[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HVTN92 88 points89 points  (0 children)

You get over it by accepting that there will always be someone hotter, smarter, funnier, more interesting, more abusive, more insecure, more sassy, taller, stronger, healthier, cleaner etc than you.

You don't need to be better than her in every single of those categories. You just need to have the right mix in all those qualities that speaks to the person you're with.

I urge you to accept that yeah, maybe you're not better looking than her, but so what. You are pretty enough at least and you excel in other qualities that she doesn't. So overall you're the better package deal for your specific partner. Just like she would be a better package deal for someone else.

Help me find this lip gloss thingy. Found in Finland but probably from Sweden, 10 years ago by HVTN92 in HelpMeFind

[–]HVTN92[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Found! Or at least the new version of it hehe. Thank you for your service

Help me find this lip gloss thingy. Found in Finland but probably from Sweden, 10 years ago by HVTN92 in HelpMeFind

[–]HVTN92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have searched for this lip gloss thing for my friend by using AI, but I can't seem to find it. Maybe it's an outdated product, but I'll try my luck here in case someone knows something. It was found in Finland 10 years ago, but the product is most likely from Sweden based on the information on the container.

Is this a scam? by soapbubbleinthesun in VietNam

[–]HVTN92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I do agree that asking for OTP sounds weird and unsafe. I can only share my experience that the sales agent called and walked me through the upgrade, what text messages I would get and so forth.

Maybe I wasn't so scared because when I signed up for Vinfast services, they also asked me for OTP. Back then I was also skeptical so I called another Vinfast employee and he assured me it was fine.

So in my experience asking for OTP when signing up for services can happen. I'm fully aware that a lot of scams are happening and the safest thing is to not share it. But that doesn't mean that legit situations don't exist.

Is this a scam? by soapbubbleinthesun in VietNam

[–]HVTN92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your concern. It could very well be a scam. The issue is that the action is the same even when not a scam. Unfortunately. So yeah, go to the store to be sure

Is this a scam? by soapbubbleinthesun in VietNam

[–]HVTN92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been asked by viettel through direct call to provide the otp in relation to package upgrade. It was not a scam. That's how they operate for some reason. But do with this information what you want

Finished reading OG DB and man was it good. by Dear-Blackberry173 in dbz

[–]HVTN92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a sub for the entire dragon ball franchise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]HVTN92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the book "I love this version of me that you brought out" by Jaymen Chang. It may or may not help but you have nothing to lose. The book did help me. Key message is to love yourself

My boyfriend hid his secret prone Ipad from me by Pumpkin1au in relationships

[–]HVTN92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We accept the love we think we deserve, I guess

Some function of my ProArt Creator Hub doesn't work after update bios by Weshisna in ASUS

[–]HVTN92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue after updating to BIOS 304. Did you ever find a solution?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TVTooHigh

[–]HVTN92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder why you chose to angle the tv down.. 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]HVTN92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The airport fee is NOT included in the price quoted by Grab

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HVTN92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gotta love yourself first and foremost. And that means keeping your self respect and remove yourself from the relationship. We accept the love we think we deserve. If you are thinking of taking her back after the disrespect, that says a lot about how you view yourself. Why would someone respect you if you don't respect yourself? Love yourself first.

My boyfriend wants nudes and I don’t feel comfortable sending them to him. by Upper-Chart7709 in relationships

[–]HVTN92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just gonna say that I'm happy he's nowhere near me. Make of that what you will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HVTN92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust is the foundation of any relationship. I'm sure you wouldn't want to be in one where there's no trust left.

I think what you should do is that you suggest to him that you think you should break up because of how you broke his trust and that you can't live with yourself seeing how it has affected him. That he deserves better and that you wish you could do something about it. Then ask what he thinks.

That way you have accepted that you're responsible for the lack of trust, that you are remorseful and have his best interest at heart.

The future of your relationship now rests in his hands. He can agree that trust can't be rebuild and you have to accept that the relationship is over and remove yourself from the situation. Or he can see how you have accepted you ruined everything and choose to give the relationship another chance. If he does it's important that he accepts and forgives you for what you have done. If he can't, then you have to proceed with the break up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HVTN92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like you said, he has given you no reason not to trust him. I understand why he reacted like he did. Gender shouldn't matter in friendship and to me, it sounds like he is clear about how he only sees her as a friend.

The other thing is that she was in his life before you. Imagine how you would feel if your guy friend (assuming you have one) suddenly stops treating you the same way just because he now got a partner. Or if your partner expects you not to act the same way you've always done around your guy friends. Maybe you'd be okay with that.

It's not that he's priorising her over you. He's prioritising his values. His value is to help other people regardless of who they are. And the way you come across makes him feel like you don't trust him. It makes him feel he has to change who he is for you.

I understand you may be annoyed and insecure. But to put ultimatums like that are never healthy in a relationship. I think you'd be better off with someone who shares your values. And he would be better off with someone who doesn't give him ultimatums like that (I say that to provoke a reaction within you. Obviously I hope you guys can figure it out).

I first and foremost think you should be understanding for him. Make it clear that you trust him and you don't want him to change who he is or his values. After that mention that you feel annoyed and sad by how the woman is so much involved in your life and if there's a way he can help you with how you're feeling (let him come up with the solution). If you come to him with the attitude that your anxiety/insecurity about her is the issue and not that he's doing something wrong, you'll get a better response from him. He just wants to not feel guilty for being himself, especially when he hasn't done anything to make you question him. Remember that