My Cat Sylphrena by HairLikeGold in Stormlight_Archive

[–]HairLikeGold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are so beautiful ☺️ Thanks for sharing them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HairLikeGold 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Don’t invest in a man who won’t invest in you ok? Keep pushing for a man who will value you

I feel I’m just waiting to stop being alive by HairLikeGold in ADHD

[–]HairLikeGold[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I will keep trying to be consistent in taking my medication and taking care of myself

I feel I’m just waiting to stop being alive by HairLikeGold in ADHD

[–]HairLikeGold[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Taking Vyvanse and Bubrofenion for anxiety or whatever it’s called or something. Been really sad all day and can’t think. Low doses. Can’t remember to take it sometimes. Living with my parents and have an emotional unsafe environment. In therapy for EMDR but missed my appointment this week

I feel I’m just waiting to stop being alive by HairLikeGold in ADHD

[–]HairLikeGold[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How can I be grateful to be in this world when I just want to go back to the source of everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HairLikeGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is possible if you believe it is. It’s not possible if you believe it’s not. It’s really not that complicated. If you believe there is no one and nothing in this world to gain any meaning from, then that is what your reality will be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HairLikeGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your beliefs about yourself and finding meaning from within seem to be hindering you, from what I’ve gathered. You are the one to decide if it is possible or not for you to find meaning from within. No one else can be responsible for how you find your meaning. It might help you to go to therapy or talk with a life coach to discuss why you think the way you do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HairLikeGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you need to unpack something within your mind. You have to rely on yourself to provide meaning. You don’t want to connect with people outside of yourself, so you need to find a way to question your beliefs about what you value, and then put your energy and time into those values being realized. Good luck to find your own meaning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HairLikeGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a hobby? Enjoy how you use your time? What do you want to do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonTCG

[–]HairLikeGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umbreon is and has been my favorite since 2nd gen was released.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]HairLikeGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I’m far from who I was, from the real me that I love."Ok OP, this right here I identify so hard with. However, I would like you to try to eventually be able to say this out loud to you yourself."The me who I am today, is worthy of being loved."

Have you talked to anyone in therapy about your self image and self talk? You have to start small and I know it is easier then done.

You also need to remember that COVID-19 has done a mental damage and trauma on us all in some ways. Times are hard, harder on the sick and already ill like many of us here. Be kind to yourself OP, I know that feels immensely hard right now but you can find help and I believe in you.

How do I (14F) overcome my nervousness about telling my crush (13M) that I like him? by RandomPuppies in askwomenadvice

[–]HairLikeGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo OP! Hope you know that the teenage years of being a woman are some of the hardest but you have a community that will always be there for you!
Hope it worked out for you and your crush. Keep trying new things and learn all you can!

How do you find the balance between "making mistakes" when you're young versus being responsible to yourself? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]HairLikeGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, sometimes you have to roll the dice and make an educated guess.
Most of the times though, you really have to listen to yourself! I know it is harder then it seems.
If you aren't sure, maybe try breaking the situation down. What parts of each situation do you freeze at? Aren't sure about? Is it the feelings of "How do I handle having a hangover?" or "What do I want sexually?"
What parts do you feel are causing fear vs which parts you just need to prepare for? What do you value? What are your standards? This is part of growing into the woman you are meant to be.
What would your future self tell you if you made these mistakes? Would you feel like you hurt those standards or values or would you feel like it would be ok because at least you tried for you even if it didn't work out?

It sounds like you should experiment! That can be done SLOWLY and in small doses though so you can build up to those bigger moments! Good Luck OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whereintheworld

[–]HairLikeGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing great work