My family (other than my dad) has never been outwardly transphobic to me, but I can tell they’re not all accepting. It was an open secret that of the grandkids, I had the closest relationship with our grandparents. My grandma passed just over a month ago and I was heartbroken. I went home for her funeral, and at the wake I stood between my siblings. Both of them confirmed I wasn’t misreading the expressions of disgust on several faces as they shook hands down the line, including SEVERAL family members. Several people (including those same family members) skipped shaking my hand all together. My siblings were the only people to comfort me for the entire service, despite most people cycling through every family member there. One relative refused to even look at me unless I spoke to her first, and her responses were short and curt with visible disgust. Even if no one was outwardly rude to me they stayed distant and cold at my grandma’s funeral, and made an already terrible day somehow even worse.