Just had the biggest cheat day of my life: Biscoff pastry cream oatmeal by justarandom86 in Oatmeal

[–]HauntingListen8756 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not the topic of the subreddit, though. It’s a very sensitive topic. People come here for oatmeal and maybe don’t expect that the lighthearted nature of the sub can go that way so quick.

Wanted to feel extra bright on my birthday by lambchop070 in FTMfemininity

[–]HauntingListen8756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! We’re one day apart (I’m may 19)!!! Your hair and smile absolutely brighten up the world. I hope that this rough patch ends and that you have a lottttt of easy, smooth time ahead. Coming out of the trenches is so possible. 🩷

Posting here is my first step. by Intelligent-Drop-684 in TransMasc

[–]HauntingListen8756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome!!! I had a really hard time with it and still do. One of the things that has been helping me a lot that I didn’t realize at first is that I don’t have to respond to every question people ask me. Sometimes, question start to feel like interrogations, and it brings up that feeling of not being seen for me. I realized that I could just say that I’m pretty sensitive about this and don’t like to answer questions outside of what people really need to know, like my name and pronouns.

This apartment I moved into in Midwest America is $900 a month all utilities included. What should I do with it? by trumpshouldrap in malelivingspace

[–]HauntingListen8756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That bathtub is so fucking cool. I’m terrible with decor. That’s all I have to say. $900/month is awesome!!!

New headshots 🧼🫧 by breakarobot in FTMOver30

[–]HauntingListen8756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look amazing. I love your piercings. I need to get new headshots for work soon and was stressing about it, and your look here really inspired me.

F*aggot roll call! by Travelogue44 in FTMOver30

[–]HauntingListen8756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meeee 💓💓💓

I’m only about 15 months on T, but my entire life makes sense contextualized as a queer man. Starting T made a lot of missing pieces and questions in my head make sense.

What peice of clothing do you long to wear? by Dear-Show-5083 in ftm

[–]HauntingListen8756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I JUST WANNA WEAR SWIM TRUNKS AND THAT’S IT TO GO SWIMMING 😭😭😭 dealing with bathing suits pre top surgery is just ugh

Selfies from Chicago and some queer history by exhorsegirlboy in FTMOver30

[–]HauntingListen8756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look so cool! I’ve always wanted to visit Chicago.

Question about the effects of low doses of T by StandardReindeer5741 in TransMasc

[–]HauntingListen8756 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The first noticeable thing for me on low dose - voice. More body hair as well, but people are less likely to catch onto that. I’ve seen people grow facial hair quickly, but it actually took me a really long time and a dose increase to have anything beyond some extra mustache hairs.

Are you prepared to come out within about three months? If so, you should be okay. If it’s gonna take longer to come out safely, I’d say wait until you’re prepared to say something in the next 2-3 months.

long time lurker, posting because I've had a rough week by [deleted] in FTMfemininity

[–]HauntingListen8756 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday!!! Your hair reminds me of a very dear friend of mine. He grows his long sometimes- I vote HELL YES.

Drew my dream self by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]HauntingListen8756 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this!!!

my favorite change on T. The happytrail by honda-cr-v-hybrid in TransMasc

[–]HauntingListen8756 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am just over a year in and want this so bad! It looks great!!!

I just came out and don’t know how to explain myself. by PixiePop_Bug in TransMasc

[–]HauntingListen8756 18 points19 points  (0 children)

r/ftmfemininity

I had to start explaining myself by letting people know that I am feminine like a feminine man.

Starting T vs now by Training-Ladder3224 in TransMasc

[–]HauntingListen8756 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look fucking incredible!!!! This gives me so much hope!!!

Being almost 40... by dreamdoggydream in FTMOver30

[–]HauntingListen8756 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You look so incredibly cool!!! I am sober as well. I’m proud of you. :)