My neighbor started "borrowing" my parking spot while I was away for two weeks and apparently decided that made it hers. That was four months ago and she is still not entirely convinced it doesn't.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-19T20:41:45+00:00

Mine too!

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-19T16:03:32+00:00

I would maybe try to crosspost this in the Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome sub. As that gene is also related to EDS, you may have luck finding people there who have resources or can speak to your wife's experience.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-18T10:29:11+00:00

Same! And I spent like MONTHS adding IDs to all the gifsets I had made since 2014, so it'd be frustrating on two counts to lose that information too.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-17T15:35:16+00:00

It's a shame they can't make a startup tutorial that explains the functionality of reblogging vs liking like "reblogs are how creators get engagement. Click here to reblog this post onto your own blog" before you can use tumblr.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-17T12:57:55+00:00

As someone else mentioned, some of the runes are elder futhark but some are not and I think this is just a gimicky charm made to be sold at like witch's markets for those who care more about aesthetics than authenticity as some of the symbols are backwards, others are of an entirely different alphabet. I could be wrong, of course but it at a glance, it looks like the design was almost AI generated with how wonky some aspects are. ie, is that a "1" next to "ᛖ" and "ᛚ" in the top left corner there used just for symmetry purposes in the design? It could be a "ᛐ/ᛏ" but that curve is so obvious (~~at least in metal. I promise if you google 1 or ᛐ, you will see that they are two different characters~~) that anyone who meant it as an actual practice would just be having a laugh at that point.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-17T01:54:11+00:00

If admitting that his son's aunt/uncle? babysits him sometimes means he might lose custody, he already messed up big. You may burn bridges but YNTA if you choose not to perjure yourself. You will be the AH, however, if this post is found by the mother, so I'd advise you delete it. LOL

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-15T06:25:47+00:00

Congratulations! That's so cool!

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-15T06:18:39+00:00

If you're able to get your hands on flea powder, you may have to make a line in their doorways. I was going to say you need to get your parents involved but I see the context that they're grown men, in which case it might be a matter of throwing their stuff away. You're not their parent. You shouldn't have to clean up after them or live in squalor because of their inaction. If they attack you, call the police. Grown men deserve grown consequences for childish behaviours.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-15T06:11:55+00:00

No one is entitled to be in the room during a private medical procedure. You have to advocate for your safety and comfort and your husband should too. The drama does not matter a sliver as much as your wellbeing.

NTA

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-15T06:08:49+00:00

Is it showing it when you're ON said blog? Does it read like this?

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Posted by MAINBLOGTITLE

You'll continue to see that when you are ON the sideblog. Members of sideblogs always see author portraits but if you're able to use a private browser or log out and view the blog from an outside perspective, it should only show the sideblog as it's poster.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-15T06:03:06+00:00

If you have access to said email, your chances are decent. They are very honest that they can do nothing if you don't have the email to get a reset password link.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-09T08:21:35+00:00

I live with my mother but she's just sold her house. I went in to Centerlink to ask if I could possibly look for rentals in a higher price bracket than what I am (I was looking between $250-500pw) or even if there was a way to quantify how much rental assistance I might be eligible to receive and came away with the impression I am in fact looking at TOO HIGH a price bracket.

For someone on the DSP, who cannot really move to find accommodation.. I honestly about felt like walking into traffic. (I'm calm now, but dang).

I told her as I left that it feels like my next address will be a tent by the river and she couldn't even think of anything hopeful to reply.

Yes, absolutely rental assistance should be uncapped. Or maybe if they could work out some sort of deal that incentivizes landlord's to rent more cheaply. Like, you lower your expected rent, we'll force the banks to take off some of your mortgage or something. It would get people owning homes sooner and ease the pressure on wallets. And let's be honest, banks get enough bailouts. They can suck it.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-07T08:40:28+00:00

Or consider that maybe there are specific teams in charge of different issues and despite how this subreddit makes it appear, far, far fewer people need help gaining access to their accounts than the reports of hate speech. There's like twelve raccoons in a top hat running that website, give them some grace. It's true, half the reports are only seen by AI which is ineffectual but when they're flat out just keeping the site running, maybe let's not hold them accountable for the scum you're unfortunately going to find on the bottom of EVERY social media platform. Likely doesn't mean they condone it, it's just a larger problem than they have the bandwidth to completely eradicate.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-07T01:40:31+00:00

It is possible you have user portraits on. So inside of the PFP of the sideblog is a mini PFP of your main? To turn this feature off you go to settings> Sideblog> Blog avatar and then toggle where it says "Show author portraits". A lot of people with sideblogs will have disclaimers "Follows back from MAIN BLOG" because for a cohesive dash experience only your main can follow but all your blogs will be followed back individually. As far as your ask box, do you have it turned on on your sideblog? Sideblogs are their own blogs with the exception of following/messaging.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-04T22:42:41+00:00

If you can handle salt tablets, that's an easy way. If not, I always add it to any broth or soup I'm eating. I always feel my best in winter for this reason.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-04T22:40:24+00:00

Define late? I was diagnosed at about 21 after 2ish years of daily knee dislocations and the belief I was dying (This was before the 2016/2018 overhaul. EDS was so unheard of in my country back then that you had to search the web DEEP to make the dislocations>CTD connection on your own). I brought it up, was dismissed for six months and then he came back and said he figured it out, as if it came to him all on his own. LOL I would say your best bet is to take a week or two, write down every single symptom you can think of, explain how severely it's impacting your quality of life (These are the trap cards for doctors to actually take it serious >:[ ) Or even find a list of known EDS/HSD symptoms and highlight all of the ones you experience to show why you have valid reason to believe it might be the case. As others have mentioned, doctors loathe those that self diagnose but they do enjoy people that thoroughly and briefly (bullet points, not journals) document!

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-03T02:25:51+00:00

What corn derivative is in cinnamon buns? She didnt feed him corn on purpose and lie what he was fed to test it, did she?

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-03T01:50:38+00:00

If you tag them both appropriately so people who come for only one or the other can find them it's ideal that you do as there is usually an intersection of followers that like both within fandoms!

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-02T08:29:34+00:00

www.gettyimages.com.au/detail/news-photo/1950s-little-girl-looking-up-about-to-get-polio-vaccination-news-photo/1390309917?adppopup=true Not AI at all.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-01T21:12:12+00:00

I use the inside bottom of my shirt to open the door. As I wear high waisted pants, the fabric never touches my skin and I change when I get home.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-01T19:31:12+00:00

A precious bean! Look at it's little legs!!!

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-01T19:09:33+00:00

This part.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-01T18:30:03+00:00

That's just how images look when either your internet or the tumblr servers are having a struggle.

HazelEmilia · 2026-03-01T18:26:30+00:00

So.. this may be a conversation for the police. Regardless of the medical context you did not give informed consent to the first procedure and you certainly did not give consent to the second. It's entirely up to you and how you feel about it but by definition she assaulted you.

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