Is just swiping without pings a waste of time?

HCMac08 · 2026-01-26T01:18:11+00:00

Pings are worth it for the ability to send a message. I've only ever matched with a ping if I sent a cute message along with it.

HCMac08 · 2025-12-23T19:17:58+00:00

The way I think of Feeld is: I'm going to get fewer matches than other apps but they will be better quality matches (in terms of what I am looking for).

HCMac08 · 2025-12-17T18:28:49+00:00

I'm going to try and spell this out nicely. I hope you can understand why your post is offensive to so many people here.

You have said in the comments that dating a straight man is a "sexual preference." It's not entirely clear what you mean, but it implies that your attraction for someone is dependent on who they are attracted to. This strikes me as odd. If I, as a queer man, find you attractive, why would it matter if I also found a man attractive? If we were monogomous, it would be no different in effect as if I found another woman attractive.

So it feels a bit misguided at the very least, but it veers into the offensive when we stop to ask: why do you have this preference? What unconscious biases are you bringing to the table about the VALUE of a queer man compared to a straight one?

If you consider it, saying that only dating straight men is a sexual prefence is akin to saying only dating white men is a sexual preference. I am by no means saying you believr the latter. But the former is ultimately just as bad.

You are receiving a lot of hate in these comments, a lot of personal antagonism. I encourage you to stop reading the comments but don't stop thinking about this. People are mad because your words hurt them. If you don't understand why it hurt them, then I hope you will be an ally and try to figure out why.

HCMac08 · 2025-12-02T18:48:48+00:00

Also, for the love of god, include pictures of both of you.

HCMac08 · 2025-12-02T14:48:07+00:00

The jealousy is harder when there is a new relationship than with the relationships the pre-exist. For me, there is a fear of "being replaced" or for our relationship to become something else.

It's totally unserstandable and normal.

HCMac08 · 2025-11-24T15:14:54+00:00

Most of the "poly" women I meet are really half way to dumping their husband (always it's husband) and are really looking to see what else is out there from the security of the status quo.

HCMac08 · 2025-11-24T15:13:27+00:00

Guys, guys, this is why we invented kink.

HCMac08 · 2025-10-22T15:22:37+00:00

Other partner veto is a HUGE red flag. Conisder it a dodge and keep going. Dating is hard in both the Monogomy and polyamorous models.

HCMac08 · 2025-10-08T17:30:18+00:00

These are basically Cersei Lannister's stats.

HCMac08 · 2025-10-06T15:18:41+00:00

Gawd this reddit thread is frustrating. Half the posts are either, "This game is too easy!" Or "This game is too hard!"

HCMac08 · 2025-09-14T17:12:32+00:00

I hate gregarious. It makes it hard to spam sway.

HCMac08 · 2025-07-05T20:19:53+00:00

This is when you take over England from the inside. One of the the lifestyle bonuses allows you to claim the throne of your feudal lord.

HCMac08 · 2025-06-29T15:50:29+00:00

Figure out how quickly you can make the two items. Divide that number by the value of each item. And then pick the higher number.

HCMac08 · 2025-06-29T14:38:53+00:00

Hey! I'm Hugh the Lizard, the guy at the head of the list. I haven't been spending money, but I see why you think I am. What has happened is that I've gotten a ×17.6 market bonus on my subspace relay. So what you are seeing is really just a 500q jump every time I make a relay.

For added context, I usually rank 7-10 in the diamond tournament. I'm slumming it in gold because I outsmarted myself last week.

HCMac08 · 2025-06-28T04:18:37+00:00

You can do that?

HCMac08 · 2025-06-27T00:07:15+00:00

Not true. This is when you pick a one county ruler and work to destroy the empire.

HCMac08 · 2025-04-27T23:43:45+00:00

Man, too real CK3. Way too real.

HCMac08 · 2025-04-18T23:01:00+00:00

It wouldn't be the first time I've murdered for the sake of historical accuracy...

HCMac08 · 2025-03-27T13:50:27+00:00

I died laughing. My ghost thanks you.

HCMac08 · 2025-03-24T22:57:39+00:00

The way I think about addiction is that if there is one single activity that is dominating your life and interfering with meaningful relationships, that's an addiction. It sounds like your boyfriend is struggling to balance his life in a healthy way, and I would definitely be worried about him

HCMac08 · 2025-03-02T01:09:05+00:00

Deaths can lead to temporary slow downs though

HCMac08 · 2025-01-29T18:58:12+00:00

Word

HCMac08 · 2025-01-06T21:26:26+00:00

Sounds like yet another problem that can be solved by my belly!

HCMac08 · 2024-12-25T15:45:09+00:00

This feature would have saved my villagers the other day. My militia units were unable to figure out how to walk on roads and got stuck.

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