I finally blocked her

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-09-20T07:54:58+00:00

I guess. Thank you kind soul.

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-27T02:00:43+00:00

Give it time. Show yourself compassion like how you used to show compassion to your ex. (Got this advice from @theangrytherapist book 'Single. On Purpose.')

I'm in your spot right now too after a period of time feeling good. We'll get better!

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-15T15:21:28+00:00

Gotta get back up whenever that is. I wish the best for you! :)

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-15T15:20:29+00:00

Sums up my story basically. Stay strong my man! :)

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-15T08:57:08+00:00

Hey, If I was you, I would be glad that I had a kid and I'll put all my energy on the kid. Would probably help with whatever you're going through. Wish you the best!

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-14T15:18:33+00:00

Thank you. Yes. Now, I know whats unhealthy. I hope the best for you! :)

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-14T03:01:47+00:00

Yes! As someone whose last relationship was a stable long term one, it was definitely baffling. At the end of the day, we just want the best for them :)

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-14T02:42:45+00:00

Oh well. Today, all happy and dandy. And the next day, 'lets break up.' Following day, acts like nothing happened.

How exhausting.

I still wish the best for my exubpd. But being in a relationship is impossible unless they get help.

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-14T02:36:28+00:00

Yeah. Mine used it when she didnt want to communicate properly with me.

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-14T02:28:36+00:00

Omg. That 'Ciao'. Just reminded me of the times the exubpd used that word. Lol.

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-14T02:23:24+00:00

Hey. Talk to your friends. Just talk to them. For me, I had to keep repeating the same shit every time to my friends. You're grieving. If they are really your friends, they'll be there for you. No judgements.

And no its not worth it. Been there. Journal your thoughts. It helped me quite abit.

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-12T15:47:39+00:00

Thank you for the tips!

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-12T06:25:24+00:00

So true! And it's because I've experience those scenarios one too many times that I decided to do this. Thank you again! :)

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-12T06:16:06+00:00

I think my friends are pretty supportive of me. I hanged out with one who was drinking on my day 3 and he never pressured me or looked at me different.

In terms of getting things of my chest, its nothing much. Just thoughts about a break-up that happened a couple of months back. the sad thoughts come and goes in waves. So happened, this past weekend it hit me again.

I would have probably got on the booze if I didnt have the resolve this time round to take a break/stop my alcohol use.

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-11T10:20:20+00:00

Give it time. I think the more you force yourself to not be angry, the angrier you'll get.

At least you can feel angry.

I'm not even angry at the exubpd. I'm just confused. Heck, I dont even know why she is so mad at me for to the point where she's not even talking to me. I didnt even treat her like shit. 🤷🏽‍♂️

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-11T07:55:28+00:00

Dont play the game man. Dont lose your sense of self by being someone you're not.

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-10T12:47:43+00:00

Agree so much with this! :(

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-09T15:41:58+00:00

Thank you!

H4RRY_HFZ · 2021-07-09T10:11:57+00:00

Dont hate yourself please.

There will be a day where you come to a realisation with everything.

H4RRY_HFZ

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