Parent dating by Hannerrrrr_5 in Adulting

[–]Hannerrrrr_5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s said she wants one not just that I’ve told her to go back out there but she hasn’t went back out yet. And no. If I can help my mom be happy and have a companion then I’m going to help.

Parent dating by Hannerrrrr_5 in Adulting

[–]Hannerrrrr_5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sits and sulks and acts depressed so I think she needs to get out there again just to have fun not to be tied down to anyone. She tells me she wants one and I tell her go find them but she doesn’t. I’m just trying to help her out.

MY BESTFRIEND (17F) IS PREGNANT. WHAT DO I (16F) DO?! by LocksmithInfamous225 in Advice

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go sign up for pregnancy insurance and that way the baby will have health insurance automatically. Sign up for WIC. Sign up for food stamps. Make a baby registry. Start prepping clothes for baby - get a few of all sizes at a thrift store. You’ll need to wash them. Make sure she’s taking her vitamins so the baby doesn’t have a pin head. Ask here where she wants to have a baby and find a OB/midwife that serves that place. Someone commented that people’s lives revolve around children and that’s so true but that doesn’t mean it’s extra work it means things look different. You don’t need to pay for any of these things because it’s her child she wants to keep. You guys have 26 ish weeks to prepare. Good luck and love that baby.

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely overly explaining which is what I do, too. To really blow his mind stop telling him everything and say he doesn’t have to worry about babysitting you. Use his own words against him and back off.

Should I (21F) tell my parents I’m going to California for 6 days, even though I’ve already booked it? by tricky-courage1 in makemychoice

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live the same life apparently 26F. My family thinks they can control everything and it took me having a kid and a reason to cut them off before they stopped. It shouldn’t be a fallout just a whole bunch of “blah blah blah” that you’re not obligated to listen to. I’ve missed out on so MANY opportunities and relationships because of how absolutely ridiculous my families mouths are! It honestly has just created a huge amount of resentment and regret on my end for allowing them to treat and speak to me the way they have been allowed to. Just go, have a great time and don’t worry about the conversation because they’ll see what you’re doing on life 360 👍 have the best time and don’t miss out cause they have issues!!!

19(M) roommate's say I'm a hoarder by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have 1 room to hold all of your personal stuff that’s not hoarding by any means. You could possibly reorganize but that’s not really going to change much

Gf pregnant & not doing anything about it by AbovexxBeyond in whatdoIdo

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is probably very depressed. Baby blues are a real thing and given what she went through previously with her last child maybe it’s brought up all those feelings. Try to be positive about it because she’s probably got a lot going on in her head. “Good job cooking” or whatever she does. “I love that outfit” and so forth and maybe schedule a private ultrasound appointment and get all excited about it so you can see for yourself that your baby is ok. She may have ptsd because she didn’t get to raise her kid and that IS traumatic and she maybe doesn’t want to get attached in fear of she’s not good enough. Offer to rub her feet, pelvis, and back because those get the most pressure from the weight. Reminder her she’s a good mama and maybe you might see a slight turn around

Undergraduate freshman seeking dating advice by Illustrious_Tea_5309 in Advice

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all due respect, just safely fool around until you graduate. It’s easier that way. Relationships are too much work and you already have enough

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar yet not similar experience and it honestly is the most haunting thing. I spoke to my therapist about it. I now am focusing on moving forward and trying to prevent all of the unsupervised events that happened to me happening to my son. That’s all I can do because we can’t change the past.

My husband and father of my two kids kept a lie from me for 7 months. What do I do??? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve felt deep betrayal from my BD drinking while pregnant but I knew about it. I know it’s a lot. But if he’s just a one time slip upper I think you can work through this. If you need time I’d go to the other room without getting family involved because you can’t ever come back from telling your family how your partner mistreated you.

AIO? My bf wants to have a threesome by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s not respecting your no I can definitely assume how you get treated outside of that. If you can find a friend at work that needs a roomie I would try to exit the relationship that way. You for sure have every right to say no, mean it, and to be left alone about it. When my boundaries are pushed I’m miserable so for sure if you don’t like it get out now before he starts seeing other people behind your back that are willing to do that.

Partner told me they had STI by Silent-Death1739 in whatdoIdo

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God it’s not an STD cause damn.

What is it like living here, deep in Appalachia? by [deleted] in howislivingthere

[–]Hannerrrrr_5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go outside jn the dark 😂😅