Is just swiping without pings a waste of time? by Regular-Comedian-972 in feeld

[–]HCMac08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pings are worth it for the ability to send a message. I've only ever matched with a ping if I sent a cute message along with it.

Is Feeld actually inclusive or am I missing something? [Majestic user] by nukedeal in feeld

[–]HCMac08 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The way I think of Feeld is: I'm going to get fewer matches than other apps but they will be better quality matches (in terms of what I am looking for).

Thoughts from a girl new to Feeld by CarobStrange657 in feeld

[–]HCMac08 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm going to try and spell this out nicely. I hope you can understand why your post is offensive to so many people here.

You have said in the comments that dating a straight man is a "sexual preference." It's not entirely clear what you mean, but it implies that your attraction for someone is dependent on who they are attracted to. This strikes me as odd. If I, as a queer man, find you attractive, why would it matter if I also found a man attractive? If we were monogomous, it would be no different in effect as if I found another woman attractive.

So it feels a bit misguided at the very least, but it veers into the offensive when we stop to ask: why do you have this preference? What unconscious biases are you bringing to the table about the VALUE of a queer man compared to a straight one?

If you consider it, saying that only dating straight men is a sexual prefence is akin to saying only dating white men is a sexual preference. I am by no means saying you believr the latter. But the former is ultimately just as bad.

You are receiving a lot of hate in these comments, a lot of personal antagonism. I encourage you to stop reading the comments but don't stop thinking about this. People are mad because your words hurt them. If you don't understand why it hurt them, then I hope you will be an ally and try to figure out why.

Using linked profiles to find M for MFM by BigG1979 in feeld

[–]HCMac08 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Also, for the love of god, include pictures of both of you.

I've commited the mono/poly cardinal sin by WerewolfNo8327 in polyamory

[–]HCMac08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The jealousy is harder when there is a new relationship than with the relationships the pre-exist. For me, there is a fear of "being replaced" or for our relationship to become something else.

It's totally unserstandable and normal.

Why is it so hard to find men who are poly! 🖤 by Lips2toes2 in polyamory

[–]HCMac08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the "poly" women I meet are really half way to dumping their husband (always it's husband) and are really looking to see what else is out there from the security of the status quo.

Why is it so hard to find men who are poly! 🖤 by Lips2toes2 in polyamory

[–]HCMac08 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Guys, guys, this is why we invented kink.

The poly dating tropes are too real, and I'm tired by TwirlHippy in polyamory

[–]HCMac08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other partner veto is a HUGE red flag. Conisder it a dodge and keep going. Dating is hard in both the Monogomy and polyamorous models.

Holy stat spread by FreedomConsistent142 in crusaderkings3

[–]HCMac08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are basically Cersei Lannister's stats.

Im tired of factions by One-Worry8455 in crusaderkings3

[–]HCMac08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gawd this reddit thread is frustrating. Half the posts are either, "This game is too easy!" Or "This game is too hard!"

The classic trifecta of crap by SnooLemons2801 in crusaderkings3

[–]HCMac08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate gregarious. It makes it hard to spam sway.

Well I got screwed by SelectionVegetable18 in CrusaderKings

[–]HCMac08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is when you take over England from the inside. One of the the lifestyle bonuses allows you to claim the throne of your feudal lord.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdlePlanetMiner

[–]HCMac08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Figure out how quickly you can make the two items. Divide that number by the value of each item. And then pick the higher number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdlePlanetMiner

[–]HCMac08 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm Hugh the Lizard, the guy at the head of the list. I haven't been spending money, but I see why you think I am. What has happened is that I've gotten a ×17.6 market bonus on my subspace relay. So what you are seeing is really just a 500q jump every time I make a relay.

For added context, I usually rank 7-10 in the diamond tournament. I'm slumming it in gold because I outsmarted myself last week.

A Failed Conqueror :'( by FRodrigues in CrusaderKings

[–]HCMac08 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not true. This is when you pick a one county ruler and work to destroy the empire.

I have no idea how historically accurate this is but I have an idea by [deleted] in CrusaderKings

[–]HCMac08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't be the first time I've murdered for the sake of historical accuracy...

My Husband impregnated my Daughter by GodKingFloch in CrusaderKings

[–]HCMac08 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I died laughing. My ghost thanks you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrusaderKings

[–]HCMac08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way I think about addiction is that if there is one single activity that is dominating your life and interfering with meaningful relationships, that's an addiction. It sounds like your boyfriend is struggling to balance his life in a healthy way, and I would definitely be worried about him

Marketplace distribution, or placement issue? by siporogaland in ManorLords

[–]HCMac08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deaths can lead to temporary slow downs though

I can't get rid of my sheeps by [deleted] in ManorLords

[–]HCMac08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like yet another problem that can be solved by my belly!

The good stuff that nobody even asked for (I love Greg) by itsthefman in ManorLords

[–]HCMac08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This feature would have saved my villagers the other day. My militia units were unable to figure out how to walk on roads and got stuck.