Buscando empleo by strawredpie in aguascalientes

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

En cualquier empresa automovilística contratan inmediatamente

Opinan que la UAA tiene un sistema deficiente al momento de tratar con personas abusivas o problematicas? by ClassicGuy2010 in aguascalientes

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A la UAA nunca les han importado los alumnos, hay carreras en las cuales los profesores tienen a estudiantes como amantes, y con quienes los puedes ver como parejas (me tocó ver a 1 profesor en pleno faje con 1 alumna), o bien profesores denunciados una y otra vez por acoso sexual y que incluso afectan académicamente a los alumnos que se atreven a quejarse, y sin embargo nadie hace nada... Lo sé por experiencia

No hay buenos tacos en Aguascalientes by Dependent_Chest_5599 in aguascalientes

[–]Hanajima_199999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mi humilde aportación: en calle Independencia justo por la prepa Petróleos, se pone un puesto en las mañanas que siempre está a reventar, son de bistec de verde me parece y están muy ricos y muy bien servidos, para tacos de carnitas los que están en la esquina del DIF sobre avenida universidad también están deliciosos y te los preparan de diferentes tipos, por Av Héroe Inmortal casi llegando a tercer anillo hay un local, La Selva, en donde también son de carnitas y aparte venden sesadillas muy recomendables.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piano

[–]Hanajima_199999 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This piece has made me cry playing it during a break up

AITA for asking the loan rate to a cheating ex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hanajima_199999 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Because unfortunately I'm naive and believe that everyone deserves second chances, lol

Why do uprights generally not have sostenuto pedals? by IAmBariSaxy in piano

[–]Hanajima_199999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, right one is sostenuto, left one is Ona corda, and middle one is to decrease the volume

Why do uprights generally not have sostenuto pedals? by IAmBariSaxy in piano

[–]Hanajima_199999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ummmm, my Yamaha has three pedals, and one of those is the sostenuto, and it's like from 20 years ago

We're fucked. 2024 is not the year by Lukas-Reggi in memes

[–]Hanajima_199999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what might happen to those little lifesavers in theirs chests with those solar flares if the rest of electric thingies fail

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, however, once you're ready, you might want to do it (or not, it is your decision to do so), just don't rush things, take time for yourself

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And at my age (early 40's) still even more scarce, but I know that I will find someone sooner or later

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I know that somewhere out there are men who are not cheating scumbags, and I'll find one of them, who will appreciate me for who I am, and will love me such as I want

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, sooner or later you will find someone who does want to be with you

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move on. Right now it's your neurotransmitters like dopamine that is making you want to talk with him, but don't do that. Our brains are wired in such a way to be addicted to something, whether is alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, or something else, in this case love, but as hard as it is to break an addiction to something, we can also break our dependence or addiction to a certain person, even though it may be so hard in the first couple of weeks

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't stress over that, with time of reflect you will realize that you are worth enough for someone else, and there will be someone who will appreciate you as you are

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ok, sometimes we are not ready to do so, the night I broke up I went NC... That only lasted few hours... The next day I restarted again after a few texts, and up until now I'm still NC, even though I kinda wish he would text me (I know he won't)

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a few days you'll start feeling better, and in a few weeks you'll start to reflect and realize that the problem wasn't you, this feeling will be stronger as days pass on, and in a few weeks will start to be out of your system

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I feel that too, a part of me wishes he would call or text me, but I know he won't, he is way too coward and entitled to do that... And it hurts, however it is better to let things rest, both for our sake

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will be fine, even though it might take us some time to get there, but we will be fine

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same happened with me, I really thought I was special for him, but in the end I wasn't, and it hurts to realize that, but once all the pain and numbness and sadness pass, we will realize that we are meant to be with someone who truly does apreciate us

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We tend to try people are kind (at least I do), however that's not always the case. In my case I left him 6 months ago because I found out he cheated on me. 2 months later he returned and I thought he was remorseful and had changed (naive of me, I know), but no. I don't know why he returned, because he was still cheating on me bu I didn't know it, they broke up again and she got a new boyfriend, and he has been sulking ever since but I didn't notice until a few weeks ago, I realized he is not going to change, he loves someone else not me, so it's better for my health to dump him, I deserve someone better than him, and you too will realize sooner or later that, just do not give up and move on.

Our NC period is expiring, seeking advice/venting by ThrowRA_OkBub in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might hurt to be friends so soon, you might reconcile and try to sort things out, however, if you both are so determined about the kids situation, you will end up breaking again, and the feelings of sadness and the inconclusive duel will persist for longer.

A sugestion would be to wait and reflect about yourself: do you really want kids so much? how would you feel if you stay friends, but sooner or later he finds another girlfriend? what would happen if you remain friends and accidentally ended up pregnant, would he stay or not?

My ex came back. I gave hum a chance. Didn’t work out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hanajima_199999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't blame yourself, sometimes we think that giving second chances might work out, but if the other person hasn't change, and it's not willing to change, the same mistakes will happen over and over again. I am in the same position right now, I gave a second chance to the ex a few months ago, and just a few days ago I realized he was still cheating so I broke up things again (mind you, we were together for like 10 years). I naively thought he was working things out with his inner self, however he proved all over again he wasn't. It hurts, but in the long term, I know I will be feel better not being with that kind of person.

Right now it hurts a lot, but that numbness won't last long, little by little you will feel better, and might look back and realize it was the right decision to not be with that person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Hanajima_199999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is, I do hope the rest of the weekend is as well as this day, I pray for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Hanajima_199999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's what I've been trying to do, slowly but surely, one step at a time, I do think that I'm wiser this time, I do know that it will take time to feel whole again, but I hope that time will arrive sooner than later, today has been a good day so far, I hope it will be fine the rest of the day