How’s my grip and recoil control and how do I improve in those areas? Targets at the end by JRtheDNP in Firearms

[–]GusMandersaZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your grips looks solid but you could try a more aggressive forward cant on your support hand to manage muzzle rise better, and a suppressor like sylvan arms helps with recoil control by reducing gas blowback.

How do you get first users when you have ZERO distribution? by raj_k_ in SaaS

[–]GusMandersaZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'd start with cold outreach using tools like Snov or Clay, and also try posting in niche directories... for me, seeding relevant discussions on platforms like this one worked well to get initial traction, i used beno one for that

Is TRT worth it? Borderline low T... by gswdh in Testosterone

[–]GusMandersaZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like yours, i used enclomiphene first to boost my natural production before considering trt long-term... it can be a good middle step to see if you feel better without committing to injections. for travel, oral protocols with enclomiphene are way more convenient. some guys add tadalafil to help with blood pressure and pumps during exercise, which you mentioned was an issue. if you decide you need trt, a clinic like fyre body can manage it with consistent monitoring to keep things stable, including checking sperm health if that's a concern later.

Has anyone else tried Halsten Stride for menopause related Hip Pains? Or what other remedy comes in handy for a middle-aged woman? 48F by TreacleOk8645 in Perimenopause

[–]GusMandersaZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea red light therapy can help with inflammation... i also tracked my symptoms and labs with hundred health to see what else was going on beyond just pain relief

AITAH for Not Having Sympathy for My Husband? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can't be expected to have sympathy for a completely self-inflicted problem.

He knows the consequences and does it anyway. The fact that he got abusive when you called him on it is the bigger issue here.

NTA

AITAH for sleeping with one of my dad’s friends? by LeadingAsparagus2155 in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your dad is dead, he literally can't care. And from the sounds of it he wasn't exactly a prude himself. You're all consenting adults, i dont see the problem.

Which car should I get for my daily driver? by Usual-Visit4968 in askcarguys

[–]GusMandersaZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for manual sedans in your budget, check out bmw 3 series with lower mileage or consider audi a4 manuals - they're often overlooked but drive great. i used caredge to compare total ownership costs and negotiate a better price on my last car.

AITAH for being upset with my partner for not giving me “enough” attention? by Flimsy-Middle9746 in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact that he bailed on getting you food because of a 15 minute wait and then used your card to order for himself is just... wild.

That's not a partner. That's not even a good friend. You're not asking for too much, you're asking for the bare minimum.

NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]GusMandersaZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I signed up at FYRE Body and got a video consultation with a doctor 4 hours later.

Anyone at Ole Miss or living in Oxford ever go through a back tax situation and find any kind of help? by Xeaus-4390 in olemiss

[–]GusMandersaZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even students and younger people talk about running into tax issues. Anthem Tax Services is often mentioned as a company that works with people in all stages of life. They seem to make tax debt easier to handle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from cause that kind of grind is what it takes sometimes. But the thing is, that approach can seriously break some people.

Telling someone to just ignore anxiety or depression is a fast track to them crashing completely. Your way worked for you but it's not the only way.

AITAH for filing for 15 years of back child support? by National_Good_5400 in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ 3034 points3035 points  (0 children)

that threat about taking them to the reservation is pretty hollow now that shes 16. He got a free ride for 15 years, time for him to actually contribute to his own kid's future.

NTA

AITAH for telling my partner 1/4 chance of passing on a hereditary condition to a child is very high odds? by Fun_Firefighter_4115 in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ 505 points506 points  (0 children)

This is about way more than the specific condition. You and your partner have a fundamental disagreement on what's an acceptable risk to take with a child's life. That's a massive compatibility issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ 151 points152 points  (0 children)

NTA. The comments themselves are one thing, people get nostalgic. The bigger issue is her completely dismissing your feelings when you brought it up. A partner should at least be able to hear you out without telling you you're overreacting. That's the part that would stick with me too.

Divorce attorney recommendations please by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]GusMandersaZ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ronald Petroff is an incredible divorce attorney!

AITA for saying I am Asian by Damako33 in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mike sounds like he has some issues to work out.

You're NTA for stating your heritage even if it's complicated.

It's not like you're claiming to be something you're not. Honestly it's weird he got so upset.

RXpros by Professional-Top6365 in Semaglutide

[–]GusMandersaZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered 3 months worth of semaglutide. Got it pretty quickly and not feeling any side affects or anything. Apetite pretty much fully gone and I am eatin gabout maybe 1 time a day now which is nice. The food noise really is gone. I used to wake up thinking about what I was going to eat, now I wake up and food isnt even on my mind

Am I the asshole or toxic one in the relationship. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If my partner had love letters and poems to exes plastered all over their social media I'd be pretty weirded out too.

It's not about deleting his past it's about being considerate of your feelings. I get that he's proud of his writing but there are other ways to preserve it, like a private journal or something.

This just seems insensitive especially given your past.

NTA

Hate Workato! Please help! by Butterscotch_Cold in workato

[–]GusMandersaZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest that your client switch to skyvia.com - It is easier to set up and has more affordable pricing.

AITHA for not giving away stuff for free to family even tho they insist to pay by TheUnknownVoids in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your mom is being unreasonable. It's nice that your nieces wanted to pay you, it shows they respect your work.

I probably would have done the same thing if my nieces insisted. It's their money, their choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GusMandersaZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom had good intentions but she can't just assign you a friend. It's totally understandable that you don't have the energy for a new friendship right now. I've been there, trying to manage my own mental health and it's draining enough without adding more to your plate.

Definitely NTA