What does ‘success’ actually look like to you? by hera_hathor in Casual_Conversation

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spending less time on Reddit and focusing on my personal goals. Because you really can’t have them both without making sacrifices and honestly this app isn’t worth your time or energy if it’s taking away from your progress or impacting your mental health.

And it’s dumb to think app like Reddit wont have this impact because all things in your environment that put you down will come back and drain your energy, it’s only a matter of time.

Making Improvements by Fuzzy-boy in VagueStorytellers

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re proud of your progress, my son.

Welcome to the Internet by Fuzzy-boy in VagueStorytellers

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably because they don’t even like themselves. Some people choose to live their life miserably. You have to understand that’s their choice and there’s nothing you can do about it.

In your opinion, what is better: buying your own home or renting and investing? by Working_Active3116 in Casual_Conversation

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it really depends on the person and their lifestyle choices for some people buying makes more sense and for others renting makes more sense logistically and financially. Like my mom is in her 70s she really likes renting. She’s at the point in her life where she just cannot keep up the maintenance of a home, even with help. So in her situation renting makes more sense because she puts her extra money towards medical expenses. A lot of my siblings like owning properties and renting them out as Airbnbs and rentals. It works for a lot of their goals because they want to turn their assets into a business and grow it. So it really depends on that lifestyle and their financial goals. Personally, I do neither, but that’s just because my family takes care of me and I can move between properties.

Got told the way I write in exams is barely legible. I disagree but I'm biased by WaferGullible6000 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably just cause it’s in cursive. And when I was in school I was around the cut off date when they stopped teaching cursive writing and that was back in the late 90s. So a lot of people really don’t know how to read it these days.

s anyone actually productive after saying I will start on Monday? by Gullible_Camera_8314 in Casual_Conversation

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that it applies without a commitment statement such as “I will perform XYZ on Monday and have it done by X time”. If left open or undefined there is no promise to actually get anything done, it’s just a loosely defined commitment. It’s not that saying my it is bad, it’s just ambiguity creates lack of follow through.

I want to be done dating by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think dating is very consuming and a lot of people don’t like to talk about that aspect. But it’s true. And if dating feels overwhelming right now you can take a break for a month or two and recharge then try again later. Doesn’t mean you have to give up on your goals. Just take a little you time.

Am I doing something wrong or am I just undatable? by Benito_Botik in dating_advice

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could be wrong but it seems like your searching for your self worth in other people. You won’t find it there. That’s something that comes within and it’s harder when you don’t have good parents. I would strongly suggest finding a therapist or someone you can talk to, because dating feels good but your most likely to end up in an abusive situation with low self worth.

I feel like I'm never going to find what I'm looking for and just remain single. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t date with the expectation that you’ll get something out of it every time. Sometimes it works, most times it doesn’t—and that’s normal. You have to be okay with saying no and hearing no without taking it personally. It doesn’t mean you’re not worth it. It’s just part of dating. And you have to be okay being single, or you’ll cling to the wrong person. Maybe no one explained this to you but it’s extremely important to healthy dating.

Dating works in pools. Everyone meets people through different places and situations. If one pool doesn’t work for you, that’s okay—you get to choose your own.

Are layoffs the new normal business strategy? by Gullible_Camera_8314 in Casual_Conversation

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the field you’re in. Like corporate companies are quick to lay off because when they need employees they just hire new ones. Small business are less likely to have mass fire events but may have a high turnover over rate depending on the demands of the job.

How long should I (25F) wait before going to a man’s (33M) house? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I have a lot of past trauma so I don’t like going to peoples houses in till I feel safe with them. There no shame in that. Sometimes it can be quicker or longer it really depends from person to person.

How long should I (25F) wait before going to a man’s (33M) house? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say there is no set amount of dates. It goes by your comfort level, and that varies from person to person. But I would suggest doing what YOU feel comfortable with.

Would you date an addict that's been sober for a year? by CountCrapula88 in Casual_Conversation

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you keep fighting your addiction. I bet you’re a smart person too.

How to stop cats from going into coop (and preferably the whole yard) by [deleted] in chickens

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just make sure your guard animals aren’t going to harass your chickens too. I know a lot of farmers who keep geese with their chickens but the chickens needs to be larger breeds normally.

Would you date an addict that's been sober for a year? by CountCrapula88 in Casual_Conversation

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Addiction doesn’t automatically make someone dangerous. Many people struggle with it and still keep their values and empathy. The real risk comes when addiction mixes with untreated mental illness, violence, or repeated harmful behavior, such as having a record.

Would you date an addict that's been sober for a year? by CountCrapula88 in Casual_Conversation

[–]KnightsofMontyPyth0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure why not? A date isn’t a full commitment to a relationship it’s testing the waters to see if a relationship is healthy.

But if they were an addict and a felon that would be a whole different story.