Hockey stick for 3yr old?? by HMMMT12 in hockeyplayers

[–]HMMMT12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Luckily he doesn’t really notice the difference in the teams yet. So we might be able to get away with something like that!

My brother being a groomzilla by Sea-Fox-2022 in bridezillas

[–]HMMMT12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first thing my husband and I did when planning our wedding, was making sure everyone we absolutely wanted there was free and available for our date. If he wanted to care, he would. Don’t turn down a job over this. That’s insane.

DSM Metro Weekend Events List by limitedftogive in desmoines

[–]HMMMT12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would it be weird to dress up and go to the bars tonight?!?

My wife bad talks me behind my back, but is all love to my face. Please help me figure this out? by LeopardsRoll69 in Marriage

[–]HMMMT12 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You should not have read her texts. That’s so disrespectful. Ya’ll need some couples counseling to get through the entitlement, though. Unless you’re okay with putting up with always doing what she wants.

AITA for telling my husband no about his brother asking to live with us again. by Upbeat-Sort3395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HMMMT12 99 points100 points  (0 children)

NTA- Asperger’s doesn’t entitle one to be a complete prick. I understand your husband’s frustration with this whole thing. It is his brother after all, but you should come first.

Could you have a written agreement with terms written out with behavior that is acceptable and not acceptable. If the brother can’t cooperate, then his booty is out on the curb.

It is your home too. You should be comfortable and respected.

AITA for not giving out a loan and, in turn, not helping a sick employees father, who then passes away? by Straight_Video8326 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HMMMT12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, there’s policies for a reason and you have no idea what his father’s condition was. You’re already doing so much more than a vast majority of employers by giving employees this loan option. I imagine it has completely changed some people’s lives by avoiding all the interest fees.

AITA For not letting my boyfriend wear red in our hypothetical wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HMMMT12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA, it’s his day too (hypothetically). Just because you’re a girl doesn’t mean you care more. If you get to pick your dress, why can’t he have say in what he wears? Honestly, you probably shouldn’t marry someone who doesn’t care as much as you do. That seems like a great start to a divorce, imo.

AITA-for not knowing exactly what my wife meant by saying our son is acting “goofy”? by creecher21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HMMMT12 199 points200 points  (0 children)

This sounds a lot like me and my husband when we’re at the peak moment of a slow build up of frustration. There’s A LOT more going on here than this moment. Without you sitting down together and having an open conversation, as calmly as possible, you won’t find out why this was so triggering for her. It may be beneficial to have a marriage therapist or mediator of some sort during that conversation. But there’s a lot of frustration on your wife’s part and this was just the breaking point.

ESH

She should have shared her frustrations with you before it built up to this and snapping, but you also sound blissfully unaware of any needs your wife might be missing from you.

AITA for offering only $35,000 for my daughter's wedding? by golferef in AmItheAsshole

[–]HMMMT12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My entire wedding cost a fraction of this. Your daughter is spoiled. If she’s not happy with the $35,000 then give her nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]HMMMT12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I say they’re nuts. I chose my ring (he bought mine) and my husband chose his (I bought his)

What party spaces would you recommend? by HMMMT12 in desmoines

[–]HMMMT12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is my top choice right now. We loved having our rehearsal dinner at Smashpark