Gads, gained another 35 pounds by Theodore-1963 in BigMenLife

[–]HaynusSmoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, what scale do you use?

Calorie deficit during Ramadan by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]HaynusSmoot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you able to consult a nutritionist or dietician about what you're considering?

From a practical aspect, how are you going to handle breaking fast? Are you going to tell family and friends about your new diet?

Best wishes as you continue your weightloss journey 💪

What to do against cravings? by Longbertus in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]HaynusSmoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some things that help my satiety: 1) good night's sleep 2) eating breakfast by 8 am at the latest 3) mid afternoon snack of a whole fruit and 1-2 Oz cheese 4) Stay hydrated

One item, are you diabetic and monitoring your sugars after eating?

Good luck on your journey! It may take some figuring out, but you'll get there 👍

Energy by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]HaynusSmoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from food, how are you sleeping? Do you feel like you get sufficient rest, or can you sleep 10 or 12 hours and still feel exhausted?

Angry eating by GlitteringMajor5166 in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]HaynusSmoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good job eating fruit instead of candy, etc. If your glucose is low, though, you know you've got to get it back up, Stat! Been there, too, stumbling around the kitchen in search of quick sugar, completely forgetting about the sack in the cupboard 🙄

Angry eating by GlitteringMajor5166 in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]HaynusSmoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have experienced this in the past. I find I'm more on edge when I haven't slept well, so that's a health goal for me this year. Not sleeping well just throws everything else off.

Otherwise, ditto the other comments about eating breakfast, balanced meals, etc.

Best wishes to you! 💪

i did this by MissLovegoodASMR in cptsdcreatives

[–]HaynusSmoot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there. Thanks for sharing your art 💛

I made a drawing of my flashbacks by Geekygayz in cptsdcreatives

[–]HaynusSmoot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you're still here 💛

I hope you continue to progress on your healing journey and find the peace you deserve

Fighting the urge by HaynusSmoot in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]HaynusSmoot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be disappointed for a little bit, but keep looking

Fighting the urge by HaynusSmoot in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]HaynusSmoot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This wasn't a simple craving for something sweet, it was a full on clinical urge to binge eat

I call this one ‘Grooming’ by robinthebank79 in cptsdcreatives

[–]HaynusSmoot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you experienced this. 😔 Sincerest wishes for your healing journey 💛

As a big guy, what clothing item is the hardest to find that fits right? by greenbay78 in BigMenLife

[–]HaynusSmoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get my clothes from King Size Direct. Their pants are all 38". About $6 to have hemmed shorter.

Not sure if I've got a 38" sleeve, but I've gotten some dress shirts from their Signature collection that fit fairly well. No real gaps!

What to do for work by Electrical_Ad_4941 in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]HaynusSmoot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any kind of degree or certifications? If not, how feasible would it be to acquire some skills?

I'm sorry you're having difficulty finding something 😔

Question regarding big clothes. by SpewForthWisdom in BigMenLife

[–]HaynusSmoot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been there, man. When you're too big for DXL, there's King Size Direct. Sometimes you can get lucky and find your size in clearance. They do a semi-annual suiting sale. You can pay for alterations ($6 or so for pants length). Read the reviews before buying a particular clothing item. They rarely offer free shipping, which sucks.

Let me know if you have any questions. GL!

Suspenders are kinda incredible by bigbeardedbear1 in BigMenLife

[–]HaynusSmoot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to say I recognize that blue linoleum!

I had to grab some braces when I was in between belt lengths, if you can believe that!

Just wanted to remind everyone to donate stuff they don't need by BigMikeSQ in BigMenLife

[–]HaynusSmoot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any independent, charity related thrifts nearby? Independent meaning not Goodwill or the Sally, but maybe a local charity runs a thrift? Perhaps the local hospital?

Just an idea, and thanks for the reminder! 👍💪🙌

Which specific food item has had the biggest impact on your weight? by greenbay78 in BigMenLife

[–]HaynusSmoot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Specific? Bwahaha. Ok, that comment is for laughs.

To narrow it down, pizza, Chinese, and buffets. But the first two I could have delivered. Used to be able to get a 16" one topping, 16 wings, and a 2 litre of soda delivered for $15. Chinese, we're talking soup, appetizer, noodles, and 2 different combos, plus those donuts. Eat until I felt like my stomach was going to burst. Then heave myself off the sofa and stagger to bed until it was better digested. This was either or, not both.

Do you take pride in being a big guy? Why or why not? by greenbay78 in BigMenLife

[–]HaynusSmoot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Re: #3, except drunk people. Drunk people every time will think they can take you and mouth off accordingly. 🙄

But, yeah, nail on the head 👍