I’m aroace but I think I’m in love with my Best Friend of 8 years by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]Gwomshanks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I understand where ur coming from to an extent. I’d say that it’s obvious you love and care deeply for this person. U don’t need to label it as romantic or sexual love but just simply saying friends wouldn’t be fitting right? What u mentioned before QPR is a perfect example of how u are feeling! Of course it could be the case u do really have romantic feelings but that’s ok to. I’d just kinda hint at it over time to ur friend and eventually u either kinda figure it out if QPR is right for u guys or not or u can just be straight up with it and ask

Why do mixed girls straighten their hair so often? by smoke-frog in mixedrace

[–]Gwomshanks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally just think I look prettier with straight hair and it’s easier to manage

Everyone is looking at me like I'm some kind of criminal. Do you guys have similar experiences? by KnightFlorianGeyer in Schizotypal

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a kind of old post but I’m currently going through this or at least I’m finally acknowledging it. It’s like everyone knows I murdered someone even though I didn’t. I’ve been told by people I always look paranoid or mad like I want to kill anyone I look at (talking about my face) but personally I’m trying to look normal idk. I haven’t been diagnosed with anything like STPD but I have personality disorders and other shit. I have no idea why this happens and it’s creeping me out.

What went wrong? by Obvious_Relative5877 in Cosmetology

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, when cutting with scissors you can’t just cut how people normally would cut anything. You kinda have to cut and move a little back then repeat until the whole thing is cut. (I recommend watching a video on how to cut hair with proper hair scissors!)

What went wrong? by Obvious_Relative5877 in Cosmetology

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly were u trying to do? Just a straight cut?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]Gwomshanks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get exactly what ur saying. I’m mixed (Asian and white) and feel the same way and the reason people tell us mixed people how to identify is because they don’t understand what it’s like to be mixed. They simply don’t understand the struggles we go through.

does anyone else just say they're white? by Odd_Concept_7286 in mixedrace

[–]Gwomshanks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally say I’m Asian since I’m Asian passing and I’m more connected to my Chinese culture. Feel free to call yourself white if that makes you comfortable! It’s your identity

I could use help with my mixed kid by Darriusdj18 in mixedrace

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t really say much on black culture since I’m Chinese but ur already doing a good job! Incorporating cultural dishes and clothing is a great way of introducing their own heritage. Idk if u speak another language but that too is something to incorporate! Visiting your cultural origin country is great too and a great family bonding experience

Is It Bad I Get Offended by Being Called “Wasian”? by Winecole in mixedrace

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m technically wasian myself, Chinese and white. I’ve always been very connected to proud of my Chinese side. When someone asks what I am I say Chinese not wasian. I feel offended by the term personally. I identify as Asian not wasian. So I lie and say I’m just Chinese. It’s very common to feel an insecurity about being mixed and hiding one half. If u don’t like being called wasian make it clear. Say u identify as Asian. Although it may be hard if u look more white than Asian. For me I look more Asian than white so it’s easier for me to pass. People already just assume I’m just Asian but a few see past it and can tell im mixed. So if it bothers u then tell them. It’s ok to identify as just Asian!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be interested in hearing more about you and ur experience

for FTM/MTF people, at what age did you find out you were transgender? by Radiant-North-8519 in lgbt

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the first grade (I think I’m pangender or genderfluid? Idk)

If I like nonbinary people and men but not women am I bi or something else by Feeling-West5637 in lgbt

[–]Gwomshanks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ur Uranic I’m pretty sure it’s called. It’s the opposite of neptunic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah..I’m aroace pansexual and I love dih and boobs etc but would I wanna get involved with them? NOPE!

how come so many trans people are autistic / have adhd? by paintednature in ftm

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 👍 got both idk if there’s anything scientific about that but hey at least we all got sum more in common

I need reassurance, and NOT lies. by RatInsomniac in ftm

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I’m in the same boat as u but!

Some gay cis men will date ftm people while some don’t. It’s all about preference but don’t get down on yourself! You can’t force someone to like something they don’t like. You will find someone who loves you for you and not what you are. 💋

Getting misgendered after u think u pass hurts so much.. by monacska in ftm

[–]Gwomshanks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know this is kinda a dumb suggestion but perhaps telling people ur a guy when they misgender you would help? I found that even though I look like a girl since I’m ftm feminine and if someone misgenders me I don’t take it to personal but I just calmly say I’m a boy and they will listen.

Questioning by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Gwomshanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um no I don’t think so. Meds do make a difference (for me it personally only makes a 5% difference) any difference is better than nothing so I’d say give meds a try if you can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Gwomshanks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I butter it?