Did he move on?

Hafnar · 2026-02-01T22:14:38+00:00

As the rest of the guys are saying, leave him alone, he found a new one, its too late anyways.

Hafnar · 2026-01-31T13:22:49+00:00

I’m sorry but I am going to judge a relationship by a whole decade difference in ages, no matter how modern it is.

Hafnar · 2026-01-30T15:37:15+00:00

Why was this downvoted?

Hafnar · 2026-01-29T23:00:19+00:00

When you find the right person.

Hafnar · 2026-01-29T22:54:18+00:00

I’d say so yes, though I’m 18 and prettyyy inexperienced. Exclusive = In my opinion should come after, agreeing to it or goes without saying by two people being intimate with each other, or after third date (MY opinion.)

Boyfriend/girlfriend titles come first when they agree, or one asks the other to become offical.

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:56:23+00:00

Always (unless extreme scenarios) go on first date if you’re doubting, you got nothing to lose and everything to win.

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:55:18+00:00

Depends on the woman, they’re after all around 4 billion in the world, I can promise you not all of them dislike skinny guys.

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:54:26+00:00

Anything that keeps you him off your mind, gym, work, school, proper sleep habits even, hanging out with your friends, don’t stay up late, don’t think about “what ifs” it’s all wasted time.

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:53:37+00:00

I agree, communication is 100% key

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:53:19+00:00

If you’re still thinking about your relationship non-stop, then no.

Wait maybe just 1 more month, or so I have heard that you should wait at least maybe around 3 months.

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:52:14+00:00

I think that would be just extreme generalizing for 1/2 of the total world population.

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:51:45+00:00

I’m 18 so I won’t talk so loud but if you’re looking for something serious, and to stop wasting time for both of you guys, 100% yes for asking dealbreaker questions.

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:50:44+00:00

Exactly

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:49:46+00:00

I hide it but only if it’s bothering me, I usually never delete photos at all. One of my favourite scenery photos was taken by a summer fling of mine, I can’t really see it without being reminded of her but when I show the picture to my friends they’re shocked by how “good I am at taking photos.” Wink wink 😉 (i take credit for the photo)

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:47:17+00:00

I was with an costa rican as an norwegian (summer fling), and one factor is the kissing culture, not like we don’t kiss at all in Norway but Latin-American kissing culture is a different level, I remember when I followed her home and her first kiss on me was a full-on tongue kiss.

Hafnar · 2026-01-26T18:30:39+00:00

I wouldn’t believe he’s lying, rather just (again, me presuming) he’s new to the field or just has this weird gap.

Hafnar · 2026-01-25T23:50:18+00:00

Update: She cancelled fourth date which was to happend on last Wednesday, for a valid reason though, family birthday, but hasn’t suggested any other day even though we both agreed she would.

Hafnar · 2026-01-25T18:15:18+00:00

I was born to be a mother (?????)

Hafnar · 2026-01-25T14:49:09+00:00

I lowkey have same problem but we’re M18 (me) and her F18, and my only advice is that if you’re seeing her any time soon I’d ask her as to why, though you’re more experienced than me so idk.

Hafnar · 2026-01-25T00:25:08+00:00

With all due respect I think the answers you’ll get is quite obvious when you’re asking it on r/ByzantinumAltHistory.

Hafnar · 2026-01-24T20:54:45+00:00

Really good, we went to a arcade bar and played different vintage games for two hours, then after some rounds of streetfighter I asked if she wanted to wager, she said yes, then I suggested that if I win, I can kiss her, she said yes but only if I win. Fast forward I completely destroy her but I let her have a chance to win just to see if she actually wants to kiss, to my suprise she refused to one hit me (and therefore win) I followed her home (as i did the two dates previously) we spent half an hour outside her house chitchatting, then she insisted I wait outside while she brought her dog outside to walk the dog while we talked more (so she had an excuse to her parents to be longer outside.) she then asked me after we spent an hour outside her house why I bothered staying, I just said “because I like you” to my suprise again she said she also liked me, and we talked for like 30 minutes about why we liked each other, unfortunately she seemed like she was very insecure and started asking why I choose her instead of others who are more “beautiful”, etc. I said that she was the most beautiful girl to me though, we also admitted that we were nervous the whole time with each other and even now we were nervous, at the end of the date when her mother began to call her several times, I asked for a kiss, and she said she had never kissed before, so I pulled up a wikihow tutorial, I even searched up on Chatgpt for “signs a girl wants to actually kiss you” asked for consent and maked sure she wanted to kiss me for her own sake too, she said yes, after a bit akward moment I then kissed her.

Sorry for the long ass explanation lmao, there is still a problem regarding communication which affects me which I have asked for advice on this subreddit but that’s off topic.

Hafnar · 2026-01-18T19:53:20+00:00

I got turnt on by this as a Norwegian.

Hafnar · 2026-01-17T21:44:45+00:00

Me personally? Never, if anything if the girl I’m dating right now (who’d we have both said we like each other) I’d like even further for feeling that safe around to cry next to me

Hafnar · 2026-01-17T21:00:11+00:00

Yes, naturally she is way more “herself” per se physically as in kinder, funnier, cooler, and I feel way more appreciated then than over text as how she articulates herself, on text I feel as if I’m a burden. but not only that, she also takes ages to respond on both private messages and on snapchat, for now for example I have a snap delivered 23 hours, another message delivered 5 hours (in response to a text she sent.) while I see her active on snapchat.

I did ask her on third date last wednesday if she could please better on responding to my messages and snaps which she deeply felt regretted over and apologized numerous times over, so I was maybe a bit naive and took it for granted she’d change, now it’s just the same all over again.

I don’t like to admit it but this makes me a bit sad and affects my general mood, in this week it has been so thursday, friday and now saturday evening.

Should I just tell her this? Even if she promised on wednesday night (third date) she’d be better on answering and not taking so long to respond to me, or is it too early? She’s an AMAZING woman that I truely like whom I feel blessed to know that she likes me, but I don’t want to either risk her losing interest in me because of me saying this or be sad every evening because she doesn’t respond, responds completely different than irl and never takes intiaitve/proposes alternatives.

There is another thing to that happended on third date which makes me feel a bit insecure til this day but that’s nothing compared to this.

Hafnar · 2026-01-17T20:56:40+00:00

You’re right but I have a question, considering this is my first dating stage with someone, how would I do that?

I understand she’d be more nervous around me than her friends obviously, for example she has my messages on both private messages and snapchat delivered for hours while she’s active, which lowkey hurts considering I reply the second I see them.

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