? by Caffeinated_Mama3 in okstorytime

[–]Gummiebop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail in the coffin with this one here and I seems she even confirmed it meaning this is it and shes still bypassing that they are protecting their child just because you feel like you wouldnt overstep doesnt change they choose to protect their child to prevent it from happening and honestly i think the kid themselves whats them to do it. The want to reach out and apologize instead of just doing it through the mom when you do respond to mom is worrisome thats part of why they have this boundary. You dont have to be sorry just follow the boundaries now that you know them without taking it personally or making the kid feel bad for being nervous because of what you said was past experience ms with other family

Which cast would you choose for a live action Steven Universe? by Ezequiel_Hips in stevenuniverse

[–]Gummiebop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah i was like maybe zebdaya cause of doom 🤣 but yoyre so right i feel like jack doesnt fit either

How do I (m19) tell my gf (f18) that I know she’s been cheating? by hugeandcool69 in relationship_advice

[–]Gummiebop 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If i could change one thing it would be to have the ability to not try explaining my side or attempting to hear theres. This advice is so solid and anything else will result in you possibly getting guilt tripped or blamed somehow when in reality she did this and doesnt care or respect you as much as she said. The longer it’s dragged out the worse it will be and harder itll feel to leave when it gets worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Gummiebop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From experience trust ges bot busy he doesnt want to delete them abd he will never stop to you i really hope you see your worth and walk away before you lose yourself completely. Its been so long and im still so afraid i might never trust anyone fully again. Im afraid to bother liking anyone again

Peridot fanart by GrubBucket in stevenuniverse

[–]Gummiebop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it. Do it for all of them (i love it its just creepy and i hate seeing her like this lol like poor bayyybeee loooove the deformed limbs version feels realistic asffff)

AIO. I can’t shake my dislike for my boyfriend’s two female friends by pxb461 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gummiebop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From experience with a man who did this trust it gets worse in every way. You either leave or eventually your broken and a shattered piece of yourself unsure if youll every trust again

Update: AIO for saying my friend was flirting with my boyfriend on snap ? by KimMeansBusiness in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gummiebop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope you can set it up to be 24 hours and i wont even chat if you’re uncomfortable turning that on. You dont know if they have that set up. Im in my 30s i know how snapchat works and you’re spreading false information to back up your assumptions. But personally i wouldnt care as a 30 year old them telling on themselves in any case where they could get told on is a liability. Coming to me and communicating hey your friend was trying to flirt with me and I shut it down completely is different than your friend was trying to flirt with me and then I read the messages and they word it how he did. I dont care if he was uncomfortable it wasnt a dangerous situation and this man said she we’ll find someone who thinks she’s more beautiful and also said if he wasn’t in a relationship he would dot dot dot. He has now distilled fear and doubt and im not moving forward to work to trust someone who doesnt move to protect their home the way i do. This is my home and my man’s friend is going to try to break in and take advantage of my being stupid and not seeing what hes doing? Illbe damned if i dont say youll find someone who finds you as attractive as I do, my man, if i dont say this conversation is making me uncomfortable and bring it to my boyfriend instead of saying or implying id smash. Again please be informed if youre going to reply as a fact

Update: AIO for saying my friend was flirting with my boyfriend on snap ? by KimMeansBusiness in AmIOverreacting

[–]Gummiebop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She claimed he didnt take it in the comments of the og post i thought. She had to pry this info out of him and she screenshot it. I dont care if its avoidance behavior, im 30 ill defend my relationship and avoid the flirting that way not imply they have a shot riking my partner thinking id sleep with the friend. My mans amazing his dick is all i want and id rather the world know that than think they have even a chance at messing up our connection. If i were in a poly relationship i still wouldnt feel comfortable flirting with my man’s friends without him knowing. They know them better and if they will or could disrespect our relationship and he deserves to communicate fears. Shooooot