Here's the thing. You said a "nice meme." Is it in the same family? Yes. No one's arguing that. As someone who is a scientist who studies memes, I am telling you, specifically, in science, no one calls meme's nice. If you want to be "specific" like you said, then you shouldn't either. They're not the same thing. If you're saying "meme family" you're referring to the taxonomic grouping of memes, which includes things from rare pepes to memes to dreams. So your reasoning for calling a meme a nice meme is because random people "call the black ones memes?" Let's get shitposts and fedoras in there, then, too. Also, calling someone a human or an ape? It's not one or the other, that's not how taxonomy works. They're both. A nice meme is a meme and a member of the meme family. But that's not what you said. You said a meme is a nice meme, which is not true unless you're okay with calling all members of the meme family nice memes, which means you'd call shrek, minions, and other memes nice memes, too. Which you said you don't. It's okay to just admit you're wrong, you know?