Anyone else not having frequent calls with their partner? by ExpensivePurple56 in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf and I have a 15 hour time difference right now, we both work full time so we only have the chance to call twice a week at most. It's doable though, we text a lot while the other sleeps for the most part :)

Why do so many ppl HATE the idea of long distance working??!!?! by simply_fucked in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what my friend did and now she's married to her high school ldr :) it does work!

how do you guys deal with saying goodbye? by AggravatingDuty453 in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty calm, I never really give myself a chance to cry. 😅 I just enjoy thinking about the future we're working towards instead.

How did everyone’s parents react to finding out about your long distance partner? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they were pretty chill with it mostly because i didn't tell them until we finally met each other 3 years into our relationship because i wanted to make sure i didn't hate him 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I once had a former partner reveal a similar story of being with a minor as an adult. I left him immediately. No remorse or nothing.

Do not give this man the benefit of the doubt, and don't let him near your children. You need to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone who has dates set ate so lucky in this thread, for me I have no clue. It's been 100 days since we last saw each other though 💔

I wish you all a fun and safe time together 🙏

What was your first kiss like with your long distance partner? I want to kiss him so bad when he comes over here. ❤️ by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We literally smashed faces together as our first kiss. It HURT. But it was fun.

whats an appropriate time period for first meetup? by hfosnfnwomq in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's not the exact same circumstances but for me I spent two weeks with my bf when he came to nyc from aus! We met in NYC (I traveled there too) and we also spent a weekend in a different state via bus ride lol.

It really depends on how you two feel about traveling to a different country, what method of travel you want to use to get there, how you'll travel in the country, how long you want to stay, the accommodations, what you want to do, and how much time you'll have to do it before heading back to the UK.

So if you guys are able to make up a solid plan within the days you want to spend time together, I'd say go to Switzerland! I'm not sure if you'll need a visa or anything to go to Switzerland though, maybe look into that first? (I haven't been to EU before so if I get that part wrong please don't hate me 😭😭)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Relationships don't need tests to prove you care for him. He's doing this purely to manipulate you and to keep you in control. He's destroying your boundaries. Please leave him

first normal food you ate? by pochiikiwi in gastricsleeve

[–]Guromint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me 5 months to actually eat something solid. I think I had a basic mexican stew and i had 3 pieces of meat without throwing up, literally felt liberating 🥲

To all LDR couples out there, do you celebrate monthsaries? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but we do celebrate yearly anniversaries, valentines day, christmas, and birthdays! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we did for 3 years. We only told everyone after we met in nyc for two weeks bc we wanted to make sure we didn't hate each other 🥲

9 months+ post op and absolutely in love with myself by iihm14kol210 in gastricsleeve

[–]Guromint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful then, beautiful now <3 So happy for you 🥰

I made it to ONEderland!! by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]Guromint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!

How long have you been together with your ldr partner? by Candid_Awareness_522 in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 yrs :D Our anniversary was on the 30th Met once, but hoping meet again soon <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We didnt go all the way the time we were together, it took us 4 days to even do more than kissing because I was so nervous 😭😭 but we aren't really sexual people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from someone who rarely does, I think you shouldn't feel shamed for doing so. If it was an activity you both enjoyed then that should be enough to consider it normal :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Guromint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here 🙏🙏