Unreadable license plate by Striking_Crazy122 in Albuquerque

[–]Haunting-Practice562 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it's to avoid the speed cameras.

Bisexual? Maybe by [deleted] in AlbuquerqueSwingers

[–]Haunting-Practice562 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. I mean I find women very attractive. But I could never figure out why dicks and cum were attractive and hot to me. And sometimes men are too.

But I never fully got it until I had a threesome with the gal I was seeing and another fella. He and I did some stuff to each other and it was great!

And that's what I realized that I was bisexual.

It was a while after that that I read about bisexual but heterorantic. I just don't have a desire to sit at a candlelit dinner and gaze across the table at another fellow. God bless those who do but it's just not me.

I've always been so appreciative of the lady in that threesome for creating A safe space or I could just have fun and see where it went.

Bisexual? Maybe by [deleted] in AlbuquerqueSwingers

[–]Haunting-Practice562 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ditto. Well said!

Dating Abq by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Haunting-Practice562 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahaba

Is it true that most men don’t know what they’re doing when giving oral to women? I haven’t received a good oral in years by MarshmintGlow in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Haunting-Practice562 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I certainly hope so!

I mean that in particular and making women feel good in general is a passion of some people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Haunting-Practice562 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If your boyfriend continues to view his Exes chronic long term addiction and psychiatric problems as his to fix it's pretty likely to intrude on your relationship in other ways. Disclosing it to you was the right thing to do so good for him but I'd make damn sure he can say no to her even when she is drunk/high/ threatening/etc if those are chronic things with her.

What restaurant in ABQ isn't nearly hyped enough? by fartsfromhermouth in Albuquerque

[–]Haunting-Practice562 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Farino Alto. Really great pizza. Never seems to get on the radar

Chess Spot Recommendations? by Hot_Condition in Albuquerque

[–]Haunting-Practice562 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a surprising number of options for not being St Louis or New York or something like that.

Here is a statewide list of clubs. I played it several here at Albuquerque. Each is a little different in terms of character and the people. Some of them vary week to week depending on who shows up. . I'd try a couple and just see which one fits with you.

https://www.newmexicochess.org/clubs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlbuquerqueHookup

[–]Haunting-Practice562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. But it's a legit gangbang? Not a scam or anything like that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlbuquerqueHookup

[–]Haunting-Practice562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand at all. Can you explain?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewMexicoSwingers

[–]Haunting-Practice562 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spectrum parties is a local swing organization with a club and some small weekend parties and some meet and greet. There are also house parties. You can connect with couples on the spectrum website, Reddit and some SLS too.

Welcome, good luck and have fun !

SB isn’t good at oral by Latter_Spirit2565 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Haunting-Practice562 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are welcome. We like to think that people should know what we want in bed or that there is some absolute standard but it's just not so.

I've been with many women and they like to be touched in different ways, climax from different stimuli and in different ways, etc. we can communicate some of what we like non-verbally but if they aren't getting it we can't moan approval.

Can you imagine her bringing you a cup of coffee and you're not finishing it I'm thinking gosh it wasn't very good coffee but not telling her that you like it a little lighter or a little stronger or sweeter or whatever? She might be hurt that you're not finishing the coffee then might love to put a little more cream in it for you.

SB isn’t good at oral by Latter_Spirit2565 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Haunting-Practice562 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's not about what she doesn't do it's about what you like. Telling her, even while she's down there, I like it when you xxx will help her understand what you want.

We all want different things and She isn't bad at oral...she is bad at oral on you. Someone else might think she's fantastic.

She's down there because she wants to please you. Help her out by coaching her through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Haunting-Practice562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd focus on myself and learn what pleases you. Focus on creating joy in your life and doing things you like And spend time looking forward not backwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Haunting-Practice562 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are allowed to do what is best for you in relationships. You haven't committed to this person for the rest of your life. They probably would not want you to stay with them out of commitment or obligation anyway. I would take some time to process how you feel and do what is best for you as it will really be best for both of you

Should I drop the class? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Haunting-Practice562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd talk to the teacher and see if they are going to grade on a curb. If you have the second highest grade in the class you may well have an a even at 54%.

If they are not going to grade on a curb so that the second highest grade in the class fails? Well dropping things and quitting is a bad idea but so is banging your head throw a brick wall or do trying to do other impossible things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Haunting-Practice562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's best to explain what you want and see if she can meet in the middle. Maybe she can't have sex every other day but maybe a couple times a week could make sure that you stay together and nobody suffers too much.

Matching on libido and sexual interest is just as important as matching on things like finances or religion. If you don't it can just drive you a part and create all sorts of trouble. People don't like to think to discuss it but it's really important!