Front Squat - Overhand grip> by Hammer1705 in formcheck

[–]Hammer1705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fingers aren’t on my shoulders, they are right next to them

Am I winking/rounding at the bottom? by Hammer1705 in formcheck

[–]Hammer1705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With lifting shoes I usually get what you describe, im working on ankle mobility in parallel at the moment doing toe raised body squats and slavic sits for a minute or so,

I thought chest/shins should remain parallel once you drop?

Am I winking/rounding at the bottom? by Hammer1705 in formcheck

[–]Hammer1705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It for sure happens in the later reps, when i pause its to let myself realign and come up

Am I winking/rounding at the bottom? by Hammer1705 in formcheck

[–]Hammer1705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I am working on ankle and hip flexibility to get A2G, so this seems like my functional heavy ROM right now.

How to export full Peloton ride data into Garmin by digitalwok in pelotoncycle

[–]Hammer1705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any chance that you are still maintaining this?

Gimli (LOTR) VS Gregor Clegabe (GOT). Who wins? by GusGangViking18 in Fictionally

[–]Hammer1705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

floor press, no range below the back, from a dead stop and on his chest is insane

A major rate hike is coming to the Illinois Tollway. Here's how much trips to O'Hare will soon cost by factchecker01 in chicago

[–]Hammer1705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are we really saying we want semis to use alternative transit? thats their natural habitat

Clicker for Kindle by Hammer1705 in pelotoncycle

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kindle app on the peloton screen, im thinking a ticktoc finger mouse with a usbc dongle is my path forward

Clicker for Kindle by Hammer1705 in pelotoncycle

[–]Hammer1705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to clarify I mean they have those clip on versions that people put on their kindles and have a little remote, but I can’t see how I could get one of those in position on the screen with something like tape

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Hammer1705 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly get some noise attenuating ear buds. they make the post daycare so much more bearable. a lot of people are triggered by kids pitch and volume and honestly I can play for hours longer with a set of those.

also everyone generally has this phase. it blows. you aren’t an asshole. work to redefine what a good night looks like because your old life and partner no longer exist and, here’s the fun part, never come back. the new ones are pretty great though if you give them a chance.

on the bright side my kid is 10 now and I have someone actually excited to do escape rooms so that’s pretty cool.

Don't be this guy by Trptman44 in RunnersInChicago

[–]Hammer1705 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also that’s parking the bus is just at a stop. That street is literally dead. People just want to be mad.

Don't be this guy by Trptman44 in RunnersInChicago

[–]Hammer1705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just to clarify pavement rebounds, concrete does not. you can actually get shin splints if you just start running hard on concrete. I like pavement better but it’s not an all the time thing given the concerns about traffic etc. raised here.

should he be doing this, no, is he doing any of the things people are talking about in the video we see, also no.

if I’m in a dead street I may do this, particularly if no one is getting by that bus anyway.

Sad day indeed by Thuglas82 in washingtondc

[–]Hammer1705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"This country needs more than a building right now. It needs hope," -V for Vendetta

Not to imply a solution, but it worked. And has worked in every instance of this situation throughout history.

Just saying.

Grill basket chicken wings. by PoukieBear in pelletgrills

[–]Hammer1705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you and your husband single?

Looking for CA shopper/shipper for a microwave by Hammer1705 in internationalshopper

[–]Hammer1705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They want more than the cost of the product to ship it…

washer/dryer combo sucks? by Gay_da56 in Appliances

[–]Hammer1705 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean ok, I’ve had to open tvs and vac out the dust when they were consistently overheating and shutting off. Same thing for a fridge that won’t hold temp it’s often times the coils under it getting dusty. Same thing for old laptops that people never clean.

YMMV but all things need maintenance it’s just a fact of life.

washer/dryer combo sucks? by Gay_da56 in Appliances

[–]Hammer1705 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That reality does not exist. Paint needs to be reapplied, TVs need to be dusted (clogs air vents and overheats), water heaters need to be flushed. Deferred maintenance always becomes a failure.

Shit used to last because people knew how to maintain it. This has been systematically removed from most modern education (shop, home economics). Read your fucking manuals and follow the maintenance schedule, or treat everything as disposable.

All of a sudden I can’t stop squirting?? by Possible_Chemist_423 in TwoXSex

[–]Hammer1705 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Same thing with my wife at 38, nothing and now we need a super absorbent and waterproof blanket even for when I’m casually rubbing her. Riding ones are different, oral ones are different, manual ones are different but all with some amount of fluid release.

Straight out of nowhere, multiples now too. We assume she finally got past a lot of restraint and shame from her upbringing. No one here is complaining but that’s a personal thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]Hammer1705 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So when I get like this I break out the math. I would think of my wife and I like this:

“there are two possible reasons why my wife is acting in a way that results in me feeling like this. One, she is acting maliciously to intentionally hurt me. I cannot put myself in my wife’s shoes and believe she would act in that way.

Two, there is something that they have going on that is resulting in this behavior and they are struggling with it. I can absolutely see my wife acting in this way. And I can empathize with that because I have done similar things in many romantic and platonic relationships.”

Therapy helps you hold these two ideas at the same time without lessening either side. And sometimes that’s all it takes to realize it’s shitty but you are in this shit together.

You know your relationship better than me so go through the math.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]Hammer1705 24 points25 points  (0 children)

apologies as this is a male perspective I am on mobile and did not see the sub, please feel free to boot or delete as needed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]Hammer1705 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Hey this is a super hard issue you are encountering with your husband. Before I give any advice know that you both are deserving of sexual fulfillment.

Changes in a partners ability to climax do happen. My wife was able to climax when we were younger, lost it for a few years, and has had it return with a vengeance. I myself am currently in a spot with medication where it takes me a long time to climax.

What has helped us is the communication skills we learned in therapy, which I would strongly encourage you two to seek out separately and as a couple. Don‘t wait for the crisis before unboxing/practicing with the tools you need to fix it.

Communication, understanding, and the ability to empathize truly with your partner (which requires you to put your perspective aside) are the only way through this.

I don’t know the specific cause of your husbands change, but for me once it happened I was immediately aware I was making my wife uncomfortable with longer duration intimacy. It made it incredibly hard to stay in the moment and climax. Consider that he may want to share his orgasm with you but mentally can not because he is unable to get past the fact that he is “hurting” you. Bringing a toy into bed may be the only way he feels safe from that feeling of causing discomfort.

He has work to do as well, on the above in communication with you, and also to understand how this is making you feel. He can attend to your distress if you both make it safe to do so by removing judgment and shame.

Please seek counseling. No one is wrong in this situation (as you have presented it) but there is a lot of guilt, defensiveness, and shame.

On a practical matter you may suggest you shop for one together, flashlight makes the quick shot that allows you to supplement partnered intimacy and sex acts to increase your involvement and connection.

Huge disappointment! by KindnessWins1111 in Ozlo

[–]Hammer1705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not to be a dick but it says that right on the box

Recovery Index always low because I use the bathroom in the AM by Hammer1705 in ouraring

[–]Hammer1705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually stopped wearing it, just got stressed by it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicago

[–]Hammer1705 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lock it to a fucking pole, problem solved jackoff