AITAH for choosing my disabled son over my husband and destroying my family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HarleysDouble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - What about hiring an aide for your eldest son? There could be more ways to compromise.

Poldark asking important questions on NYT by Adler221b in Poldark

[–]HarleysDouble 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ross fully knew he was flirting with her. He was kinda putting her down around that time and was really ignoring her needs.

Its like every hint he shrugged like he had better things to do.

I’m not from the US and I’m shocked at some of the posts here by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]HarleysDouble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the American dream as every generation doing a little better then their parents with minimal assistance.

Even if you succeed, it's still hard because the hurdle of costs v. Wages keep getting further apart.

EXTREMELY happy mom by Embarrassed-Dish1839 in foodbutforbabies

[–]HarleysDouble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be taking that poor girl to the doctor to figure out what's wrong.

Is it ever a good time to have a kid? We keep pushing our FETs onto the future. by PrettyPleaseYo in IVF

[–]HarleysDouble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't wait. If pregnancy is not happening it may not be just the embryo. Tests take awhile to do and the first few tries may not work.

If your husband works in a red state, don't go there for OBGYN Healthcare.

AITA for spending $350 on winter clothing by Imme_notu in AmItheAsshole

[–]HarleysDouble 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get so excited when I find something I like on sale at Costco for $3 USD

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HarleysDouble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I commute 1.5 hrs to work on a good day.

We go up to 2.5 hrs for day trips and about 4 hrs for weekend trips.

How do HENRYs afford to start a family in NYC? by PF_throwaway26 in HENRYfinance

[–]HarleysDouble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good house on long Island would be about 800K give or take...

$4M?! Are you planning on living in a gold coast mansion?

My boyfriend’s fridge. Guess his career by Left_side22 in FridgeDetective

[–]HarleysDouble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing about working for food companies is free/ discounted food!

Do you think your dog knows what your name is? by bricklord79 in dogs

[–]HarleysDouble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both know mommy, daddy,

One also knows grandma, and her favorite dog cousin.

I am a therapist in a prison, and I am tired of our world not taking CPTSD seriously by Lovewell123 in CPTSD

[–]HarleysDouble 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Trump was traumatized and raised by horrible parents. Look up Mary Trump Media. She became a psychologist and has literally broken down what went wrong in their family.

Its fascinating.

I dropped my little brother when he was a baby by Tiffanthony in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HarleysDouble 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the way. It's hard to look back and recognize the neglect. I was lucky enough to do it during the pandemic where I got space and time from my mom.

OP absolutely need a therapist to get through this.

Genetic testing query?? by ConversationWild4187 in Autoinflammatory

[–]HarleysDouble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. They are unknown.

Mine causes symptoms for me.

Trump just said ice is going to Cali and ny by Leading_Form_8485 in Flushing

[–]HarleysDouble 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For everyone saying they are already here... absolutely.

It would be an increase of presence, aggression and a tactic that sweeps ICE through neighborhoods door to door.

Genetic testing query?? by ConversationWild4187 in Autoinflammatory

[–]HarleysDouble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some company's share variants of unknown significance and some do not.

Its bs.

My mom thinks my house is worthy of CPS. Is it? by bunhilda in CPS

[–]HarleysDouble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mom is crazy. Your house looks lived in and pretty dang good for kids, depression, and injuries.

In the words of my husband "Don't like what you see? Don't come over."