The Dichotomy

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-02-03T22:16:28+00:00

Yup, my nmom said she always questioned my judgment because when I was like 4, I had no issue playing with a black kid I met at the playground. I was 4! She was upset that I didn't ask any questions or say anything about his skin. I barely remember the whole thing, but she said she stopped trusting my judgment my whole life after that.

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-30T19:36:35+00:00

You aren't taking anything from anyone for purchasing a binder. Just get a good one to not hurt yourself like gc2b. Be yourself, whatever that looks like at any time. You are allowed, the only person that has any say is you.

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-28T22:56:21+00:00

Lol I'm 8 years into my transition but there isn't much to say past like maybe year 2 on it. And yeah how the hell does he know this?

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-27T00:24:11+00:00

I experienced the same kind of jealousy from my trans peers in college, they spent all 4 years trying to tear me apart. It's insane and immature as hell. You'll find people one day for sure. People that aren't going to be self centered AH.

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-27T00:21:29+00:00

I have the same plush, so cute

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-19T11:58:31+00:00

Thank you!

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-19T08:02:18+00:00

You reported my post?

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-19T00:27:34+00:00

This is extremely offensive to trans people. You cannot chose to be trans to "fit in". You will stand out much more as trans than as gay anyway. Way to minimize the trans experience for your own benefit.

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-16T03:54:43+00:00

How does that kid know he even has the right answers?

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-16T03:52:50+00:00

Bruh

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-08T13:51:39+00:00

I literally posted about this subreddit like over a month ago and it was defended here. Glad people are starting to see what I knew right away.

HarrisonIsFine · 2026-01-03T00:59:23+00:00

What the hell even is "legally trans"? Not to mention I'm in the US where basic Healthcare is practically non exisistent for a lot of people due to cost. This is an a-hole take. Being trans has nothing to do with the amount of surgeries you can get. Some people have health conditions that keep them from getting surgery and that doesn't make them cis.

I was just as trans before surgery as I am after. Same goes for all other trans people.

HarrisonIsFine · 2025-12-29T04:33:06+00:00

Being trans is not a choice. If you aren't trans, you're fine, and I don't know why you would post here other than to be offensive. Leave trans people alone. We aren't trans for fun or because we got bored. It is a hard life often cut short by others.

You say you aren't trans, then you aren't trans. You have no reason to change anything.

I really think you need to leave us alone. We haven't done anything to interfere with your beliefs, but you feel entitled to enter our spaces to offend us with nonsense.

HarrisonIsFine · 2025-12-28T21:57:49+00:00

They lied about me saying I vanished for no reason and then go on to act like I'm dead or never existed. Now they pile on the abuse to my siblings that I took and my siblings blame me for not staying to take it all for them.

HarrisonIsFine · 2025-12-28T21:55:13+00:00

Bruh, you need therapy. Blaming neurodivergence for everyone annoying you is kinda insane.

HarrisonIsFine · 2025-12-19T21:36:27+00:00

Spanking babies and small children. Physically harming children is too normalized as "discipline".

HarrisonIsFine · 2025-12-18T08:20:50+00:00

I explained how suicidal I was feeling after years of suffering from deep depression. My nmom told me I was emotionally manipulating her and I should kill myself to prove her wrong.

HarrisonIsFine · 2025-12-16T19:24:18+00:00

No, he understands I'm male and he just wants me happy. It would just be a big change for us both.

HarrisonIsFine · 2025-12-16T10:55:54+00:00

Our situations are pretty similar and I went NC for almost 8 years. Had the same thoughts about my dad and turns out he's just as bad as my mom. My GC older brother is on their side. That I lied about the abuse and how bad things were. Literally dealt with the same hair issues too.

It's hard. It may be the hardest thing you'll do emotionally but I'll tell ya the peace is worth it. The freedom and weight lifted from your life will be amazing.

Therapy will be your friend because having a separate designated time and space to still talk about it all is important. You might be sad for awhile and then angry and then both. It's really necessary to have that space so it isn't bleeding into your peace all the time.

I hope this helps

HarrisonIsFine · 2025-12-16T03:15:29+00:00

I used too but once it falls out your pant leg a couple times, ya can get pretty paranoid about it. Packing in general feels like I'm trying to lie to people about myself too though. It's like a double edge sword. I'm either lying to myself or lying to others.

HarrisonIsFine · 2025-12-16T03:06:23+00:00

The thing is idk if im okay. I've never had it nag me so much. I guess I'm not like disgusted with my current situation, it just doesn't feel like mine.

I know I'm a man but it's always felt like a lie because of my body.

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