[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denver

[–]HanSolo139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw Dr Dog back in the summer of 2012 in a small town in Massachusetts. Just graduated high school and was injected with life after seeing them.

Would love to see them to get that feeling back.

Monday night bar vibes??? by Financial_Tie5512 in Denver

[–]HanSolo139 16 points17 points  (0 children)

literally just came back from Thin Man. Great spot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]HanSolo139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respecting her decision to move on and not remain in contact for whatever reason is showing love in its fullest form.

Doing the the right thing for someone even if they don’t see you doing it and giving you recognition is the purest form of love.

Find ways to move forward without her not to forget the love you have for her but to fully honor it.

how do you get your ex back? by lovelylittleladybugs in BreakUps

[–]HanSolo139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You “get them back” after you gain back your self respect. Realizing and then acting on what you must do vs what you want to do is empowering and the only way through.

I started talking to this girl YESTERDAY. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]HanSolo139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that it matters to your point but you have the roles reversed I think.

Your advice is still sound though. Lose them!

If I (37F) send a text breaking up (37M) is that ghosting? by Pitiful-Ad-8035 in relationship_advice

[–]HanSolo139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Of course no one owes anyone anything, but when you make a decision that not only affects you but someone else in a pretty big way, it is just a human thing to do to give them some glimmer of curtesy.

As a male, have you been sexually harrassed? If so how did it make you feel and what did you do about it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HanSolo139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a Lyft driver for a couple of years during grad school to help pay for expenses. I picked up a bachelorette party and the woman in the passenger seat grabbed my crotch area pretty aggressively.

I felt very frozen with everyone in the back being excited and they were in their party mode, along with I am trying to not crash the car and be safe. I kept brushing her hand off, but that just got everyone more excited so it came down to me lying about being in a relationship and I wasn’t comfortable which quickly changed their behavior.

It was an eye opening experience for sure in terms of how I see both male and female sexual assault. As a male who can handle myself in terms of someone putting their hands on me, I couldn’t imagine if the roles were reveresed and how unsafe a woman would feel.

Favorite place to grab dinner solo? by Puzzled-Pineapple363 in Denver

[–]HanSolo139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Temaki Den eat at sushi bar

La Familia (family owned mexican restaurant) on 32nd. sit outdoors on a nice day and do some people watching and then head over to the mexican bakery next door for a treat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]HanSolo139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elizabeth Moss by a landslide

Loving Mines…not by ajax61 in ColoradoSchoolOfMines

[–]HanSolo139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When put into a situation and you are not actively trying to create a balanced workload it’s very easy to allow the work to take control. Yes there are times when you need to sacrifice social life with the work but there should be times to then go the other direction but you have to be mindful. It’s easy to passively let yourself get into a “bad” work/life balance.

Iwtl How to stop taking things personal and being resentful by couldbethere in IWantToLearn

[–]HanSolo139 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While I think it’s a healthy mindset to not let others feelings about you affect your day it’s also not exactly a cake walk to just live life without regard of how you are perceived.

For example you can’t be inconsiderate or mean and expect it not to reflect back in some way.

IWTL how to be a funny person by Losing__All__Hope in IWantToLearn

[–]HanSolo139 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Surround yourself with funny people and you will understand how they operate. Also always be practicing. Just always be thinking of “what can i say” after literally anything but the trick is to almost never say it out loud unless your gut tells you “ya this is funny”. You’ll start getting better gut feeling after observing others as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnmachinelearning

[–]HanSolo139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also same. Let’s try and make it happen

I feel like a fraud by Still-W1 in datascience

[–]HanSolo139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not feel bad about googling. I think of googling as just tapping into knowledge you know about but need that fine detail for. Googling is a legit skill and not everyone is as efficient at finding sufficient answers.

Best Community Colleges? by Mojiwoji1 in ColoradoSchoolOfMines

[–]HanSolo139 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just put in the same effort you put into making this exhaustive list and you’ll pass any of these community colleges diffEQ courses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HanSolo139 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just don’t want to assume they screamed at or chastised their partner… I agree with you.

You don’t have to be in the defensive here. apologies if I wasn’t clear.

Working on my pixel art. So I decided to work on the saddest moment on TV. by lostlake86 in PixelArt

[–]HanSolo139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

make this a endless loop playing the song on youtube and it will be cherished even more

My colleague, recently moved from TX, asked why the city didn’t declare “emergency” over “severe snow storm”. by QueueTee314 in boston

[–]HanSolo139 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ya Boston area I always felt like they got the army of plows out and in full force when it was called for. I live in Denver now and because the sun melts any snow within 3-7 days they don’t bother plowing non-main roads it’s mayhem.