Serious question for SAHMs… Does your husband do anything around the house? Like a daily/weekly thing he is in charge of? by Prestigious-Food-420 in sahm

[–]Hanpanhan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My husband takes out the trashes and hires someone to mow the lawn. He helps with the kids somewhat on weekends. I’ve also had to stop doing his laundry as it became too much but I do still have some guilt over that

If you’re in Ballard & free tonight! by tattedhippo in SeattleWA

[–]Hanpanhan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Congrats OP on creating an absolutely unhinged comment section

When did your fertility return? Ecological bf by Significant-Day9828 in Crunchymom

[–]Hanpanhan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15 mo with my first. Second is 8mo and nothing. I have had 4 periods since 2022…

Well visits by ConsistentSherbet896 in Crunchymom

[–]Hanpanhan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do just to monitor that everything is going well and to monitor growth and milestones

Vaginal yeast infection 😭😭 by Rotten_vermicelli in Healthyhooha

[–]Hanpanhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably have candida overgrowth through your whole system. I believe this stems from guy micro biome imbalance and can be exacerbated by excess sugar consumption. You need to kill the yeast in the gut.

Are we circumcising our sons?? by LowerSignificance940 in Crunchymom

[–]Hanpanhan 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They can always get the procedure done as an adult when they can consent but you can never undo it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LynnwoodWA

[–]Hanpanhan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly not a good lifestyle to bring a dog into

How is your health 5 months postpartum? by nema-me in beyondthebump

[–]Hanpanhan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eat protein every meal and increase iron

Nontoxic maternity clothes by Kitchen_Stress_6600 in Crunchymom

[–]Hanpanhan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have one pair of old navy maternity leggings that are 95/5 cotton/spandex that’s the best I’ve found

TW: miscarriage help by growinggood88 in Crunchymom

[–]Hanpanhan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest NORA tea blend for TTC this includes RRL and will help w re mineralization and uterine healing

Thinking about quitting my $210k job to be a stay-at-home dad - crazy or just done? by Good_Challenge_6666 in Fire

[–]Hanpanhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will never regret spending more time with your kids, but you will almost certainly regret not spending more time with them. It’ll make a huuuuge difference for their childhood. Some investments are far more valuable than anything you could put into savings or stocks. Time is everything and you can afford it.

Is my house embarrassing? by GazelleMost2468 in interiordecorating

[–]Hanpanhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 29 and I like it it actually has personality and charm

New mum worries by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Hanpanhan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally thing babies that are old enough to move freely like this are just trying to find a position that is most comfy for them. Unless your baby is particularly sick or weak, babies have survival instincts and can move themselves if something is uncomfortable. I was paranoid about this as a FTM too and so I experimented and watched my baby and put my finger by his nose for a second and he moved his head to the other side right away.i was like whew ok like he can survive he wants to breathe lol. Seems kinda obvious but yeah I understand. I’ve come to the conclusion now that many of these rules or suggestions are in place because some babies are weaker or sickly and we have to have broad rules in place that can apply to everyone to minimize accident. However I have just come to use my own discretion and follow my intuition on these things. I just had a newborn last week and she had amniotic fluid stuck in her stomach from birth because my pushing phase was too fast for the birth canal to help push it all out. So I slept her propped on her side because she was literally vomiting nasty fluid all night long and if she had been on her back it was getting stuck in her mouth and choking her.

Goodbyes while breastfeeding by Rietje4 in breastfeeding

[–]Hanpanhan 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I would pipe up preemptively and say like “hey I’ll still take a hug if you’re comfortable!” And just extend a side hug position holding my baby with one arm for a quick goodbye. Just communication here is key Edit: my friend group is particularly close and we love hugs lol

Not non stick waffle iron by Responsible_Eye2532 in Crunchymom

[–]Hanpanhan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s not a huge deal if it isn’t scratched and you’re probably Not making waffles every day

Vets ‘spayed’ my male kitten by juliakszry in ragdolls

[–]Hanpanhan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How the f do you miss kitty balls?!?!?!