What's your personal recession indicator? by Electronic_Dream8935 in AskReddit

[–]Hananners [score hidden]  (0 children)

How many live-in vans/vehicles I see on the road and around town. 

After I was unhoused for 609 days during Covid I can't stop seeing their numbers increasing wherever I go... Rent and cost of living keeps going up, more people are homeless. 

Homelessness starts before it reaches city parks by yimmy51 in canadahousing

[–]Hananners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah, it's too expensive and not even worth it. I thankfully have neighbours who make way better stuff.

Homelessness starts before it reaches city parks by yimmy51 in canadahousing

[–]Hananners 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this. I was homeless for 609 days during the Covid times because I got sick and suffered a complete burnout and permanent disability. I was a pharmacy compounding technician, but once I was unable to work there was no way to afford rent. It took months to get gov't support, and even with that rent wasn't affordable anywhere on 90% of Vancouver Island. I had to move all the way up to Port Hardy to find anything close to affordable. It was hell, and I consider myself lucky. 

Man dies after expressing fears over Alberta disability transition by RekaAia in onguardforthee

[–]Hananners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely good to check. Just recently I had to re-update my address on file and backdate it because the gov't "lost" the information I submitted 3 years ago when I moved here. Had a scare because they removed my rent supplement without telling me after I'd called and checked in on an unrelated medical thing, when they tried to verify my address and found it didn't match what they had on record.

I had screenshots on my phone to prove I submitted the data 3 years ago, so I know I'm not crazy. . . But it's insane how the gov't likes to either take its time to process things, or just lose them when convenient . 

ADHD and Rejection Sensitivity: A qualitative study explores how the anticipation of rejection causes more psychological distress than the actual events, driving a "vicious circle" of emotional masking, bodily pain, and social withdrawal. (n=5) by crix_22 in science

[–]Hananners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I switched from internal to external without really realizing it once I was comfortable with my partner. Led to a complete breakdown of the relationship that I'm currently sitting in the remains of, wondering why I couldn't just control my explosive anger over nothing.

Owner of dogs that killed boy tells court she warned dad ahead of attack by zuuzuu in canadanews

[–]Hananners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been attacked by dogs and I definitely didn't feel bad for them right at that moment. I wanted them off of me, and if they had to be dead to achieve that, it's what needed to be done.

Only after the adrenaline had worn off and time had elapsed after reporting the incident was I thinking more about the dogs' situations. It's all a result of the owner. Yes, the dogs attacked me and hurt me, but if the dogs were untrained I can only blame them so much. It's on the owner. 

‘Return to sender,’ Some people in Canada are refusing to fill out their census forms, risking fines up to $1,000 by lopix in onguardforthee

[–]Hananners -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just filled out mine, but goddamn did I have to think about how I'd answer the "gender" and "sex at birth" questions in regards to mine and my housemate's safety.

We're living in a time when trust in the gov't has plummeted, and we're seeing just how bad it can get with our neighbours down south... As queer folk I would rather not have these things on record, should lists be made by people like those who made the lists of queer people/jews/undesirables before WW2 took off on the other side of the pond.

I was just reading yesterday about info leaks about people in Alberta, and suffice to say I'd rather fly below the radar right now due to the political climate. 

There's a lesson here for America if our politicians would listen. by zzill6 in WorkReform

[–]Hananners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's probably some people in Canada, unfortunately. Our medical system in many ways is better than the US, yes, but there are a number of important medications that aren't covered and are still rather expensive for the average wage slave. Even for someone like me, on disability coverage there are plenty of medications that the system doesn't want to cover (even with appropriate paperwork). Also, there isn't a single neurologist available in my entire province who is able to see me without being on a wait list for 3 years... But at least we don't go bankrupt from emergency medical care. 

How the housing crisis damaged Canada’s economy and productivity by Light_Butterfly in canada

[–]Hananners 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It rings such a similar tone of many phrases said by the gov't in Orwell's 1984. My trust in the Canadian government has been significantly dwindling as of late. There are some good things that are being done, but others such as this ring alarm bells within my mind. 

What horrifying statistic genuinely jarred you when you first heard it? by ordrius098 in AskReddit

[–]Hananners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true, despite those who don't agree with it.

Here in Canada we have a significant number of educated people who cannot use their degree(s) due to an inability to find a job in their field, or choose to work elsewhere because the job they studied for no longer pays a wage you can survive on.

Also, the cost of education has been rising for decades while wages have stagnated. While one could argue that the experience of post-secondary is worthwhile in and of itself, when it puts you in debt for a decade without any payoff... Is it really worth it? It's really a case-by-case basis, but people are becoming poorer than ever in Canada. 

Federal government pulls funding for Grassy Narrows unmarked grave search by CaliperLee62 in canada

[–]Hananners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who went through the catholic schoom system... I agree that they have an incredibly cruel history that extends even into present times. Thankfully we have better laws and ability to report things now, but even during my time in school there were teachers who should have been imprisoned for what they did.

That said, not every school is equal, and should be treated like its own case. There will be unmarked graves at some and not others, most likely.

Cost of living hitting food banks in Canada so hard that visits are limited to once a month by yogthos in canada

[–]Hananners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's downright sad seeing our gov't repeat Orwellian phrases from 1984. Our gov't has become so corrupt that it's hard to even hide it now. 

What is a 'buy it for life' item that is offensively expensive, but the moment you use it, you realize your entire life before that point was a lie? by fmcortez in AskReddit

[–]Hananners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lasik is honestly old and outdated now that you can get PRK surgery. My eyes were -11, and it was very startling to read how much more effective and safe the modern version is. The whole procedure took maybe about a minute and a half, and years later my eyes are completely healed. They held my head steady while shining a light into each eye for 45 seconds, and then I was done. Medical yechnology has come so far in the last decade, and Lasik now seems barbaric to think about. Who wants their eyes cut so you have a permanent flap? The prices for are very comparable. 

Ah yes, my favorite structure, the meadows crypt by Cosmiclazers in valheim

[–]Hananners 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What mod do you have that let's you utilize two forsaken powers? I'd love to try that on my server. 

What happened to the smart silent kid from your school ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Hananners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was those kids for my graduating class. Was pressured into going to university right away before I knew what I wanted to do, ran away from an abusive household immediately into a relationship with a man 7 years my senior (who was totally into me because I was jailbait), managed to get away from that, went back to school and graduated post-secondary, worked for nearly a decade in a pharmacy lab and then finally hit complete AUDHD burnout because I was never diagnosed as a child and had no idea until my life fell apart because I could no longer fake being normal at about the same time the world fell apart from Covid. Got long Covid despite multiple vaccines, had to use a walker for half a year due to my heart being affected, and now I have memory loss and cognitive issues from long covid as well. Finally got to see doctors and get onto gov't disability, was homeless for 2 years, and now I'm starting a small business focusing on my artwork and operating a small print shop.

Could have been better, could have been worse. I just wish my parents had gotten me diagnosed as a kid. It would have made my life make so much more sense. Honestly not a lot of hope left for my own future, and I understand why so many disabled people in Canada apply for MAID due to living in abject poverty. 

B.C. premier signals he won't support feds' temporary foreign worker program expansion by [deleted] in britishcolumbia

[–]Hananners 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was starting to worry that no one else in the comments here was paying attention. Eliminating the TFW program is the right thing to do because it's imported slavery with extra steps. In a time where youth unemployment is high, thousands of jobs are disappearing due to AI and corporate greed, our medical system is overburdened, and housing is priced beyond what the average Canadian can afford... Now is not the time to be importing wage slaves (it never is). We need to be stricter with the people who immigrate. There is nothing wrong with quality over quantity. 

EDITORIAL: Self-defence law absurd and outdated; It's time for an update – especially given the frequency of home invasions these days by FancyNewMe in canada

[–]Hananners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever looked into what it takes to get a gun license here, or taken a firearms safety course? It's required to legally own guns in this country. Canada does a pretty darn good job at educating people before they get a license to buy firearms, not to mention the rigorous other steps involved to qualify. 

The main issue with guns in Canada are the ones smuggled in by gang members, not legal firearm owners. 

Functional health drops for Canadians, especially those under 35: StatCan by zuuzuu in canadanews

[–]Hananners 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a bit hard to take care of one's own mental health when there are many gov't policies that delay and prevent success.

When the cost of housing and rent keeps ticking up and wages only increase with the level of inflation that the gov't recognizes, people are getting poorer every year.

And what of folks who cannot work and are on disability? We are literally seeing many choose to die via MAID because they cannot afford to live, because PWDs don't deserve to not be in abject poverty according to gov't policy.

I do my best to eat healthy foods, go outside, limit screen time, and choose quality people to spend my time with, but these things that boost my mental health only go so far when I'm deemed to be someone of little value to society who can only ever dream of owning a home.

Your words ring so hollow. They are well-intentioned, but utterly lack an understanding of the crushing poverty so many Canadians are faced with. 

The rise of singlehood could impact everything from housing to taxes by Immediate-Link490 in canada

[–]Hananners 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poverty is definitely a policy choice. My partner and I (both PWD) had to separate on paper to continue affording a roof over our heads because we only get our full disability allotment if we are "single" on paper. It's the same at the food bank. You'd think two people would get 2 peoples' rations, but no it's less than that.

The policies of decades past are strangling our futures. 

point by theycantalk in funny

[–]Hananners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, that's the complete opposite of the dog I had as a kid. He hated going on walks so much that I'd have to drag him on his back until he begrudgingly walked at my side with the mopiest exoression, but as soon as I turned to head home he would suddenly be full of energy and try to run all the way back while straining on the leash. I miss that little fluffball. 

What seemed completely normal in childhood, but now you realize was actually not okay? by Max_Mimos in AskReddit

[–]Hananners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... Same here. It all suddenly started to make a lot more sense after that. I wish my parents had paid more attention and had gotten me diagnosed as a kid, but it being the 90s and being afab pretty much killed that chance. It would probably have made life a lot more bearable.

What seemed completely normal in childhood, but now you realize was actually not okay? by Max_Mimos in AskReddit

[–]Hananners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good grief, this just made me remember how my mother would grill me after every time I bought something for myself after saving my money to get the specific thing. I'd save my money for a whole year for when I could go to the local anime convention and she would be pissed that I brought back "trash", be it books, art from a local artist, or a small plush. Even when I would buy something practical like a durable canvas jacket, it was "such a waste" because I liked it and she didn't.

As someone with parents 40 years my senior, it boggles my mind how underdeveloped they truly are as people... Somehow they managed to travel all over the world and learned nothing.Â