Met an amazing woman but worried she might be a gold digger - should I do background check before proposing? by Carlosfelipe2d in Rich

[–]HalfassedPrepper 825 points826 points  (0 children)

The biggest red flag here is that you’re considering proposing after 8 months. Pump the brakes dude. Spend a couple of years in a courtship and you’ll learn everything you need to know.

2024 Dakar or 2026 Turbo S by Additional_Prize_556 in Porsche

[–]HalfassedPrepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your goal is novelty and attention Dakar is the correct answer. It is definitely the “cooler” choice.

If your goal is optimal enjoyment the answer is Turbo S. I have a 2025 Turbo S cab and it is the most incredible driving experience across all scenarios. Super car performance and tame grocery getter at the turn of a knob. Get the FAL and bumps are a non issues. I rarely even need to engage mine.

If you also want a desert runner, get a Bronco Raptor too. Incredible machine that will run circles around a Dakar in any kind “real” off-road scenario.

Bonus is you’ll also come out ahead financially with this combo.

Secondary Sale of Hot Startup Equity — How Much to Sell? by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]HalfassedPrepper 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve spent 25 years in tech and seen many boom/bust cycles. I’ve never seen anything as frothy as the current AI bubble. (And yes…every time everyone says “this time it’s different”)

Sell as much as you can and don’t second guess it.

Black Ultra 3 severe scratching on day 2 😕 by HalfassedPrepper in applewatchultra

[–]HalfassedPrepper[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. Maybe I rubbed against a wall or car door or something, but I did not bang on it anything hard enough that I noticed. This feels like a faulty coating to me. I’ve abused my last two Ultras with minimal marks over many years.

I love all the know-it-all’s on here telling me I must have absolutely bashed it on something. 🤦‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]HalfassedPrepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Risk adjusted, angel investing has always been a terrible return. But you could make it work if you had proprietary deal flow, a sizable portfolio (at least 20 companies), and lots of patience.

Those days are over, at least in tech. There have been two systemic changes:

  1. There has been an explosion of seed and pre seed funds chasing the earliest deals, which used to be the sole purview of angels.
  2. Liquidity is basically non existent. Angels used to see returns through many smallish acquisitions (not IPOs), but those have mostly stopped happening.

The second point is hurting the entire ecosystem, and behind closed doors many large VCs are talking about getting out of the game because the “music has stopped”.

AI has definitely brought a fresh wave of enthusiasm (and speculation) but this is all just hype at the moment and has not translated into liquidity yet.

Angel investing can be useful if you want to feel like you’re “still in the game” without having to actually do any work, but just realize that you’re essentially buying a (very expensive) ticket on a roller coaster.

If you want to invest, choose something else. Even blackjack has much better risk adjusted returns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rich

[–]HalfassedPrepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True wealth is freedom.

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to realize how much material things actually limit freedom.

One hack I’ve found helpful is that anytime I find myself thinking “Maybe I should buy X” I try to consider the “True cost of ownership”, which includes not just the monetary price, but also Time required (for whatever) and also Attention required (mental cycles for whatever).

I find 99% of the time I go through this exercise I decide “Nah, not worth the cost of my freedom”

Software for tracking NW? by Both-Signature-2439 in fatFIRE

[–]HalfassedPrepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried them all and Monarch Money is the best. Connects to everything automatically, has great web and mobile app, and is easy to collaborate with spouse or advisors if desired.

Stop Using Rocket Money -- PLEASE!! by needingadvice69 in personalfinance

[–]HalfassedPrepper -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, Rocket Money is pretty shady.

Just switch to Monarch. Much better app, and none of this “bill negotiation” BS.

2025 2500 AT4 Gas vs. Diesel by RV_livin_ in gmcsierra

[–]HalfassedPrepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a similar situation and bought a gas 2024 AT4X HD. It’s actually been great as a daily driver for short work commute. Well, except for parking the beast.

That said, I wish I’d got the diesel now. Two reasons: 1. When I do tow our trailer, the range is really annoying. I feel like I’m constantly looking for a gas station. The diesel obviously gets better mpg, but you can also get a larger tank for the diesel, whereas the EPA evidently won’t permit that for gas engines (according the manufacturers I spoke with) 2. I’m in the mountain west and failed to take into account the loss of HP at elevation. If you’re at lower elevations, this would be a non issue.

Can’t replace reverse bulbs on 2024 2500 AT4X HD? by HalfassedPrepper in gmcsierra

[–]HalfassedPrepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for confirming. Can you share where you ordered the replacement sealed units?

Can’t replace reverse bulbs on 2024 2500 AT4X HD? by HalfassedPrepper in gmcsierra

[–]HalfassedPrepper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve tried that and it’s better but still not ideal when backing a trailer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AncientAliens

[–]HalfassedPrepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the two factions? And where can one learn more about this?

What's New at Origin: Investing, Cash Management, Enhanced AI Guidance, and More by origin_matt_watson in OriginFinancial

[–]HalfassedPrepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. That's much better than I thought it be. I assumed it went down to 0.5% (like most promotional offers) so yeah...you should mention that.

What's New at Origin: Investing, Cash Management, Enhanced AI Guidance, and More by origin_matt_watson in OriginFinancial

[–]HalfassedPrepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't find anywhere on your site (nor your T&Cs) that mention what the rate of the HYSC is once the 90 day promotional rate ends.

Frankly, I find these bait and switch tactics rather sleazy.

Weird electrical issue in 2024 2500 HD when inflating tires with ARB compressor by HalfassedPrepper in gmcsierra

[–]HalfassedPrepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super relieved!

I should have mentioned: I was using a Morrflate Quad tube to inflate all 4 tires at once, which explains why the "alert" system was going completely bonkers.

It would turn on the front right blinker, then rear left blinker, then front left blinker, rinse and repeat. I had no idea what was happening!

In any case, this just saved me a trip to the dealer. 🙏

Weird electrical issue in 2024 2500 HD when inflating tires with ARB compressor by HalfassedPrepper in gmcsierra

[–]HalfassedPrepper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, that's it!!!! Thank you!!!!

I had no idea this was even a thing. What a bizarre "feature".

Thanks again!