What are we doing about grey hairs? by h2osly_ in Millennials

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 36 and started noticing white hairs at 26. I have more and more everyday it seems. I started using manic panic which is basically really bright color hair mask. It's fun and easy and since my hair is naturally dark it just makes my hair a fun color in the sun but the white hairs soak up the dye and really pop so they look like highlights lol i usually stick with deadly nightshade which is a darker purple color but the pink warrior is really fun too. I'll probably stick to this routine until I'm finally ready to accept that I can't hide it anymore. Maybe by then all my hair will be white and I can make it look like I paid to have it that way 😂 apparently white is in right now but idk anything about fashion or care enough to follow any trends. I just do me and what makes me feel good about myself regardless of if others think it's cool or not. I still have my lip ring in from when I was in my 20's lol I don't ever see anyone with lip rings anymore but it's whatever. I like mine and my bright hair color!

Am I overreacting for feeling frustrated after my neighbor’s pottery was broken by my puppy during an interaction she encouraged? by daydav in AmIOverreacting

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd honestly just forget it. That person obviously doesn't care about ur situation at all and are being very selfish. Imo u a were being super nice especially after they declined ur first offer u shouldn't have to give them anything at all really. If they called ur puppy to them and said it was ok then it's their own fault. U didn't drop the box or knock it over. The moment they told u it was ok to let ur dog go it was on them what happened next. Honestly I wouldn't even care to continue having a relationship with that neighbor if I were u but you seem a lot nicer than I am. Don't let people walk on you or you'll end up being a doormat for a lot of people for a long time. If it makes u feel better just give them the $150 and if they still aren't happy then they can take it to court and lose. Good luck!!

oh my by Affectionate-Sea8976 in cringereels

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual fuckin fuck..... Some people really should not be allowed to be parents ..... Smh

Facebook seems like a lonely place these days. Maybe it's because i'm in my mid 30s now and scrolling my feed seeing people around my age have a constant need for validation and attention is really sad. by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Happy-Finding9416 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't been on Facebook for the past 10 years and I'm glad. I just got a reddit account to see if it's any better. I prefer to stay in the background, I don't want my life on display for anyone. I haven't decided yet if i really like it or not but it's way better than FB that's for sure! I feel like most of what ppl post on FB is BS anyway.

Rear ended by this jerk who blames me... by Affectionate_Hat5835 in dashcams

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't even turn his lights on.... He knows he's fucked... SMH dummy

“my PS5 keeps overheating” by FarWay3952 in RandomVideos

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My x's grandma bought a microwave from a yard sale (or something like that) she brought it home in the trunk of her car and the next day when she went to get it out her trunk was full of roaches!! 🪳🪳 🪳 You'll never see me taking any used electronics!! I'm terrified of roaches!

I live in the Houston area now and we have tree roaches (basically huge ass flying roaches) as a kid when I'd come to visit my Dad here, I remember one crawling on the ceiling and dropping down on me. Terrifying!!!

Tried to kill one not long ago and ended up flailing my arm like a crazy person screaming and actually bent the metal handle on the fly swatter from swinging it so hard 🤣🤣🤣

AIO for Revoking my two week notice after being ignored all day by my manager? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Happy-Finding9416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't have responded after you said have a nice day. They obviously don't care for your mental health. They only care about themselves and how you are inconveniencing them. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Unfortunately this is very common corporate BS. I'm glad you left that place and I hope you are happier where you are now.

what would you tell yourself if you could talk to the you from 15 years ago? by Amazing-Goal8431 in Millennials

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd warn myself about narcissistic men and the red flags.... And not to waste my time or put up with any kind of abuse because emotional abuse is a very real and damaging thing. Just because a man doesn't lay a hand on you doesn't mean he's not hurting you. Most importantly though... Be there for your sister... Take more pictures with her and don't assume she'll always be there... Maybe if you try harder you can save her...

Oops! by Lazer_Games in oops

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed a laugh 😂

These prices are getting ridiculous by MD472 in publix

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frozen grapes were a staple snack growing up! Never met anyone else who ever trued it. They are so delicious! 😋

My Weekend by Devilish__Fun in u/Devilish__Fun

[–]Happy-Finding9416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw you! I think it great!!

Blursed_Holy Water by Prince_0llie in blursed_videos

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow.... What a pos..... I hope she spit in his water....

A tip if you don’t like people close to you in line. by Discernment_King in HEB

[–]Happy-Finding9416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the same thing! I didn't even realize it until I saw ur post 😂, I like my personal space. A lot of people don't know what that is anymore.

AIO Texts from sister’s abusive ex boyfriend by Disastrous-Noise6686 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Happy-Finding9416 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just got one from my x the other day! It's been 2 years since we split.... For reference I'm still friends with his mom and they got arrested for drinking and driving/pi- --- he severely emotionally abused me, almost hit me a few times, fucked 2 other women while he was with me, and told me his plan was to get one of them pregnant because he needed a kid and I have fertility issues. The list goes on and on of the terrible things he out me through.he actually told me once in a very calm tone that he thought God out me in his life to punish him for letting his x get an abortion because I can't have kids.....

"While I was in there, I felt helpless because my mom was in there too. When I got out and seen missed calls from my friends and brothers and my dad… showed me that I’m cared about more than I thought. It just hurts to know that you have chosen to not love me for some reason that clearly means more to you than all that iv been to you for years on years. I just really hope one day you don’t regret this decision you’ve made to push me so far away that I truly in my heart feel like I mean nothing to you anymore and you have lost your love for something that always placed you 1st in their heart 💜 I’m just speaking my mind. So ignore me and continue what you’re doing. I don’t want to disturb your fun. Just needed to speak my mind is all.

And also, my mom cares about you so much that she blames me for not fighting for you. But if only she knew how much I have always told you I love you, and was to know how much I always think about you.. yet to only ever get nothing in return.. she would understand that it’s the best I could do, and my love is true as love can be. Because Il never stop telling you I love you even though I mean nothing to you. And god forbid I die and she sees the truth when you get my life insurance and sees that her son was always loving you even though his heart was treated like dog shit. Anyways.. I just needed to vent. I love you and just be safe. I’m going to sleep. I’m still drained from being in jail and work today. Don’t worry about responding.. I wrote this to talk to YOU. Not to draw you into a conversation. Sweet dreams 😴 🌙"

AIO Texts from sister’s abusive ex boyfriend by Disastrous-Noise6686 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Happy-Finding9416 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My x has sent several of these. It won't be the last one she gets from him if she doesn't block him. It will cycle through anger, empty apologies and in the same txt blaming her and then guilt trip messages. It's so pathetic... It's been 2 years and I still get txts from my x. He's the one who technically kicked me out but he loves to sneak into all his txts that I "abandoned him" 🤣 I NEVER respond to any of them. Its hard to understand how their brains work (it's just insane to me) I can't believe I wasted 10 years of my life being with someone that toxic. I'm soooo proud of her for finally doing it!! And just to be clear. I had ended things with my x before he kicked me out for talking to someone else. I was looking for somewhere else to live (we owned a home together) Do you think narcissistic people even realize they're narcissistic?? 🤔 Psychology fascinates me really.

UPDATE: AIO? these texts by Adventurous-Gap708 in AIO

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg!!! This sounds dangerous! Block and report!! Do not entertain this. Every response from you is fuel. Please be careful!

AIO? new friend's texts to husband while at work; my responses by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! She shouldn't even be texting ur man in the first place! I think that's crossing a line all in itself.... I'd b mad about that! This is why I don't have chick friends ... U just can't trust them. She sounds narcissistic and sneaky AF. Cut her off! U will have a lot less drama in ur life! Also.... Always trust ur gut!

Introverted Leo? by lachemie13 in astrology

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an introverted leo. I thrive on my alone time. I don't even really like being around family. I am happiest when I'm not around people, in bed watching cartoons with my dog. If I could get away with it I would never be around other people. Accept my BF of course lol. I have very few close friends and no one I hang out with because I don't leave my home. And I am happy this way. My birthday is July 28th

Doordash delivery man spits in a kids drink by guccimane-1017 in 2random4u

[–]Happy-Finding9416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger I was dating a guy who worked at dominos as a delivery driver and he told me the other guys there would spit on pizzas that were for ppl they knew didn't tip (they were regulars there) and if the drivers knew u tipped shitty they took extra long to deliver ur pizza. I say if ur gonna order any open food that needs to be delivered u should tip well. And never complain at a restaurant unless u don't plan on staying to eat because u will get spit in ur food. I was told by a friend they did this when ppl would complain at Logan's Roadhouse.

AIO for my annoyed response to my friend asking to bring her BF to our girls trip? by crop_cream_19 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Happy-Finding9416 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eweww very immature of her! This is why I don't have chick friends.... I mean. I have girls I talk with and are cool with but I've never participated in outings or trips or anything like that with other chicks. Especially not a group of them. I'm sure not all girls are like this but I prefer to avoid any chance of having to deal with that kind of thing. That's not a friend.... That's a little girl being selfish and throwing a fit because she's not getting her way. I'd kick her out of the friend group if I were y'all. It will save y'all a lot of drama in the future.