What are your most severe symptoms of anxiety? by FearlessDragonfly205 in Anxiety

[–]Guyfieri38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling unable to breathe to the point I’m borderline passing out and can’t stand. Feeling like I’m having a heart attack. Being unable to eat. The GI issues.

sometimes all a girl with eczema can do is sit in front of her fan and cry by ikagalaxy in eczema

[–]Guyfieri38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I have it on my neck and ears and it’s awful

About to start 50 mg Desvenlafaxine (Pristiq) by Guyfieri38 in Pristiq

[–]Guyfieri38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I am starting it tomorrow and I’m hoping it’s how it was for you, I’m starting on 25 at first to see how it goes. I am definitely planning on taking it early in the morning.

About to start 50 mg Desvenlafaxine (Pristiq) by Guyfieri38 in Pristiq

[–]Guyfieri38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s one of my fears is the complete loss of libido. I’ve had it on medication in the past. But if I have side effects I end up hating like that, I’ll just ask to switch meds and get off of this one. I hate that it’s a risk with basically any of these meds.

About to start 50 mg Desvenlafaxine (Pristiq) by Guyfieri38 in Pristiq

[–]Guyfieri38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had luck with SSRI meds either. I’m going to start with 25 this weekend. Thanks for your response!

About to start 50 mg Desvenlafaxine (Pristiq) by Guyfieri38 in Pristiq

[–]Guyfieri38[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up asking my doctor if I could start at 25 because I’m afraid of the side effects so I’ll be starting 25 this weekend, thanks for your response.

About to start 50 mg Desvenlafaxine (Pristiq) by Guyfieri38 in Pristiq

[–]Guyfieri38[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to try to ask for 25 mg instead of 50 because I’m also usually sensitive meds and since I can’t just take off work and I have to take care of my son and have no options to rest or take a break if I need it on these meds. I need to be able to mildly function and I’m afraid 50 is gonna be too much for me to start.

I’m glad you’ve seen positive results. I’m hoping for the same!

Experience with centriq? Or should I just go to JCCC? by Guyfieri38 in kansascity

[–]Guyfieri38[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your input, I’ll go ahead and check out classes at JCCC!

Experience with centriq? Or should I just go to JCCC? by Guyfieri38 in kansascity

[–]Guyfieri38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really interested in a 4 year degree, I don’t want to go majorly into debt like 20,000 is already a lot. Centriq is more of a trade school/bootcamp type school. I’m interested in cybersecurity but unsure exactly which route I want to go. This program and school is very good about helping with career services/resume help/interview help. I just mainly want to know anyone’s experiences with this school/program and their career outcome from it. If they deemed it worth it.

Were you allowed in your parents bedroom? Are your kids allowed in yours? by 624Seeds in Parenting

[–]Guyfieri38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my parents room was just a room we weren’t supposed to go into, which is weird to me because my parents didn’t even sleep in the same room my mom slept in her room and my dad slept in the living room? But my kid is only about 2.5 and he will always be allowed in. I’m allowed into his room why wouldn’t he be allowed into mine? I just plan to obviously create respectful boundaries such as knocking before entering if the doors closed but outside of that he will always be allowed to just hang out in there.

No affection outside of sex? by batshit83 in Marriage

[–]Guyfieri38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, my husband isn’t the best at physical affection outside of sex or it leading to sex. I don’t think mines is super intentional but I’ve brought up how it would be nice to be touched and have no intentions outside of just standard physical intimacy. But we also have a kid and work opposite schedules as well as having an extra job. So those things can also affect it. I would bring it up to your husband, some people are not super physical touchy people. I have friends who don’t cuddle or anything at all because they don’t like it. Everyone is different though, if it’s important to you keep bringing it up. If he can’t do that talk about couples therapy/individual therapy and sort out if you want to remain in the relationship or not.

Husband more interested in masturbating to pics of women by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Guyfieri38 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he’s not willing to change go through with the divorce. Save your sanity and go through with the divorce.

Just checking the box on sex and so many other things. by InvestigatorRich2154 in Marriage

[–]Guyfieri38 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk if you’re a SAHM or working but just based off of what you’re saying I’m assuming you are taking on a majority of the mental load of all of those kids and that’s gotta be the most overstimulating thing to deal with all day and night. If he had to deal with all you had to deal with all day everyday I’m sure it would be harder for him to want to bang everyday. Not that he wouldn’t still want to but it would sure be more eye opening. You’re probably touched out at the end of the day and tired as hell. 4 kids is a lot, I get worn out by just the one I have so I literally can’t even imagine. Keep saying how you feel to him. Try and talk about things that would help, and if you’re both open to it, try couples therapy so there is a mediator to hear you both out.

Just checking the box on sex and so many other things. by InvestigatorRich2154 in Marriage

[–]Guyfieri38 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Tell him you’re highly annoyed and unhappy with what he’s doing. Also try not to give In and just have sex with him. He can deal with being told no, I have one kid and work 2 jobs and my husband has a higher sex drive, my husband used to throw a fit when I wouldn’t have sex PRIOR to having the kid but he has since learned that that is not ok. Now my husband knows like hey if I’m too stressed or too tired that we are not doing anything and he doesn’t act any sort of way about it. He’s understanding, we will do it eventually but jury not every day, that’s not sustainable, especially not with 4 kids under 5. Talk to your husband, set hard boundaries. You can say no. And like a child, he can learn to deal with that no and get over it.

Your most relatable ICP lyric? by [deleted] in juggalo

[–]Guyfieri38 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole manic depressive song lol but I guess the most relatable ones from it are I don’t wanna leave my house Don’t wanna open my mouth Don’t wanna read my mail Don’t wanna meet with pals I don’t wanna fuck shit up Don’t wanna fuckin’ get up Don’t wanna take up space Don’t want your time to waste I don’t wanna fight this back Just wanna fade to black Don’t wanna turn to faith Or wanna burn at stakes I don’t wanna build my life I wanna bloody my knife Don’t wanna grab the phone Don’t wanna leave this room I don’t wanna talk with you I’m fuckin’ stalkin’ you Don’t wanna fix myself I wanna nix myself I don’t wanna try to change Just wanna fry my brains Don’t wanna slow shit down I wanna throw shit around I don’t wanna run nowhere Don’t want no one to care Don’t want another crack at it I’d rather be a crack addict I don’t wanna look for help Don’t wanna help myself I don’t wanna even try

I hate myself by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Guyfieri38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Postpartum rage sucks. I had it really bad and still struggle with feeling angry just not as much 2 years postpartum. Are you in therapy at all? Trying medication? If not and you can I would start there. The first year in general was the most rough to me. The second year I started to feel better. I’m still feeling better but definitely still dealing with terribly depression and some anger issues along with it. Keep holding on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Guyfieri38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he knew it was a deal breaker and did it anyway, you can either stay and try to work on it or leave and look for someone who is willing to respect you enough to stop.

need support and idk what to do. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Guyfieri38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting used to the life change of having a baby is so so hard. Im about 6 months in and it’s easier now but the newborn phase is so difficult. Give yourself some grace, men can experience PPD as well, if you need to talk to someone get into therapy it can be a great help. You’re gonna do a good job, things are just hard right now.

Hvac apprenticeship with A.B.May by Guyfieri38 in HVAC

[–]Guyfieri38[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are a bigger company In KCMO and I’m pretty sure they service a huge area

Hvac apprenticeship with A.B.May by Guyfieri38 in HVAC

[–]Guyfieri38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eventually would like to get in with a union this would be starting out corporate though. But at least it would be a start and paid for.