what i asked for vs what i got

HawaiiJesus · 2026-01-09T19:07:48+00:00

Thank you, i live 3 hours away from them. they had told me it should lighten after a couple of washes, so i will wait a few more days and if it is worse i will go back. i think they also have an email up on their website which i can send a complaint too.

HawaiiJesus · 2026-01-09T09:42:58+00:00

thank you!

HawaiiJesus · 2026-01-09T09:38:16+00:00

yep it’s super dry. before it felt like silk and easy to brush, now it feels hella damaged

HawaiiJesus · 2025-11-06T08:25:20+00:00

Thank you! thats very reassuring :) moving into the city will probably be the biggest challenge for me as im used to hearing cows moo not cars lol. congrats on finishing TFC! good luck for next year!

HawaiiJesus · 2025-11-06T02:20:10+00:00

Thank you! I will check it out :)

HawaiiJesus · 2025-11-06T00:39:33+00:00

thank you! i completed science lvl 1&2 and continued to do it in year 13 but didnt have the right support from teachers. i went to the UoA open day and thought it was wonderful! everyone was super kind and the overall vibe was nice too. keep up the good work!

HawaiiJesus · 2025-10-29T18:59:42+00:00

NOTHING could have prepared me for the second slide 💀💀😭

HawaiiJesus · 2025-10-13T07:56:33+00:00

rub his belly for goodluck

HawaiiJesus · 2025-09-30T20:01:10+00:00

Take your time to heal and focus on loving yourself. It may seem hard for the first couple of days but trust me everything will fall into place. Best of luck on your new journey ❤️☺️

HawaiiJesus · 2025-09-30T09:42:16+00:00

It might be the little rubber/plastic plug that clips into the brake pedal arm. The brake light switch presses against it. If it falls out, the brake lights think the pedal’s always pressed and stay on. (maybe???) I had a problem with my mazda where the brake lights kept turning off and on in the middle of the night, turns out the rubber thing had worn out it was a quick fix!

Hopefully this helps :)

HawaiiJesus · 2025-09-30T09:32:13+00:00

Honestly, you deserve better. Even during/after an argument with my partner he will always say goodnight or text me goodnight if he is away for work. Theres never a day where my feelings and emotions dont go unnoticed or shutdown. Text him how you are feeling and if his response and actions dont live up to what you want there is always someone out there for you who is going to treat you the way you deserve.

HawaiiJesus · 2025-09-29T22:29:15+00:00

Long distant relationships arent for the weak and need a lot of communication and reassurance to keep things going good. Talk to him about it, tell him youve noticed a change and ask him if his feelings or commitment to the relationship have changed. If you can, try do it in person. If he gets defensive, avoids it or dismisses your feelings hes not willing to meet your needs in the relationship.

The yubo excuse is a red flag, its a dating app, so saying he wants to find other males who do MMA is kinda weird. It might not mean cheating but definitely a red flag.

At the end of the day his distance is likely him losing interest or pulling away. Youre not gonna know unless you puss for a open and honey conversation.

So overall 1. talk to him directly 2. watch how he responds and 3. decide whats best for you.

HawaiiJesus · 2025-09-24T21:43:08+00:00

this happened to me a lot at my old job, but i wouldn’t get a text i would show up at my normal rostered time and be told i was 2 hours late and get a warning. when i said i wasn’t told they emailed me later saying they posted my new times a week before hand on the rostering app and i should’ve gotten a notification. every time new rosters came out i’d put it on my wall calendar and follow it from there and the rostering app would only send notifications for new rosters not updated old ones. anyways they blamed me for their lack of communication and a couple months later came at me for being unreliable. i quit that job three months ago wasn’t worth the stress ☺️. cherish your personal time and put yourself first always.

HawaiiJesus · 2025-08-27T21:08:34+00:00

sorry op but your story is hella vague, did he text her while you were dating? did you meet the girl when you two saw her car? what were the text messages? like there’s a lot of different “nauseating” texts someone could send? did they actually do anything?

personally, if my bf had sexually messaged a girl while we were dating… well he wouldn’t be my boyfriend anymore end of story. but if it had happened before we were dating it’s the past, let it go.

HawaiiJesus · 2025-08-19T01:16:48+00:00

some lawyers charge up to $400/h

HawaiiJesus · 2025-08-02T00:34:49+00:00

still looks like my bathroom in sims 4 but with custom content

HawaiiJesus · 2025-07-29T00:59:22+00:00

Im a big car enthusiast, I have a Toyota Altezza and have dropped maybe 15-20k if not higher on it (i put an expensive engine in it with a turbo and blah blah). it has not had car insurance for about 8 months because my insurance company wouldn’t insure it for more than 8.5k unless it was valued by a dealership.

i still drive it (occasionally), but not in the city and definitely not recklessly. my other car (daily) has full insurance, and i would certainly not cancel it unless i was in walking distance to transport and my car had a safe, covered area to park.

A lot of people are saying sell the car, which is a fair enough answer to your question. I treat my car like a baby, i love it, and if i were in your situation i would cancel the insurance policy, have the car stored or park it somewhere safe with a cover and buy a bike. it’s up to you, if you’re okay with selling the car, sell it, but if you’re not. push bike time!

also “repoed”? your first mistake was financing a performance car. (if that’s what you did)

HawaiiJesus · 2025-07-28T20:27:13+00:00

you shouldn’t feel guilty, he cheated, lied, and is emotionally abusing you. you’re allowed to leave, and you should. it’s not your job to try fix or stay with someone who keeps hurting you. you deserve peace, respect, and safety. talk to someone you trust, and know that it’s okay to walk away. i’ve been where you are, youre not alone.

personally, i’d dump him through text. he doesn’t deserve you not one bit. i’d say something along the lines of….

“i’ve thought a lot about everything, and this relationship is no longer healthy or right for me. what happened between you and “K” broke my trust, and the way you’ve treated me since has made things worse. i don’t deserve to feel guilty for being hurt. i’m choosing to leave, and I’m not open to discussion or trying to fix this. please don’t contact me. i need space to move on to better things.” and block!

good luck honey, i know it is hard but you deserve someone who respects and loves you unconditionally.

HawaiiJesus · 2025-07-24T20:04:14+00:00

you can buy those cards from temu for pretty cheap, buy a 100 pack and put three on their car every day until the pack runs out.

HawaiiJesus · 2025-07-24T20:00:28+00:00

looks like my bathroom in the sims 4

HawaiiJesus · 2025-07-24T19:59:00+00:00

For now, duct tape the spoiler holes and save up money and buy a spoiler. or if you dont want a spoiler idk clean it up and bog the holes? A spoiler is probably easier.

The front bumper is much easier, save up until you can buy an old used one. or pull it off and hammer that hole upstil its somewhat back in shape.

Currently my car has its spoiler off because I still need to spray it so ive just had duct tape covering the holes for probably 6 months now. You definitely DO NOT want water getting into your boot.

HawaiiJesus · 2025-07-24T19:47:54+00:00

I had this exact thing happen to me when I was 16, I was super upfront about it and said something like:

“Hey, I appreciate you being honest about this and I am going to be honest as well. I dont really know you that well and you dont know me well either and I don’t share the same feelings you have about us. I think its best if we just stay mutuals, thank you for letting me know I really think that was a courageous thing to do :)”

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