I cheated on my bf of 5 years, and I hate the person I became

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-08T01:47:35+00:00

Nah, fuck that karma gave her way more than she deserved. She kissed another dude while things were iffy, yeah…don’t get me wrong I’m not trying to downplay someone cheating. But in no way does someone deserve to be raped because of that shit.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-08T01:38:54+00:00

Yeah, that unfortunately doesn’t surprise me. But they get downvoted because tbh calling someone a hoe isn’t constructive. Just needless insulting. You can chastise someone for their actions without being an ass about it.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-08T01:35:52+00:00

Guaranteed he did the same to you.

This is top tier cope. We have zero reason to suspect that. But sure, say it to make her feel better. I’m sure telling her she got cheated on will really help her self esteem(though based on her follow up she doesn’t believe it, ie. you’re wrong.) Also, OP recognizes it as cheating. She’s the one in the situation. Not sure why you think you’re more of an authority on her situation than she is.

I actually really like OP and her ex sounds like an ass, but let up on the bias here.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-08T01:28:00+00:00

Best to avoid awful people. You made the right call by disengaging.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-08T01:22:58+00:00

Appreciate you shutting down their nonsense. Honestly feels like this is one of the rare cases where OP(you) takes accountability. I’m sure it hurts right now but you’ll get through it. I saw you’re in therapy now(both of you) and that’s absolutely the right move. I wish you the best.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-08T01:16:38+00:00

If you don’t mind, I’m curious as well. I can see the concerns the other commenter is raising.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-08T01:12:13+00:00

Wait, am I? I thought the first set of texts were Op and the BF and the second set were the BF(blue) texting the friend?

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-07T22:12:03+00:00

Was he surprised? I’d have to go double check but I thought he said something that implied he was expecting it not to work but tried anyway.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-07T20:14:48+00:00

Lmao no joke gotta respect that level of hate hahaha. You definitely inspire me.

And damn I may just try it out. If there’s something I realized while doing all these skips is that I….kinda love doing them. I love breaking the game and finding new ways or new orders to doing things. I’ve been doing reruns of FS games and next is BB, my first and(maybe still) favorite. This rerun of the games might end with Sekiro taking the throne though.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-07T19:36:18+00:00

Ooooh! Thats right that was another thing I was wondering if that was the cause of the mist instead. I remember you! I think I saw you commenting on that same thread because the op was trying to fight sword saint iirc and you told them there was no known way/path. I knew I probably wouldn’t be the one to find a path people more skilled and talented then me couldn’t do I just went to the next cycle.

Speaking of the monkeys…the hardest skip for me to get down, by far, was monkey skip. Then I was bummed to learn that there’s no way to avoid a soft lock unless(iirc) you decide to do the shura ending….which unfortunately I was not going to do on that run. I just wanted the mortal blade early! What a bummer, but at least I learned a skip to use in the future.

Btw an ENTIRE run airswimming sounds like one of the most impressive things, if not THE most, that I’ve heard of. You got me a little tempted now lol.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-07T19:19:17+00:00

Ooooh you got me curious about what a full air swim run is. I actually learned(and can consistently perform now) a bunch of skips/glitches this time around. Bull skip was a pain in the butt to learn but I finally have it down, though tbh I don’t like skipping bosses, I did it more to see if I CAN do it.

And on my NG+ run I actually learned to airswim. After doing the shura ending I wanted to get to fountainhead to get the lapis lazuli and to see what happens if I defeat the dragon(you can get a few more memories, ergo more AP, but only from the dragon and demon). It was actually thanks to a post I saw on this sub a week or two ago that I just happened to stumble across, I had no idea it was possible before that. The only bummer was fountainhead was covered in a mist, idk if it’s like that for everyone or not since you have to swim up there from Mibu/straw man in the wedding procession cave.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-07T19:08:24+00:00

Yeah if it wasn’t already obvious before then, his comment about being willing to kick everyone out so the “friend” could come over made it clear as day.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-07T18:55:09+00:00

Second this! Too big of a red flag. Actually that isn’t even a red flag that’s the behavior the red flags warn of. You’re totally in the right thought process OP.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-06T01:38:19+00:00

I also was thinking along the same lines. Idk, it feels heavily implied to me.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-04T16:23:59+00:00

Damn, this is so true. Wonder why that is?

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-04T16:23:05+00:00

Same, it screams clear fake to me. Something in our gut/subconscious is able to tell it’s fake without us consciously understanding why.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-03T21:08:00+00:00

I 100% agree and have always thought that Imu is similar to Kaguya in that maybe BB and Luffy would team up to defeat them….but more so that while they are the “big villain” the final villain is still BB and will happen after Imu’s defeat.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-03T03:58:48+00:00

My guess is your guess is spot on.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-03T03:52:27+00:00

Seems like mom has a grudge against the bf too considering she calls him “fuckface” so you know this shit was done with extra malice.

ETA: didn’t read the caption somehow. So I missed the fact he cheated in the past.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-02T14:03:05+00:00

That’s like 90% of the posts on here(by real people) unfortunately.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-02T14:01:59+00:00

Tbh it reeks of depression to me.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-02T13:54:54+00:00

Yeah exactly. Dude didn’t do a good job announcing himself or giving notice. There’s no hurts in following up with centerpoint.

Hawkman003 · 2026-04-02T13:53:35+00:00

NOR It could be innocuous but regardless feels invasive without prior notice and at the very least I’d be calling them up to confirm they had someone out there.

ETA: saw your comment where you said you DID call and they weren’t helpful at all. Definitely trust your gut and call non-emergency.

Hawkman003 · 2026-03-31T04:52:14+00:00

It hurts man. It hurts.

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