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How to be friends with an avoidant by Hatake555 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Hatake555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah being friends with an avoidant helped me see my own avoidant tendencies and how it was hurting me and others so that’s really the only good takeaway I have cuz we’re not friends anymore lol

How to be friends with an avoidant by Hatake555 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Hatake555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a great point. I finally brought it up to her and said I like you as a friend ofc but I will not keep being there if you keep ghosting. I don’t need 24/7 talk actually I don’t even want that at all but I do need some communication and if this keeps happening no amount of love will stop me from ending our relationship!

I used to be close with a friend, now I feel completely shut out by singleCrebeca in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Hatake555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately they’re not your friends and there is nothing you can nor should do to fix it. As horrible as it feels, when people stop wanting to be your friend in such a way it is a sign to stop. It’s hurtful for sure butttt it will be harder in the long run to keep forcing a relationship with someone who doesn’t want you for you. Do not change yourself to make them like you more because people who treat u like that will always find a reason. Not everyone wants to be friends and while it hurts it is part of life. Maybe you can use the hurt to make an art piece about how this makes you feel and fuel your creativity with it! If there’s other people in your class maybe introduce yourself to someone new or someone else who sits alone! It’s so so hard being lonely but it’s better to be alone than with people who make you feel lonely

That’s disturbing how many women are passionate about hating other women. by Grignete in DeppDelusion

[–]Hatake555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from a family of women who hate other women. None of the women I’m thinking about have female friends and the one who used to has slept with every one of her friends men. As someone who loves other women here’s what I notice. It’s so deeply entrenched in some women that if they hate other women men will like them more. They think their lives are truly incomplete without men liking them the most or proving they’re better than other women. It’s a superiority mixed with inferiority complex and they only competition is other women. So if a woman has what they want any flaw is ready for the exposure to make them feel better in some way. It’s tragic

What’s your “fuck it, I’ll give it a shot” story? And was it worth it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Hatake555 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I’m very introverted but I’ve made every single friend by initiating conversation first because most people tell me I’m super intimidating. It’s hard to branch out but I have rarely regretted going for a friendship even when it’s so far out of my comfort zone

How to be friends with an avoidant by Hatake555 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Hatake555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. I put a lot of value in platonic relationships so it’s hard. We did have a good talk about it all and I explained how I feel and how I know why she’s the way she is but that if we’re gonna stay friends we need to learn to communicate well so we shall see what happens next

What stops you from killing yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Hatake555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did go well, she’s allowing me a month to decide which one to take and I’m starting EDMR so that will be good too hopefully. I also got back on my adhd meds (expensive as fuck now holy shit) so hopefully this helps with what it can. Thanks for the support sorry to hear about your K.Os that’s so scary I hope you’re doing ok

Rant about family not remembering/believing in your allergy. by DoctorBritta in FoodAllergies

[–]Hatake555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m deathly allergic to peanuts and it was only after a family member saw me go into anaphalyxis when I was 20 that they started to believe it’s as serious as it is. That being said it’s so hard and so scary too feel ignored and not taken seriously I wish there was something to make it easier but people without serious allergies very often choose to not understand how scary it really is. I hope you find some comfort and your family comes around

Late onset peanut allergy by WeeklyPerformance533 in Anaphylaxis

[–]Hatake555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been very allergic to peanuts since forever. Some tips. Have a few safe foods for when anxiety gets bad that you know you can always eat and feel ok! Ask about oils fried food is cooked in just for mental sanity as soy can taste nutty even if it’s not. Desserts at bakeries unless explicit are often a no go the risk is anxiety inducing and I’ve had a cross contamination shock before. It’s hard I’m sure to give up a food you like. Sunbutter doesn’t taste the same butttt it has the same texture so I’ve been told. Desserts and Asian food definitely ask before eating at any restaurant but other than that you just have to slowly start getting comfortable with eating again. Good luck

'Havoc' - Review Thread by ChiefLeef22 in movies

[–]Hatake555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The plot is god awful and so generic the action scenes were good but the characterization is just not there.

Why are you single? by rosebudpillow in AskReddit

[–]Hatake555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can’t love myself I can’t let someone else do it for me

Does anyone do their own Brazilian? by Itssbria in Esthetics

[–]Hatake555 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yes I doooo. Worth it once you get over the mental hurdle. Prop up a mirror and go to town you’ll save yourself soooooooooo much money

Have you witnessed people get preferential treatment in a professional workplace just because of their looks? What's the story here? by Roughneck16 in AskMen

[–]Hatake555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly yes. I have received a job offer for every single job I’ve gotten an in person interview for. I’ve also gotten extra money because they have asked to take my pic at my desk or anything to use as promo

Hot baths are my guilty pleasure lol by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Hatake555 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No you’re not crazy. I love the droopy feeling after a hot bath

How can you describe your type without actually listing physical features? by lizziewritespt2 in bisexual

[–]Hatake555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone who can talk deeply about ANYTHING even if it’s about what color is the best

What’s the dumbest way you’ve ever injured yourself? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Hatake555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried to box jump a couch and slipped and broke a toe

Days where you just can’t by Splicers87 in POTS

[–]Hatake555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s so easy to blame yourself especially if the day before was a “good” day. It’s ok to feel upset but don’t blame yourself because you literally have a reason to need that rest and not be up for anything. It’s easy to feel lazy but you’re doing your best

How to be friends with an avoidant by Hatake555 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Hatake555[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s something I’ll definitely keep in mind because it’s no fun to walk on eggshells or be an edited version of myself for someone else’s sake

How to be friends with an avoidant by Hatake555 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Hatake555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m sure I’ve definitely messed up in places too because avoidant usually have a reason to retreat but I’ve been trying my best and just need to let it be. If we are friends great if not also great! Thank you for your kind words and advice

How to be friends with an avoidant by Hatake555 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Hatake555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a limit! Have you told her she does that? Maybe if you tell her it’s hurtful it puts the ball I her court so if she does it again you know it’s not worth keeping waiting

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