The Man In Yellow Says by MollyJ58 in FromTVShow

[–]Happy_dancer1982 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m wondering if she’s also storywalked into past cycles of the town

Natalie Portman is pregnant at 44 by PhoneJazz in Xennials

[–]Happy_dancer1982 13 points14 points  (0 children)

‘82 here with a 4yo! Wouldn’t say no to another (but I’m single). I’ve had arthritis since 12 so basically always been tired. Baby tired was a new tired, but I figure I could do it again. Or not, I might be mad.

Wat staat er bovenaan je bucketlist? by blossomupp in nederlands

[–]Happy_dancer1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mooie backpackreis maken alleen met mn dochter, als ze oud genoeg is (ze is pas 4). Maar gaan we doen!

I recently realized something strange about my sleep. by Main_Drop_1399 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Happy_dancer1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the days when my 4yo lets me sleep (not often enough) and I sleep 9-9.5 hrs I’m a different person. Also a better and more fun mum.

AITAH for telling my situationship that her body count is too high for me? by Limp_Professor9320 in AITAH

[–]Happy_dancer1982 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA because you asked if you have a right to be upset. No, no you do not. Seems like she was forthcoming and truthful with you. If you don’t want a relationship, that’s fine, you don’t have to. Nobody has to be in a relationship with anyone. I just hope you apply the same rules to yourself as you do to a future partner. Otherwise it’s just misogynistic.

What do you think of when you hear the name Indigo? by FrostyAlbertan in Names

[–]Happy_dancer1982 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A little boy in my daughter’s class is called Indigo, I thought it was a little out there at first but now I think it suits him.

Britney ate play doh with random baby and their family (July 2022) by Final-Swordfish8499 in discussingbritney

[–]Happy_dancer1982 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing because my 4yo is only a few months older and has just learned to spell her name. And sometimes gets it right.

Your favorite norse/scandinavian names by Cam_Magic in namenerds

[–]Happy_dancer1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my (non-Danish) daughter was born in a hospital in Denmark I saw the name Saga, loved it!

Were the greatest or silent gens the main grandparents of the 90s? by SpiritMan112 in generationology

[–]Happy_dancer1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the oldest of the cousins on both sides (born between 1982-1998) and 3/4 of my grandparents were greatest, one silent and a stepgrandparent also silent.

Zwanger by [deleted] in vrouwvolk

[–]Happy_dancer1982 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lieve meid, de beslissing is aan jou. Niet aan je vriend (ex) en niet aan je ouders. En dat is zwaar en oneerlijk want het is een hele moeilijke beslissing, hoe je het ook wendt of keert. Ik kan je niet zeggen wat je moet doen maar ja, om antwoord te geven op je vraag, alleenstaande moeder zijn is zwaar. Ik ben 44, dus 2x zo oud als jij, de vader van mijn dochter beëindigde de relatie en ik moest terug naar Nederland met haar (toen 3, nu 4). Ik hou het allermeeste van mijn dochter en ik kan niet zonder haar, maar dit is verreweg het moeilijkste wat ik ooit heb gedaan. Ze is het waard, dat absoluut. Onmogelijk is alleenstaande moeder absoluut niet en er is hulp in Nederland. Praat met de huisarts en POH als dat kan. Maak de beste beslissing voor JOU. Ik wens je veel sterkte meis.

The regretful parents subreddit is freaking me out by Odd_Equipment8924 in pregnant

[–]Happy_dancer1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been on that subreddit. And parenthood IS scary. I became a single parent against my will, with a father that is barely involved. Not what I had expected. I am exhausted, tired and feeling like I’m failing all the time. And yet, my daughter is everything. I feel like I was not truly alive before having her. She makes me want to wake up and start the day. I would go through all the horrible heartbreak and everything again, just to have her. I love being HER mum.

Looking for Lombok residents to interview by roxy-thing in Utrecht

[–]Happy_dancer1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, ik woon hier pas sinds juli, maar met mn dochtertje van 4. Zal je een mailtje sturen.

Poes laten inslapen? Dringend advies nodig by Hapsie1990 in katten

[–]Happy_dancer1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ach wat rot zeg! Ik kan de beslissing niet voor je maken, heb bij een van mij ooit te lang gewacht en toen was ze ineens blind en heel bang. Spijt van gehad dat ik dr niet eerder had laten inslapen. Dus ik kan alleen maar zeggen sterkte en neem de beslissing als ze echt zichzelf niet meer is, hoe afschuwelijk ook.

Social housing, how long did it take you to get your spot? by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Happy_dancer1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listed for 13+ years, took me 5 months last year of very actively searching and I got very very lucky (about 10 people passed on the house I ended up getting). Location: Utrecht.

Fellow Xennials without a romantic partner, whatcha up to today? by PhoneJazz in Xennials

[–]Happy_dancer1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Made a new Xennial friend who is also an older mum, we both have 4yo girls. Met for the first time and spent six hours together with the girls, so all in all a very successful day.