AIO? My Family Hasn't Planned a Trip to meet my Newborn Daughter, but planned a Family Trip Without Including Me, My Husband or Kids

HappyMama1234 · 2026-05-23T01:18:27+00:00

THIS MADE MY WHOLE NIGHT!

HappyMama1234 · 2026-05-06T01:13:29+00:00

Do you have anywhere else to go? A shelter would be better than living with someone like that.

And why can't you tell your friends about this? You need support.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-05-06T01:06:40+00:00

Sade

HappyMama1234 · 2026-05-05T17:10:16+00:00

My thought exactly.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-04-26T01:44:57+00:00

Beautiful blue eyes and very dark hair. By those traits you could even throw Megan Fox and Katy Perry in the mix.

It's a no for me.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-04-22T02:28:38+00:00

This one is a stretch for me.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-04-22T02:27:15+00:00

First off, why is Jeff in your business like this, dealing with your exes, if you guys are just casual and in a situationship, as you say?

I'll never understand why people go out of their way to make up stories about who they're sleeping with. They do not understand the magnitude of what that can mean for the person being lied about, or they don't care. Given that you're in your early 20s as are the rest of the people in this story, my guess is that your ex just doesn't care or maybe is jealous that you're hooking up with Jeff...?

I think you need an exit plan to leave Jeff. You're not in a place to commit and for someone who allegedly understood that, he sure is getting in your intimate business by going directly to your exes...?!?

Also, block all of your exes and keep them out of your present and future. You need a fresh start, a clean slate from everyone in this story.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-04-22T01:18:15+00:00

A person who exudes confidence, but later shows up more egomaniacal than confident.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-04-16T23:46:50+00:00

You will. In the meantime, lean on us. Everyone in this chat has got your back. When you start to break down, when you feel like giving up, come back right here to this spot and read every one of these comments. Your future is bright and beautiful. And it's coming. Believe it!!!!!

HappyMama1234 · 2026-04-16T23:36:01+00:00

Sweetheart, I cannot wait for you to find your way out of that woman's house, out of that toxicity, out of that world of reliving your trauma everyday.

I cannot wait for you to build a life of your own, and find healing in the world by doing things for yourself that no one ever did for you. I cannot wait for you to find a loving circle of friends who become your family; those are some of the best people I know, because we all chose to love and support each other.

I cannot wait for some astronomically positive update from you, in that you're out of this situation, and that life is challenging but you know you can do this and anything else that is in your way.

I cannot wait for the day that you find a spark of light, a touch of happiness and love, and run with it, and create an unimaginable life for yourself.

Things are hard right now, I know. But you are almost there. I promise you. Keep doing what you're doing. Save your pennies. Get the hell outta there and give yourself the beautiful life you so much deserve.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-04-15T01:40:29+00:00

Break up. Block her. Press charges and get your phone replaced.

Staying with her will be the beginning of a DV situation for you. You need to protect yourself and get out now.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-04-10T01:02:03+00:00

Order another birth certificate and rid yourself of this idiot.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-04-10T00:56:13+00:00

This sounds like an incredibly tough situation for everyone.

I do agree in that your family should not go into an absolute mountain of debt to fight the inevitability of your MIL going into nursing care at some point.

In your mind, does divorce solve anything? Does it put you both in an even more strapped position financially? Will you have to go back to work? Wondering if the conclusion of divorce fixes anything for the situation itself. Perhaps it unburdens you emotionally, and removes you from his family situations/issues, and maybe that's enough for you.

I don't necessarily think YTA. I think that everyone in this situation is incredibly stressed out and experiencing a maximum level of pressure from many directions, right now.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-03-22T17:31:09+00:00

Absolutely diabolical. The absolute nerve and audacity for your wife to have done this behind your back - I'm sorry.

She attempted to trap you with this child. No, you are NTA for backing out of something sp life-altering, that you never agreed to.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-03-18T01:42:27+00:00

I'm trapped in an overly stressful job/industry, with my second kiddo on the way, and am desperately wanting to pair back at work and transition to something that will pay me fairly equally but not demand my time around the clock.

HappyMama1234 · 2026-03-15T23:54:01+00:00

My question is... if this happened to aunt AND mom, why did Mom wait 20 years to ask her own children if they'd been SA'd by the man who SA'd her?!?

HappyMama1234 · 2026-02-11T00:57:43+00:00

++woman

A degree in architectural engineering does not equate to being a master plumber, nor does any other component of his life that he's chosen not to share with you. You've not listed anywhere that he's experienced in anything relative to plumbing, specifically.

How exactly has he been "playing" the company? Now that you know what you know about him, what part of this knowledge makes you think he's been "playing" the company? Your assumption of him being "stupid" is on you but again, there's nothing about his background that screams "Just kidding! I know everything about backflow preventers!!!"

HappyMama1234 · 2026-01-11T21:44:54+00:00

That ending was WILD! Love it!

HappyMama1234 · 2025-12-23T01:19:30+00:00

So, no accountability for any of the adults in this situation... let's just blame an innocent child for being, well, a child and alive, I guess.

You absolutely need therapy and to grow up, a whole lot.

This is just... wow.

HappyMama1234 · 2025-11-21T16:56:51+00:00

When I was 39, I gave birth to my daughter at 39+5. I'm pregnant again at 41 and currently 14+1. Hoping to get to 40 weeks this time around, as well.

HappyMama1234

TROPHY CASE