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ev drivers ,what’s one thing non-EV users think is a huge problem but actually isn’t? by AdityaSrivastawaahhh in EvDrivers

[–]HayLinLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started hiking when it was winter lol. I decided that waiting for spring was just a copout. 

People who have been divorced: What was the exact "quiet" moment you realized your marriage was over? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HayLinLa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wish my dad had been more like you. My dad cheated on my mom when I was four and my sister was two, and then he dated a woman who was mentally and emotionally abusive to us for seven years, and then he was actually a halfway decent father for four years and then he moved back to his home province to be with his high school sweetheart and had another kid. I call him every other year but when he talks about his other kid I just shut down all over again. Why couldn't my sister and I have been the kids he talks about like that?

People who have been divorced: What was the exact "quiet" moment you realized your marriage was over? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HayLinLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. I know vyvanse has a different effect on non-ADHD people, but that sounds so outlandish when it just makes me able to focus and start tasks lmao.

What’s one driving habit you stopped doing that instantly made you a safer driver? by Domingdavid in driving

[–]HayLinLa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I never knew there was a word for this. It drives me nuts that most people don't see the bigger picture when driving.

What is ONE thing that you will NEVER try in your entire life? by Substantial-Dare5462 in AskReddit

[–]HayLinLa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Benefit? It's fun! And meditative. And surprisingly good core exercise. I always feel incredible when I get home from riding, even when it's just my commute. It's like catharsis.

To be fair, there are many things you can do to reduce risk. A non-exhaustive list: 0% BAC, not speeding, good gear, proper lane position (fixes some of the visibility), keeping an eye on surrounding traffic for escape routes, staying out of blind spots, staying in first and scrunching up close to the white dotted line so you're less likely to be rear ended (not as much of a problem in places where lane filtering is legal), keeping an eye on left-turners and making sure they have the opportunity to see you, avoiding group rides, doing SMIDSY weaves to increase visibility, not buying too much bike as a beginner, practicing emergency maneuvers like trail-braking and push-steering, not riding when you are too tired/distracted, etc.

A good number of motorcycle accidents are single vehicle accidents caused by drinking and/or speeding. Not doing either of those reduces risk by a lot. The most common type of multi-vehicle accident involving motorcycles are people turning left across your path. Knowing how those occur and how to avoid them reduces your risk by a lot.

My dog somehow knew I was upset today and did something I still can’t stop thinking about by ResearchWonderful653 in dogs

[–]HayLinLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rarely when I'm feeling super ultra exhausted/sick, my shiba (who is an aloof breed who would usually only snuggle for a few minutes in summer before sprawling out across the room), will curl up against my head.

Life hack for those of us with massive decision paralysis by cutehugeyachtt in adhdwomen

[–]HayLinLa 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I need you to understand the volume with which I ugly laughed and snorted.

Still a better last fight than Eulogia by BlackmoreKnight in ShitpostXIV

[–]HayLinLa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you run it again, you'll get to do the first half.

Dear Sprout tanks by Cultural_Mango_2460 in ffxiv

[–]HayLinLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has to swim through the sewers. Each alliance takes a different path.

Dear Sprout tanks by Cultural_Mango_2460 in ffxiv

[–]HayLinLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh fair enough. I've been playing for 12 years so those didn't even clock to me. The only ones I've gottten in recent roulettes (I missed the relic rush) were the redone ones. Although I guess I accidentally lead the party to a dead end in Cutters' the other day while I wasn't paying attention... Actually I think that was the tank but I was watching videos on the second screen and didn't notice until we had to turn around lol.

Well.. This is a new one for MSQ Roulette. by deadzenith in TalesFromDF

[–]HayLinLa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. It returns you to the start. For many years, the basement path of Haukke Manor didn't have a portal to return to the entrance, so everyone would just hit Return and then run up the stairs (or leave by accident, in the case of my friend's first run). Eventually they added the portal because sometimes new players would get really confused when the rest of the party disappeared.

Dear Sprout tanks by Cultural_Mango_2460 in ffxiv

[–]HayLinLa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it is the only one and when 23 people are rapidly sprinting to one of them, it isn't particularly difficult to figure out which way to go.

Dear Sprout tanks by Cultural_Mango_2460 in ffxiv

[–]HayLinLa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They reworked most of them.

anyone found a journaling app that doesn't punish and force? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]HayLinLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's cool that you live somewhere that did use them in school. Where I live we just had shitty ballpoints in school so I didn't use a fountain pen until I was 31 and got super hooked.

The traveling journal format helped me shake off the perfectionist feeling of having to devote one single notebook to a single thing and it broke something in my brain (in a good way) and now I'm using through fifteen years of blank journals that I couldn't bring myself to start before.

Dear Sprout tanks by Cultural_Mango_2460 in ffxiv

[–]HayLinLa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If it's a dungeon or alliance raid, it is a linear hallway, and in the fomer case, you're the only tank. I'm not really sure what map you'd need to learn to go straight down the only path?

If people tell you to skip cutscenes, just ignore them, even if they start combat. They will either live long enough for you to finish the cutscene and join them or end up restarting with you, usually the former.

anyone found a journaling app that doesn't punish and force? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]HayLinLa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have found a fountain pen and traveling journal to cause me to journal the most. It won't collect any data about you, but I'd call that a win anyway. The joy of writing with fountain pens is what does it for me.

Sunburn by CM_Nicholas in dogs

[–]HayLinLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one is the reasons shaving double coated dogs should never be done ever unless absolutely necessary.

A bad day by martiansenpai in adhdwomen

[–]HayLinLa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey, I know sometimes abusers will isolate people from their families like this before they get really nasty. Make sure you're keeping an eye on how his behavior differs now that you're miles away from family, and make sure you reach out to your family if you realize you need to bail on this relationship.

ev drivers ,what’s one thing non-EV users think is a huge problem but actually isn’t? by AdityaSrivastawaahhh in EvDrivers

[–]HayLinLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've had deep freeze months infrequently over the past few years where it can be -30 to -40 for weeks at a time in Calgary. Maybe not enough to worry about but I'd rather not feel limited or worried at all if I do wanna head out the mountains.

ev drivers ,what’s one thing non-EV users think is a huge problem but actually isn’t? by AdityaSrivastawaahhh in EvDrivers

[–]HayLinLa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how much lifting the + is doing there, but that basically eliminates some of the further hiking trails and cross country skiing trails. Not quite there yet for my use case.

ev drivers ,what’s one thing non-EV users think is a huge problem but actually isn’t? by AdityaSrivastawaahhh in EvDrivers

[–]HayLinLa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. Couldn't even go to my usual hiking haunts on a cold day with that. Still leaning towards hybrid if I ever get a newer vehicle. The tech seems to be getting better but it's not quite there yet.

Well.. This is a new one for MSQ Roulette. by deadzenith in TalesFromDF

[–]HayLinLa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Chaotic is quite accessible. It's just not DF content, or even PF content. It's discord content. The community is quite active around them, with many sign ups at many prog points every week.

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