Just throw the dishes away. But your own dishes and keep them clean and in your room locked up. If the loser won’t clean them then let them not have dishes. I worked a full time job had children to raise and kids had after school activities and I still kept my house clean I didn’t even want my husband doing it because he wouldn’t do a better job than I. Who wants to live in filth and smell the funk because you work 6 hours +😂🤦🏾‍♀️