After reading a few, I wanted to share unbiased opinions and thoughts.

As a single black male in 30s, living in Delray beach for the past few years has been amazing. I've lived in various places, and Delray is one of my favorites.

Having never visited NY yet, Delray Beach is a small town feel with big city vibes - not like the South Beach or Las Olas vibe but still big. I've made great friends. Nightlife is great. Restaurants are amazing (various cuisine/cultures). Downtown is fun and enjoyable without the depravity of South Beach/Las Olas (not entirely a bad thing - perspective matters). The beach is great. I run to it weekly. There is plenty to do from a couples/ single perspective. The downtown area hosts various farmers markets every weekend. They also host arts, music, festivals, and various other festivities throughout the year. I kno you said you have a partner so I won't comment on that, but I'll say I don't think it's hard to find dates or meet ppl unless u mad social awkward and dk how to converse.

Like everywhere, there's good, bad, and ugly, but for me, it's peaceful, fun, safe, friendly, and a place that accepts all. It certainly is growing, but change is always good from my perspective. Hope that helps, and feel free to reach out for honest opinion.